Akiona Law Podcast

The Akiona Law Podcast Video: Featuring Jesse Deason

In this episode of the Akiona Law podcast, Ululani “Lani”  Akiona speaks with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and owner of Serene Divorce Planning, Jesse Deason. Jesse explains how financial neutrals use "what-if" modeling to help clients in Collaborative Divorce navigate real estate and cash flow considerations. She outlines the essential prep work required, from gathering tax returns to building a realistic post-divorce budget. While Jesse emphasizes the value of neutrals for complex assets such as equity compensation, she also clarifies when a simpler case might not need one. The conversation highlights how professional financial guidance provides clarity and confidence during a difficult life transition. Jesse Deason, CFP®, CDFA®, EA   www.serenedivorce.com www.sereneplanning.com

The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Jesse Deason

In this episode of the Akiona Law podcast, Ululani “Lani”  Akiona speaks with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and owner of Serene Divorce Planning, Jesse Deason. Jesse explains how financial neutrals use "what-if" modeling to help clients in Collaborative Divorce navigate real estate and cash flow considerations. She outlines the essential prep work required, from gathering tax returns to building a realistic post-divorce budget. While Jesse emphasizes the value of neutrals for complex assets such as equity compensation, she also clarifies when a simpler case might not need one. The conversation highlights how professional financial guidance provides clarity and confidence during a difficult life transition.

The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Kathleen Burgler

In this episode, of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks with health and wellness coach, and certified divorce coach, Kathleen Burgler. Kathleen is also the author of “Forge Your Path: a workbook for intentional growth during end of marriage, divorce, and healing." The discussion highlights five essential keys to healing—including grounding and self-compassion—designed to help individuals reclaim their personal power through structured exercises.

The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Beth Hirnle

In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani“ Akiona, speaks with Emotion-Focused Trained Counselor and Collaborative Divorce Coach, Beth Hirnle. Beth is a board member of King County Collaborative Law (KCCL), and a member of Collaborative Professionals of WA (CPW), International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP), and Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC).   Beth and Lani dive into the transformative role of a collaborative divorce coach. Beth explains how collaborative divorce coaches manage the emotional dynamics and communications between couples. When children are involved, a collaborative divorce coach supports the transition from spouses to co-parents. She describes how coaches work alongside legal and financial professionals to create comprehensive divorce solutions that focus on the parties' long-term well-being. Beth emphasizes collaborative divorce coaches are not therapists. Instead, a collaborative divorce coach provides tools and strategies for effective communication during the divorce process, helping couples make informed decisions while maintaining respect and dignity. Lani’s conversation with Beth highlights how divorce coaches add value by making the process more efficient and cost-effective, while also providing support to the parties through individual meetings separate from the main collaborative team sessions.  Website: https://www.bethhirnlecoaching.com/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbXdLOUVsXzQyTjZPVl93QWhMVDNhbkJER3VzUXxBQ3Jtc0tuYmUxZU5Sb2FHbnBCeXB4cE94NEl6WVkzQ25Ob29wV1FoenBkMDNmWS1ZYjQ0UGxfRjBYV0ppdlR5RmptbmwtRFRPRGZPdDliTW9RRXlzM2FZSXJkT0xIN1BsTmVFTnRkYm1BVmFYZTV2MWZTSGtkVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bethhirnlecoaching.com%2F&v=OsRjDpdd8-0]

The Akiona Law Podcast: Parenting Plan Series with Meg Gluckman Part 4

In the final installment of our four-part series on parenting plans, Akiona Law Podcast host Ululani "Lani" Akiona and co-parenting coach and host of “Welcome to the Other Side” podcast, Meg Gluckman explore crucial aspects like child safety, effective communication strategies between parents and children, and maintaining open dialogue about family values. Lani and Meg provide practical advice for managing school and medical appointments, introducing new partners, and customizing plans to fit your family's unique traditions.  Update 8/19/2025: Since the recording of that podcast, Washington courts have released a new parenting plan form. Specifically, the section we referred to as "Section 14. Other" in the podcast is now designated as “Section 10. Other” in the court’s new parenting plan form.