Your Personality Is Not a Disorder: Social Media, Girls and Gen Z, with Freya India
Today on Ask a Jew, we’re joined by writer Freya India [https://substack.com/profile/20148231-freya-india], author of Girls: Generation Z and the Commodification of Everything [https://www.amazon.com/GIRLS%C2%AE-Generation-Z-Commodification-Everything/dp/1250442222], to talk about what growing up as a girl looks like in the age of Instagram, how we are all carrying generational trauma from Eve, and why not everything in your life is a problem to be fixed. Turns out we’re all just 13-year-old girls! Now go buy the book. [https://www.amazon.com/GIRLS%C2%AE-Generation-Z-Commodification-Everything/dp/1250442222]
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We also get into why social media can feel like a “rumination machine” for anxious girls, how beauty culture and Facetune turn teenagers into products, and why every normal feeling is suddenly language‑ified into a “disorder,” a “trauma,” or a “healing journey.” We also talk about what boys are seeing online, the rise of “looksmaxxing,” and whether anyone knows how to have a normal relationship anymore. If you’re a parent, a millennial/Gen X woman looking at Gen Z with horror, or a Gen Z girl trying to make sense of your own feed, this one is for you.
Also:
* Will the allure beauty box change your life?
* We are all just 13 year old girls
* Social media escalaes every trend o the extreme
* Not everything needs to be solved
* Is therapy a scam?
* We’re all trying to gain control
* social media is a rumination machine
* Beware of therapy talk
* Feeling anxious? you’re probably normal
* The stories we tell ourselves
* We all have generational trauma from Eve
* You think you need therapy? Go live in Somalia!
* Freya is so pretty
* Is every personality trait is a problem?
* We don’t care about your healing journeys
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