Did Me Dirty

Outta Here

From the outside, it can look simple: just leave.But the reality is anything but.In this episode, I break down the real barriers victims face—financial dependence, monitoring, fear of retaliation—and why leaving isn’t a single moment, it’s a process.We also talk about how to actually support someone in this situation: by listening, trusting, and letting them lead.Because no one understands the risk better than the person living it. #financial control #surveillance #abusive relationship #victims #fear #leavingabuse

Trust Me...or Track Me

“Who are you texting?”“Why did you like that post?”“Let me see your phone.”If that feels familiar, this episode is for you.I’m getting real about digital abuse—what it looks like, how it starts, and how quickly it crosses the line. I share my own experience of being constantly monitored and controlled online, and why so many people mistake this behavior for love.It’s not.It’s control—and it’s a red flag you can’t ignore. #trust #relationships #privacy #digital abuse #social media

Freaked

Stalking doesn’t end when the door locks.In this episode of Did Me Dirty, I break down the invisible damage stalking does to your nervous system why it feels like living after a break-in you can’t undo, or a car crash your body never forgets. No sleep. Constant fear. Shallow breaths. Always waiting for the next hit.This isn’t just “being uncomfortable.” It’s survival mode-and it changes you.If you’ve ever felt this kind of fear, you’re not weak-and you’re not alone. Help exists, and I’ll tell you where to find it.#stalking #personalstory #fear #mentalhealth #stalkingawareness

Stranger Danger... Nope

What if the person watching you… already knows you? We grow up believing stalking comes from strangers in dark corners. But the truth is far more unsettling — and far more common. In this episode of Did Me Dirty, I pull back the curtain on a form of stalking that often goes unnoticed because it feels familiar, explain why so many victims minimize what’s happening to them, and share a real story that still stops me in my tracks. This conversation isn’t about paranoia — it’s about patterns. The ones we’re taught to ignore. The ones that escalate when silence takes over. And the ones that can change everything when we finally name them. If you’ve ever felt watched, brushed something off as “no big deal,” or wondered where the line actually is — this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now — and trust your instincts. Get help finding local resources below. Victim Connect [https://victimconnect.org/] 1-855-4-Victim (1-855-484-2846) Confidential referrals for victims of crime, including stalking, through the National Center for Victims of Crime For more on stalking and dating violence/abuse and teen/college abuse follow at Dating Tips By Meg on IG, FB, TikTok and Snapchat #DidMeDirtyPodcast #StrangerDangerNope #StalkingAwareness #NationalStalkingAwarenessMonth #KnowTheSigns #TrustYourInstincts #DigitalStalking #RelationshipSafety #SurvivorVoices #TrueConversations #RedFlags #SafetyEducation #WomenSupportingWomen

Episode 7 is LIVE

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