Bougie and Boring - A Spa Business Podcast

Ep. 61 - {Part 3/3} Is Your Team Set Up to Succeed?

You've made it through 90 days. Now what? The way you close this reset matters just as much as how you opened it. Today we're covering the three possible outcomes, how to tell the difference between genuine improvement and someone who just performed well for 90 days, and how to close the conversation with integrity no matter what happens. You'll learn: * The three possible outcomes of a 90-day reset and why each one deserves a thoughtful, intentional conversation at the end. * What successful improvement actually looks like beyond the numbers, and how to celebrate progress while making it the new standard moving forward. * What to do when someone improves in some areas but still struggles in others. * Why partial improvement is often the most common outcome and what it can teach you about your team and your leadership. * The leadership shift that happens when you stop avoiding hard conversations and start following through on expectations. * Why letting someone go after months of support, clarity, and coaching is not a failure. * How to tell the difference between real growth and someone simply doing the bare minimum to get through the reset. * The questions to ask yourself before making a final decision, including reviewing notes, looking for patterns, and trusting what you've observed over time. * Why clear is kind, and how being direct can actually be the most respectful thing you do for someone. * How to approach a separation conversation with professionalism, compassion, and confidence. * Why the way you handle a dismissal matters just as much as the decision itself because your entire team is watching. * What to say to the rest of your team afterward so they feel informed, supported, and secure. * How to create a culture where people are treated with kindness, expectations are clear, and accountability is part of the standard, not the exception. Most importantly: arriving at the decision to separate from a team member through a 90-day reset does NOT mean you have failed. It means you gave that person clarity, support, and a real opportunity to improve. And if they couldn't do it, that's information worth acting on. Before your final conversation, review your check-in notes from the last 90 days. Look at all those patterns. Look for moments where their growth showed up naturally versus when it felt forced. Then trust that picture. This is Part 3 of 3. If you missed Parts 1 and 2, go back and listen. They're the foundation for everything we've covered today.

60. {Part 2/3} Is Your Team Set Up to Succeed?

You had the conversation. Your team member nodded and agreed. They seemed genuinely motivated. And then two weeks later, nothing changed. Everything is exactly the same. Here's why: a conversation without structure is just a conversation. It doesn't create accountability. It doesn't create clarity. And it definitely doesn't give your employee a roadmap to follow. Today, we're building the structure that actually makes a reset stick. You'll learn: * Why consistency matters more than intensity when it comes to improving team performance * The simple weekly check-in structure that keeps everyone supported and accountable without feeling overwhelming * What questions to ask during check-ins to create honest, productive conversations * Why comparing team members to each other quietly damages growth and confidence * How to help your team reframe rebooking as client care, not sales pressure * The importance of recognizing specific progress instead of only pointing out problems * Why documenting conversations protects both you and your employee * What to cover in 30-day and 60-day reviews so progress feels measurable and clear * Why your check-ins need to stay protected on the calendar if you want real change to happen * The role you play as the leader in making the reset successful through consistency, support, and follow through * How to give feedback in real time so issues don't build up into overwhelming conversations * Why your team will always take cues from your energy, communication, and expectations Two things to commit to: first, build your check-in structure before you start and protect it on both calendars. Second, understand that your role in this process is active, not passive. You're not just supervising. You're leading. Write down two or three things you're personally committing to as a leader during this reset. Not what you expect from them. What are you committing to? www.Amandaluisaconsulting.com [https://www.Amandaluisaconsulting.com]

59. Is Your Team Set Up to Succeed? Part 1/3

Do your team members actually know what's expected of them? Not in a general sense, but specifically and clearly in a way they can act on every single day? If you're dreading walking into work because you're dreading seeing your team, this three-part series is for you. Today, I'm introducing the 90-Day Employee Reset, one of the most powerful leadership tools I use in my spa. This is Part 1 of a three-part series on the 90-Day Employee Reset. It's something I've used many times in my spa, and it's something I'm always encouraging other spa owners to use with their team members. You'll learn: * Why I created the 90-Day Employee Reset and the moment I realized something needed to change * What this reset actually looks like and why it's rooted in clarity, not criticism * How to tell the difference between someone needing more support versus someone simply not being the right fit * Why so many spa owners struggle to clearly communicate expectations, even when they have high standards * How unspoken expectations quietly set your team up to fail * Why you need to evaluate team members based on how they perform inside your spa, not just their past experience * How to create realistic growth goals instead of expecting overnight transformation * The mindset shift that helped me stop people pleasing and start leading with long term growth in mind * Why accountability matters and how consequences create ownership within a team * How to have hard conversations with kindness, clarity, and respect while still protecting your business This is not a verdict. This is you working with your employee to devise a plan. You're not walking in with a clipboard full of complaints. You're leading with intention. Before you schedule this conversation, write down two to three specific things you want to address and what the positive expectation looks like going forward. Walk in with solutions, not just problems. In Part 2 next week, we're diving into the mechanics of how to actually build a reset that works, how to set goals that are specific without being overwhelming, and what your check-in rhythm should look like.

58. What a Realistic First Month of Meta Ads Looks Like for a Spa (new ads account vs returning ad client)

You just launched your first meta ad campaign. Week one passes. Nothing happens. Week two passes. Still nothing. You start panicking: "This isn't working. I'm wasting money." But here's the truth: ads don't work like viral posts. In this episode, Pamela Howe is back to walk us through what the first month of meta ads realistically looks like and why patience is your biggest asset. You'll learn: * What Meta's learning phase actually means and why your ads need time before they fully optimize * Why newer ad accounts usually take longer to perform than established ones * How Advantage+ targeting works so you can stop overthinking interests and let the algorithm do its job * Why Meta tests your ads across different placements like reels, stories, and feeds automatically * What metrics actually matter in the first week of running ads * Why your creative and messaging matter more than most spa owners think * How your campaign objective changes the cost and quality of your results * Why ads are not meant to "go viral" the way organic content does * How to look at ad performance without attaching emotion or panic to the numbers * The importance of patience, consistency, and giving your ads enough data before deciding they "don't work If you don't see bookings or leads in the first two weeks, that doesn't mean the ad is failing. It means you're still reeling the net in. Check the data: Have enough people seen this? Is the creative stopping the scroll? Is the copy carrying them through to action? Are you panicking because nothing happened in week one? Don't quit yet. The data will tell you what to tweak. Connect with Pamela Howe: * Website: www.howetomarket.com [http://www.howtomarket.com] * Instagram: @digitalpamelahow [https://www.instagram.com/digitalpamelahowe/] Marketing Funnels 101 with Pamela Howe [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QwhPpQbUXD0&t=7s] www.Amandaluisaconsulting.com [http://www.amandaluisaconsulting.com]

57. Slow Period Quick Fixes

Things feel slow. Clients are canceling. There are gaps in the schedule. But here's the truth: I don't believe people aren't getting spa services anymore. A meaningful portion of spa owners I work with are hitting all-time highs in profit, revenue, and bookings. So if your spa is slow, don't chalk it up to the economy. Treat it like a data point. Something in your business has a crack, and when you seal it up, things shift fast. You'll learn: * Why clients get overwhelmed when your booking menu is written for estheticians instead of real people * How confusing pricing creates distrust, even when it's unintentional * Why long wait times for new clients can quietly hurt your growth * How overly strict policies can make your spa feel cold instead of welcoming * Why clear branding matters and how clients should instantly understand who your spa is for * The difference between interest marketing and awareness marketing, and why you need both * Why relying only on Instagram or a booking app is risky for your business * How outdated reviews can make your business feel inactive, even if you're busy * Why your photos should clearly communicate what you specialize in * How simple pre and post visit communication can make clients feel cared for and connected Walk through your entire client journey like you've never heard of your business before. You'll find things you didn't realize. And that's okay. Data is fixable. www.Amandaluisaconsulting.com [https://www.Amandaluisaconsulting.com]