Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Do you wanna cry, boy? Being spanked to tears is probably one of the biggest fantasies in spanking. It is also one of the hardest fantasies to achieve. Scott visited London and reconnected with his original Bully, who got him back into bottoming (and who first appeared all the way back in Episode 3). There he was spanked to tears for the first time in an extremely long time. So how did it happen? Scott is joined by Steven to talk about how and why crying happens in a spanking scene and how to set realistic expectations. In addition, Steven fills the community in on how the reception went for his spanking exhibit at the Leather Archives and Museum in Chicago: “Paddles and Switches and Straps, Oh My! The Dynamic Community of Adult Male Spanking.” Turnout was excellent and it’s great to see a kink and leather museum give special attention to our fetish! Check out the Leather Archives here: https://leatherarchives.org/. The exhibit runs through the end of August. Scott appeared recently on another spanking podcast, “Never Too Old for Agoodspanking,” Check it out here: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/never-too-old-for-agoodspankin--4594541 Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Another Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone, and HotBotScott is joined this episode by SleepyBap to chat about the spanktastic times they had this March. Spoilers: The weather was perfect this year, especially compared to last year’s wind and rain, and there were many, many, many spankings. Naughty misbehaving boys were disciplined by their dads, wayward students and jocks were paddled by principals and coaches, and bullies roved the grounds, handing out wedgies and tormenting their prey—consensually of course. Listen on, dudes, for all the details. Upcoming events: OTKLA: May 30. https://www.otkla.com/home Camp Red Tails: July 17-22. https://www.campredtails.com/ Hot Seat Vegas, July 30-August 3. https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home Bad Ass Weekend, Oct 15-19. https://bawevent.com/ Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

You’ve found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you. The problem? You live in Yonkers and he lives in Albuquerque. So how do you make it work if you can’t see each other face-to-face? Long-distance, directed discipline scenes have been a part of the spanking community for a long time. But how exactly do you pull them off so that it feels genuine for both sides? Listen on dudes, as HotbotScott is joined by Steven and Mike to talk you all through it. (Note: This episode was recorded before the announcement that Skype would be shutting down its services.) Links: “Bad Lads, Strict Sirs and the World of Adult Male Spanking”: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/ The Chicago Leather Archives and Museum: https://leatherarchives.org Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Would you believe Dudes Spankin’ Dudes has been around for more than five years and nearly 60 episodes and we’ve never actually done an episode about hand spankings? That’s a terrible oversight over which Scott should be spanked. And he will be! Scott is joined again by Sean to talk about what they both love about hand spankings and give some tips on both giving and receiving. Then they delve a little bit into spanking roleplay and how to establish realistic expectations when you’re new. Listen on Dudes, and find out what Sean plans to do to Scott’s butt in Palm Springs in March! Bonus links: Check out the “Sips and Smacks” Podcast: https://www.sipsandsmacks.com/ (Scott is a guest on Episode 97) Hot Seat Retreat 2025 in Palm Springs, March 19-23: https://www.hotseatps.com/home Hot Seat Vegas 2025 in Las Vegas, July 30-August 3: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

We are pleased to announce that Hot Seat Vegas has found a new home and will return in 2025 from Wednesday, July 30th through Sunday, August 3rd. Registration for Vegas will open on Saturday, February 1, at 10 a.m. Pacific time (7 a.m. East Coast time). Visit hotseatvegas.com for more details and prices.