Actually, I Like My Spouse

Love It or Leave It: Relationship Hot Takes

Download our FREE 5-minute Weekly Marriage Scorecard [https://kreasha-lmeoc7yg.scoreapp.com/%C2%A0] for you and your spouse to check in on your relationship! This is a GAMECHANGER! In this episode of 'Actually, I Like My Spouse,' we dive into our weekly segment called 'Love It or Leave It,' where we discuss some of the hottest relationship takes from the internet. We tackle topics like the importance of weekly date nights, whether to go to bed angry, if your partner should be your best friend, and the famous saying 'Happy Wife, Happy Life.' We also talk about the necessity of separate bank accounts, the benefits of therapy for couples, sharing phone passwords, and setting realistic boundaries in relationships. Join us as we share our perspectives and insights! 00:00 Introduction to 'Love It or Leave It' 00:41 Date Nights: Weekly Ritual or Unrealistic Pressure? 02:47 Never Go to Bed Angry: Toxic Positivity or Peace Practice? 04:50 Should Your Partner Be Your Best Friend? 06:56 Happy Wife, Happy Life: Wisdom or Low Effort? 08:38 Separate Bank Accounts: Financial Independence or Division? 10:18 Couples Therapy: Preventative or Overkill? 12:28 Knowing Each Other's Phone Passwords: Trust or Control? 13:30 Can Your Partner Be Your Everything? 14:30 Should You Have to Ask for What You Need? 15:15 Conclusion and Podcast Promotion

Your Spouse Is NOT The Enemy!

Join the community where we send out a newsletter made for couples like you to dive deep into your partnership bringing fun, faith, and friendship back to LOVE. https://ailms.myflodesk.com/whystartailms  [https://ailms.myflodesk.com/whystartailms ] It’s not a fight against each other, it’s fight against the problem. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:41 Technical Difficulties and Reshoot 02:33 Emotional Impact of Reshooting 04:40 Navigating Personal Challenges 06:07 Commitment and Authenticity 07:13 Love, Heal, Inspire 11:11 Your Spouse Is Not The Enemy 12:22 A Little Bit About A Lot with Big Daddy Mike 12:36 The History of Black Television 17:07 Why We Sometimes Feel Like Our Spouse Is The Enemy 28:47 Emotional Hijacking and The Real Enemy 34:02 Ego and Individuality in Modern Marriages 35:27 Core Values and Communication 35:58 Invisible Labor and Relationship Dynamics 37:56 Resentment and Stonewalling 47:22 Trusting in God's Plan 49:42 Shifting Mindsets and Conflict Resolution 01:02:40 The Importance of Friendship in Marriage 01:06:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Discover the truth about your marriage and learn how to strengthen your relationship by shifting your perspective. In this video, we explore the common misconception that our spouse is the enemy, and how this mindset can harm our marriage. By recognizing that our partner is not the adversary, we can work together to build a stronger, more loving relationship. Learn how to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and nurture a deeper connection with your spouse. If you're looking for a more harmonious and fulfilling marriage, this video is for you. Watch now and start building a stronger, happier relationship with your partner.  #relationshipadvice #marriageadvice #marriagegoals #marriagelife #marriedlife #healthymarriage #happiermarriage #healthyconflict #psychology

Is Your Marriage Relationship Goals? Redefining Relationship Goals: Beyond the Instagram Image

Join the community [https://ailms.myflodesk.com/whystartailms] where we send out a newsletter made for couples like you to dive deep into your partnership bringing fun, faith, and friendship back to LOVE. Quentin Tarantino Clip Referenced [https://youtu.be/G6PoZreqlZ4] 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Goals 00:17 Welcome Back and Personal Updates 01:12 Defining Relationship Goals 01:30 The Great Lock In and Marriage Goals 03:49 Individualism in Marriage 04:31 Reflecting on Personal Goals 05:51 Supporting Each Other's Goals 08:46 Quentin Tarantino's Life-Changing Reflection 11:27 Role-Playing Exercise for Goal Setting 14:07 Career Reflections and Lessons Learned 24:43 Struggles in Medical School 25:03 Discovering Fashion Merchandising 26:18 Transition to Fashion Blogging 27:11 Chasing Money in Tech 28:40 Entrepreneurial Lessons Learned 33:50 Revisiting Dreams and Goals 41:32 Setting Realistic Goals for Couples 43:31 Encouragement for Couples and Individuals 47:51 Conclusion and Future Plans

The #1 Reason Your Marriage feels SO Hard!

Leave a comment we want to hear from yall! Ask Advice, Submit Your Marriage Story, Drop Us a Line [https://ailms.myflodesk.com/submitmystory] Find what type of marriage you have? [https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/6868032e2db4190015cdc935] Do the Weekly Scorecard with your Spouse [https://kreasha-lmeoc7yg.scoreapp.com/] 00:00 Introduction: Why Marriage Feels Hard 00:27 The Real Problem: It's You 00:48 Internal Baggage and Its Impact 03:40 The Journey Back Home: Self-Love, Self-Worth, and Self-Forgiveness 05:20 Self-Love: The Foundation of a Healthy Marriage 21:31 Self-Worth: Believing You Are Enough 22:20 Cultural Expectations and Self-Worth 23:04 Personal Journey to Self-Worth 23:34 The Role of Worthiness in Relationships 25:58 Navigating Worthiness in Marriage 33:39 The Power of Self-Forgiveness 46:00 Building a Supportive Community#marriageadvice #marriagepodcast #stonewalling #selflove #selfimprovement #selfforgiveness #yourmarriage #howtostaymarried #conflictresolution #marriageishard

Exploring Better Communication and Unmet Expectations in Marriage EPS 3

FREE Marriage Scorecard https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse [https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse] Welcome back to 'Actually, I Like My Spouse!' In this episode, Michael and Kreasha Webley dive deep into the foundation of a great marriage and whether marriage lives up to the hype. We discuss the importance of fun, faith, and friendship in a relationship, share personal stories from our journey, and offer tips on handling unmet expectations within a marriage. We also explore the concept of invisible labor, the significance of communication, and the need for setting realistic expectations. Plus, don't miss out on our 'Actually I Like My Spouse Weekly Scorecard' to help you and your partner improve your relationship. Join us for an insightful and candid conversation on love, marriage, and everything in between! 00:00 Welcome Back to 'I Like My Spouse' 00:44 Launching Our Podcast: Reflections and Feelings 03:49 Does Marriage Live Up to the Hype? 09:12 Expectations vs. Reality in Marriage 22:27 The Role of Faith and Friendship in Marriage 25:38 Understanding Contempt in Relationships 26:40 Unspoken Expectations and Communication 27:19 Using 'I' Statements to Improve Communication 28:54 Silent Score Keeping in Relationships 30:27 Addressing Unmet Expectations Around Intimacy 31:12 The Importance of Setting the Stage for Conversations 35:39 Unacknowledged Invisible Labor 38:57 The Role of Communication in Managing Expectations 43:02 Baseline Expectations in Partnerships 47:19 Weekly Scorecard Challenge#marraigecouple #marriageadvice #communicationinmarriage #silenttreatment #communicationskills