Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Episode 63: Live from Bad Ass Weekend

What does 15 years of growth and change in the male spanking community look like? Scott has recorded this episode live at Bad Ass Weekend in Augusta, Georgia, to chat with the organizers about what they’ve seen and learned hosting an event for 15 years. What started as a small gathering of guys on a campground has become the biggest, most-attended male spanking event in North America. Probably the world! Listen on, dudes, for some fun reminiscing and thoughts about how big our community has gotten. In addition, we’ve got news (and a venue change) for the third Hot Seat Vegas, scheduled for July 22-26, 2026. (The episode itself incorrectly says it runs until the 27th) And for some audience participation, we’ve got examples of spanking “red flags” and “green flags” to go over. For more information on Bad Ass Weekend, visit bawevent.com For more information on Hot Seat Vegas, visit hotseatvegas.com. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 62: Plug and Play

Did you know there’s other things you can do with a butt besides spanking it? It’s wild to think about! Scott is joined this episode by Ryan, who enjoys incorporating insertion play into the spankings he dishes out, bringing in butt plugs, thermometers, and even figging. It’s a way to bring in some different sensations to your boy’s butt when he’s being punished and can add new levels of humiliation into a spanking scene. Listen on, dudes, if you’re looking to add some variety to your sessions. Also, Ryan attended Camp Red Tails for the first time this summer and Scott helped organize the second ever Hot Seat Vegas. They both share hot stories from each event. Links: jock-spank.com otkla.com bawevent.com Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 61: London Bawling

Do you wanna cry, boy? Being spanked to tears is probably one of the biggest fantasies in spanking. It is also one of the hardest fantasies to achieve. Scott visited London and reconnected with his original Bully, who got him back into bottoming (and who first appeared all the way back in Episode 3). There he was spanked to tears for the first time in an extremely long time. So how did it happen? Scott is joined by Steven to talk about how and why crying happens in a spanking scene and how to set realistic expectations. In addition, Steven fills the community in on how the reception went for his spanking exhibit at the Leather Archives and Museum in Chicago: “Paddles and Switches and Straps, Oh My! The Dynamic Community of Adult Male Spanking.” Turnout was excellent and it’s great to see a kink and leather museum give special attention to our fetish! Check out the Leather Archives here: https://leatherarchives.org/. The exhibit runs through the end of August. Scott appeared recently on another spanking podcast, “Never Too Old for Agoodspanking,” Check it out here: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/never-too-old-for-agoodspankin--4594541 Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 60: Bullies and Bounties at Hot Seat Retreat

Another Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone, and HotBotScott is joined this episode by SleepyBap to chat about the spanktastic times they had this March. Spoilers: The weather was perfect this year, especially compared to last year’s wind and rain, and there were many, many, many spankings. Naughty misbehaving boys were disciplined by their dads, wayward students and jocks were paddled by principals and coaches, and bullies roved the grounds, handing out wedgies and tormenting their prey—consensually of course. Listen on, dudes, for all the details. Upcoming events: OTKLA: May 30. https://www.otkla.com/home Camp Red Tails: July 17-22. https://www.campredtails.com/ Hot Seat Vegas, July 30-August 3. https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home Bad Ass Weekend, Oct 15-19. https://bawevent.com/ Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 59: Long-Distance Discipline

You’ve found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you. The problem? You live in Yonkers and he lives in Albuquerque. So how do you make it work if you can’t see each other face-to-face? Long-distance, directed discipline scenes have been a part of the spanking community for a long time. But how exactly do you pull them off so that it feels genuine for both sides? Listen on dudes, as HotbotScott is joined by Steven and Mike to talk you all through it. (Note: This episode was recorded before the announcement that Skype would be shutting down its services.) Links: “Bad Lads, Strict Sirs and the World of Adult Male Spanking”: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/ The Chicago Leather Archives and Museum: https://leatherarchives.org Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com