Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

I Dress You Because I Love You

Chesko and Regan kick off with some chaotic parent energy (haunted dolls, goblin accusations, and the recycling bin of shame) before diving into a viral video of a husband handing his wife a shirt to cover herself up. They break down why "he dresses you because he loves you" is a gateway to control, how tradwife influencers sell a lifestyle they don't actually live, and why women thriving after barriers are removed is apparently a crisis. From the manosphere as radicalization pipeline to DEI, legacy admits, and benevolent sexism, it's an episode full of pattern recognition and ranting. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ [https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/] Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater] https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy [http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes [https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes] Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ [https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/] Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com [http://www.thespeechprof.com/] TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof [http://www.tiktok.com/@speechprof] Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof [https://www.instagram.com/thespeechprof] Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof [https://www.facebook.com/thespeechprof] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf] Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic [https://www.instagram.com/saraspicermusic] and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister [https://www.instagram.com/iamfister]

Nice In Private, Insufferable In Public

After some fun cold-open chaos to the show (as per usual) Chesko and Regan dove into the main topic: Timothy Chalamet's repeated, dismissive comments about ballet and opera. They unpacked how his remarks aren't just a bad take in isolation, but fit a broader pattern of men seeking masculine credibility by devaluing feminized art forms. The conversation expanded into how Chalamet's whole rebrand feels like a failed attempt to be a hustle-culture alpha while still claiming the identity of a serious artist and drew comparisons to similar falls from grace by Chris Pratt, Zachary Levi, Hugh Jackman, and others. The episode wrapped with some lighter tangents about winking, grumpy resting faces, and anticipation for Michael B. Jordan's performance in Sinners. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ [https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/] Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater] https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy [http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes [https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes] Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ [https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/] Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com [http://www.thespeechprof.com/] TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof [http://www.tiktok.com/@speechprof] Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof [https://www.instagram.com/thespeechprof] Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof [https://www.facebook.com/thespeechprof] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf] Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic [https://www.instagram.com/saraspicermusic] and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister [https://www.instagram.com/iamfister]

U-S-A...MISO-GY-NY!!!

This episode of Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater kicks off with Chesko and Regan in a pre-show debate about whether Chesko's appeal is purely personality-based, before diving into their main topic: the US men's Olympic hockey team's gold medal win being overshadowed by misogynistic locker room behavior, Kash Patel's questionable presence in the celebration, and a Trump phone call that treated the equally-successful women's team as an afterthought. They also touch on other Olympics moments including Alyssa Liu's empowering conditions for returning to figure skating, Eileen Gu's brilliant handling of a dismissive reporter, and a Norwegian athlete's baffling post-medal public confession about cheating on his girlfriend...all framed through Chesko and Regan's mix of utter chaos, personal reflection, and laughs. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ [https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/] Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater] https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy [http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes [https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes] Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ [https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/] Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com [http://www.thespeechprof.com/] TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof [http://www.tiktok.com/@speechprof] Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof [https://www.instagram.com/thespeechprof] Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof [https://www.facebook.com/thespeechprof] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf] Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic [https://www.instagram.com/saraspicermusic] and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister [https://www.instagram.com/iamfister]

Men Aren't The Villains...We Are

In this week's lighter episode, Chesko and Regan take a break from the serious stuff and dive into a fun (and surprisingly self-reflective) conversation about what men find "attractive" in women's hobbies. Along the way, they sidetracked on everything from ghosts and psychics, to the joys and anxieties of gym culture, to their mutual struggle with personal style and ultimately concluding that this week's villains were none other than themselves. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ [https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/] Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater] https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy [http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes [https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes] Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ [https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/] Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com [http://www.thespeechprof.com/] TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof [http://www.tiktok.com/@speechprof] Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof [https://www.instagram.com/thespeechprof] Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof [https://www.facebook.com/thespeechprof] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf] Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic [https://www.instagram.com/saraspicermusic] and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister [https://www.instagram.com/iamfister]

Just Catfish Your Girlfriend, Bro

Chesko and Reagan tackle the bizarre world of "loyalty tests" where dating coaches advise men to catfish their own girlfriends to test fidelity. They dissect why this advice is not just insecure but fundamentally manipulative, explore how influencers profit from terrible relationship guidance, and discuss the broader culture of confident ignorance plaguing social media. The conversation spirals through anti-vax parallels, accountability vs. "cancel culture," and why being called out for bad behavior doesn't make you the victim. Plus: the new theme song reveal, thoughts on forgiveness and political cults, and why "I'm not a bad person" is often the worst defense. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ [https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/] Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater] https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy [http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes [https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes] Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ [https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/] Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com [http://www.thespeechprof.com/] TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof [http://www.tiktok.com/@speechprof] Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof [https://www.instagram.com/thespeechprof] Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof [https://www.facebook.com/thespeechprof] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf] Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic [https://www.instagram.com/saraspicermusic] and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister [https://www.instagram.com/iamfister]