Fake Love and Flying Monkeys

They ghost you, block you, abuse you—then pop up like nothing ever happened. Why? In this eye-opening episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, we unpack one of the most confusing behaviours in narcissistic abuse: when the narcissist reappears with selective amnesia and zero accountability. Whether they send a flirty text, a casual “hey,” or act like everything’s fine after days (or weeks) of cruel silence, there’s always a strategy behind it. Www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au  I explain exactly what this behaviour means, why it’s not love or remorse, and what you can do to protect yourself when they try to slither back in. 📖 Grab my book ‘Fake Love’ here  https://mybook.to/F3gm We’ll cover: – Why they come back after hurting you – What hoovering is and how to spot it – How trauma bonding keeps you hooked – What their silence, blocking, and ghosting are really about – The dangerous cycle of abuse and false reconciliation This one’s for anyone who’s ever been left confused, heartbroken, and manipulated by the narcissist’s fake “return.”  www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au 📖 Grab my book ‘Fake Love’ here  https://mybook.to/F3gm Need Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here [https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/counselling-services/] Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here [https://mybook.to/F3gm] You can leave a Rating and a Review here [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fake-love-and-flying-monkeys-5748098] You Can Share this Podcast here [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] Join me on FB here [https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert] Join the private FB group here [https://www.facebook.com/share/FB1yFZn52HypJo7a/?mibextid=A7sQZp] Join me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/novas_narcissistabuse_recovery/?hl=en] Join me on YouTube here [https://www.youtube.com/@novagibson_] Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson] ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx

What happens when the narcissist doesn’t just come after you—but starts poisoning your child’s mind against you? And worse—what happens when the court system believes it’s your fault?Www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au  In this raw, eye-opening episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, we’re diving into the heartbreaking experience of narcissistic parental alienation—when the narcissist manipulates your child and weaponises them to hurt you, isolate you, and destroy your bond. Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here  This isn’t just messy co-parenting. It’s psychological warfare.  They don’t co-parent. They counter-parent. We also unpack how this manipulation often gets misread in family court. Protective, loving parents—who are desperately trying to shield their kids from harm—are often accused of parental alienation, while the narcissist walks away with a smile and a custody agreement. If you've ever felt like you're being erased from your child’s life by a narcissist who’s playing the long game… this episode is your validation. You’re not alone. You’re not imagining it. And no—this is not your fault. Support the Show on Apple Podcasts [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] If Fake Love has helped you, using this Apple Podcasts link is a simple way to support the show! 🙏 Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Need Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here [https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/counselling-services/] Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here [https://mybook.to/F3gm] You can leave a Rating and a Review here [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fake-love-and-flying-monkeys-5748098] You Can Share this Podcast here [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] Join me on FB here [https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert] Join the private FB group here [https://www.facebook.com/share/FB1yFZn52HypJo7a/?mibextid=A7sQZp] Join me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/novas_narcissistabuse_recovery/?hl=en] Join me on YouTube here [https://www.youtube.com/@novagibson_] Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson] ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx

Have you ever noticed how the narcissist in your life seems to get annoyed—or even angry—when you’re finally doing well? When you’re smiling, thriving, feeling peaceful... they suddenly go cold, start a fight, or make a snarky comment that sucks the joy right out of the room? Www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au  In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, we unpack the painful truth behind why narcissists hate when you’re happy. Narcissists feel deeply threatened by your confidence, independence, and emotional growth—because it reminds them of what they’re lacking and what they can’t control. Your happiness represents your freedom, and freedom means they’re losing power. We explore: Why narcissists are triggered by your good mood, laughter, and lightness How they subtly (or not-so-subtly) sabotage your joy The emotional manipulation tactics they use to steal your peace Why they downplay your wins or guilt-trip you for having fun The connection between your happiness and their loss of control What it really means when they pick a fight right before you leave for an event Why your joy makes you a “threat” in the eyes of a narcissist If you’ve ever felt confused about why someone would punish you for being okay, this episode offers clarity, validation, and insight into one of the most emotionally draining patterns in narcissistic abuse. Need Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here [https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/counselling-services/] Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here [https://mybook.to/F3gm] You can leave a Rating and a Review here [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fake-love-and-flying-monkeys-5748098] You Can Share this Podcast here [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] Join me on FB here [https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert] Join the private FB group here [https://www.facebook.com/share/FB1yFZn52HypJo7a/?mibextid=A7sQZp] Join me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/novas_narcissistabuse_recovery/?hl=en] Join me on YouTube here [https://www.youtube.com/@novagibson_] Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson] ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx

Narcissists don’t just leave you—they discard you with intent. And it’s never kind, never clean. In this powerful episode, I revea 7 of the most horrific ways narcissists discard their victims—each one designed to shock, shame, and cause maximum pain. (More information on this available on my website www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au) From cold ghosting and public humiliation, to triangulating with the new supply and recruiting flying monkeys to finish the job—this isn’t love. It’s emotional destruction disguised as a breakup. If you’ve been discarded and feel like you’re losing your mind, this episode will show you: ⚠️ You’re not crazy. ⚠️ You’re not alone. ⚠️ You were targeted by someone who needed control, not connection. 🎧 Learn the 7 discard tactics narcissists use to make it “memorable” 💔 Understand why they do it—and why it was never your fault 🧠 Get your power back by seeing the discard for what it really was Support the Show on Apple Podcasts [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] If Fake Love has helped you, using this Apple Podcasts link is a simple way to support the show! 🙏 Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Need Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here [https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/counselling-services/] Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here [https://mybook.to/F3gm] You can leave a Rating and a Review here [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fake-love-and-flying-monkeys-5748098] You Can Share this Podcast here [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] Join me on FB here [https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert] Join the private FB group here [https://www.facebook.com/share/FB1yFZn52HypJo7a/?mibextid=A7sQZp] Join me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/novas_narcissistabuse_recovery/?hl=en] Join me on YouTube here [https://www.youtube.com/@novagibson_] Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson] ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx

What happens when your mother-in-law acts more like the jealous ex than the proud parent? In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into one of the most emotionally exhausting dynamics a woman can face: navigating life with a narcissistic mother-in-law who sees you as competition—not family. From constant criticism to controlling behaviour, narcissistic mothers-in-law often believe they hold the number one spot in their son’s heart—and anyone who threatens that position is seen as the enemy. You’ll hear real-life examples of women caught in the crossfire of toxic in-law relationships, including the subtle manipulation, emotional blackmail, and triangulation that turns what should be a joyful family connection into a confusing and painful power struggle. We explore how narcissistic mothers-in-law undermine parenting decisions, interfere with your relationship, and create chaos under the guise of “just being helpful.” We also talk about the damage it causes when your partner is either completely oblivious to the manipulation—or worse, supports it. You’ll learn what these dynamics look like, why they happen, and how to spot the signs of covert narcissism within the family system. Whether your partner is still emotionally enmeshed with his mother or has become a passive participant in the dysfunction, this episode unpacks the emotional toll it takes on you as the daughter-in-law. We also examine the long-term impact on your mental health, your relationship, and your children, especially when boundaries are repeatedly ignored and your voice is dismissed. From power struggles over parenting to passive-aggressive guilt trips and smear campaigns, we break down how this toxic dynamic plays out behind closed doors—and how easy it is to internalise the blame. If you’ve ever been made to feel like the “other woman” in your own marriage, if you’ve walked on eggshells around family gatherings, or if you’ve questioned your sanity after being emotionally sidelined by a manipulative in-law, this episode is for you. This raw and validating conversation sheds light on a taboo topic that’s more common than people realise—and offers understanding for anyone trying to survive the emotional battlefield of a narcissistic in law. Need Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here [https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/counselling-services/] Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here [https://mybook.to/F3gm] You can leave a Rating and a Review here [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fake-love-and-flying-monkeys-5748098] You Can Share this Podcast here [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] Join me on FB here [https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert] Join the private FB group here [https://www.facebook.com/share/FB1yFZn52HypJo7a/?mibextid=A7sQZp] Join me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/novas_narcissistabuse_recovery/?hl=en] Join me on YouTube here [https://www.youtube.com/@novagibson_] Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson] ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx