Fatha Torch: Be the Dad You Wish You Had

Matthew 6:3: A New Perspective for Fathers Seeking Approval and Praise

Ep. 28 Unravel the mysterious phrase "Never Let Your Left Hand Know What Your Right Hand Is Doing." From parenting to interpersonal dynamics, we'll discuss how it encourages trust, open communication, and a balance between individual autonomy and shared responsibilities. Discover the origins of this phrase, rooted in the biblical teachings of the Gospel of Matthew (6:3), where Jesus advises doing acts of charity in secret. We'll delve into its cultural interpretations, examining its relevance in various contexts and its broader meaning over time. In the realm of fatherhood and relationships, we'll explore how this principle emphasizes humility, selflessness, and the significance of acting with sincerity.   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/@FathaTorch [https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/] Website: https://www.fathatorch.com/www.fathatorch.com [https://www.fathatorch.com/]  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers [https://www.abimilechh.org/] Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com    Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fatha-torch-4849236] Listen Notes [https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/fatha-torch-jazzcast-pros-8OdjxrHp4SD/] Buy me a coffee [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=UKWF9H989JQBC]or send a CashApp $RAHG76  This Episode was recorded on Riverside.FM [https://riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_2&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=JazzCast]  Use Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Audio + Video Recording  www.JazzCastPros.com [http://www.jazzcastpros.com] for help launching, branding or editing your podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Abolish Fear-Based Assumptions

Ep 9 Fear-based assumptions can lead to a parent-child relationship of pain, drama and heartache for all involved. As fathers we often lash out at our kids in order to protect them from the unknown, or to prevent them from getting involved with something that we don't understand but are afraid to admit it. In this episode let's explore another way to approach fatherhood in the New Year 1. What does it mean for a father to actively listen to his children and not assume he knows everything? 2. How can fathers instill fear of God and not fear of the world in their daughters? 3. What is the importance of self-control, communication, and emotional connection in fatherhood? As a father of nine, I have come to understand that assumptions about my children, myself, my family, and even my manhood can lead to pain, drama and headaches. I know that I cannot assume that one conversation is enough to teach my children, and I must actively listen and show them love and support. I must also be mindful that although I have experience, it does not make me an expert on my children's lives. I must be adaptable and have self-control, knowing that what I say will affect my children. I strive to speak life, prosperity, liberty, and innate spirit, teaching my children to be secure in themselves, and to be prepared and have the tools needed to protect themselves.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Stop Being Your Child’s Friend, Start Being Their Leader

Ep. 17 This episode is a must-listen for parents seeking guidance on discipline and communication with their children. In today's society, many parents walk around on eggshells, and it seems like fathers have no authority when it comes to raising the kids. As an advocate for traditional fatherhood, I have dedicated myself to helping other parents like you reclaim your power and raise kids who respect and obey you.  It's important to establish boundaries and respect, rather than trying to be your child's friend. Issues of teen mental health issues, addiction, and other taboo subjects must be address properly. By advocating for open communication and a supportive community, I believe we can help our children become confident, successful adults.  SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com [http://www.createapizza585.com/]   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch [https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/]  Website: www.fathatorch.com [https://www.fathatorch.com]  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers [https://www.abimilechh.org/] Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fatha-torch-4849236]Listen Notes [https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/fatha-torch-jazzcast-pros-8OdjxrHp4SD/] Buy me a coffee  [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=UKWF9H989JQBC]or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  [fathatorch@gmail.com] Other episodes you'll enjoy: Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships | FATHA TORCH [https://www.fathatorch.com/e/create/] Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH [https://www.fathatorch.com/e/any-fool-can-make-a-baby/] Are You a Good Father? It All All Comes Down to This  [https://www.fathatorch.com/e/are-you-a-good-father-it-all-comes-down-to-this/]   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM [https://riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_2&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=JazzCast] Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com [https://www.jazzcastpros.com/] for help launching, branding or editing your podcast. In this episode, you will be able to: * Explore the complexities of modern fatherhood and its influence on children's growth. * Scrutinize current parenting approaches and the growing disregard for respect. * Recognize the significance of a solid foundation and discipline in raising children. * Embrace the power of community backing, empathy, and solidarity within the black community. * Tackle open dialogues on taboo subjects and the consequences of societal repression. The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:00 - Being a Father vs Being a Friend 00:01:14 - Parenting in Today's Society 00:05:40 - The Importance of Respect 00:09:36 - The Reality of Parenting 00:13:36 - The Challenges of Parenting for Black Fathers 00:15:16 - Advocating for the Children 00:17:38 - Bring Back the Village 00:21:06 - Be the Part 00:23:07 - Breaking Taboos 00:24:50 - You Are Not Alone Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Toxic Masculinity, Rap and Depression with Carl Binger and Joel Lesses

Ep 6 Does toxic masculinity impact on a man's mental health? Carl Binger and Joel Lesses have some theories. In this episode you'll learn 1. How men and women experience and cope with depression differently 2. The influence of rap music on mental health and depression 3. The importance of nature and wilderness in mental health and depression 4. Who has the best chicken wings, Buffalo or Rochester, NY RESOURCES: Book: Spiritual Depression by Martyn Lloyd Jones  [https://www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Depression-D-Martyn-Lloyd-Jones/dp/0551031654] Living the Front Seat Life Podcast hosted by Coach Kelly Marie [https://www.jazzcastpros.com/living-the-front-seat-life] Need someone to talk to confidently? Call the free Crisis Lifeline at 988    CRAZYWISE – Documentary Film (crazywisefilm.com) [https://crazywisefilm.com/]   ABOUT THE GUESTS: Carl Binger Counselor - LMHC, Podcast Host Surviving Depression Podcast on Spotify  [https://open.spotify.com/show/5uVwISmMQGbOHFo4tSy7Wk?si=e1c1b4fe227e4a97] Having served as a Counseling Pastor at his home church from 2016-2018, Carl began his own private practice on February 14th of this year, specializing in helping individuals who struggle with depression. Carl was under the influence of depression for two years prior to getting the help he needed in the form of medication in 2006.  Joel David Lesses: Director, Counselor at Education Training Center; Writer and Poet; Podcast Producer, Unraveling Religion. Unraveling Religion on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unraveling-religion/id1510379967]  Joel Lesses professional background is in educational psychology and counseling for people marginalized by trauma, addiction, and psychological distress, as well as its effects on them, such as homelessness, incarceration, and institutionalization.    GET INVOLVED Leave a review on Podchaser. [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fatha-torch-4849236] Rate Fatha Torch on Apple Podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fatha-torch/id1641034450] Buy me a coffee  [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=UKWF9H989JQBC]or send a CashApp $RAHG76 to show this support.  Follow me on Instagram @Fatha_Torch [https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/]  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  [fathatorch@gmail.com]  CREDITS Hosted by Rah Produced & Edited by JazzCast Pros [http://www.jazzcastpros.com] Music "Lover's Rock" by All Good Folks   Other Episodes You'll Enjoy Is He Dumb or is it Something Deeper? with Carl Binger & Joel Lesses [https://www.fathatorch.com/e/is-he-dumb-or-is-it-something-deeper/] Unraveling Religion with Joel Lesses [https://www.fathatorch.com/e/spiritual-side-of-fatherhood-unraveling-religion-with-joel-lesses/] Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession [https://www.fathatorch.com/e/is-fatherhood-broken-a-father-s-confession/]   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Honor Thy Grandparent: How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth

Ep. 18 This episode is a tribute to my grandparents who have shaped my life as Fatha Torch, a beacon of light for the next generation. As a father, I believe it is important to honor our elders and learn from their wisdom, especially in these challenging times. In this episode, you will learn: * How honoring your elders is a way of embracing and uplifting our generations * How to connect with your elders and listen to their stories * What benefits you can gain from learning from the wisdom of the past * How to pass on the legacy of your elders to your children and future generations * Why listening to grandparents is a good way to learn about your cultural heritage and family history SPONSORED BY CREATE A PIZZA: home of the FATHA TORCH Lunch Special Try the Vegan Meatball Pizza with Sexy Cheese and a Drink for only $5.99 766 Monroe Ave, Rochester, NY Order Ahead at www.createapizza585.com [http://www.createapizza585.com/]   Connect with Fatha Torch:  Instagram: @FathaTorch [https://www.instagram.com/fatha_torch/] Website: www.fathatorch.com [https://www.fathatorch.com]  ABIMILECHH FOUNDATION -Local Programs for Fathers [https://www.abimilechh.org/] Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  [fathatorch@gmail.com]   Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here:   Podchaser , [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fatha-torch-4849236]Listen Notes [https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/fatha-torch-jazzcast-pros-8OdjxrHp4SD/] Buy me a coffee  [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=UKWF9H989JQBC]or send a CashApp $RAHG76  Want to be a sponsor or guest on the podcast? Email me at fathatorch@gmail.com  [fathatorch@gmail.com] Other episodes you'll enjoy: Why Kids Don’t Respect Their Parents Anymore [https://www.fathatorch.com/e/why-kids-don-t-listen-nor-respect-their-parents-anymore/] Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships | FATHA TORCH [https://www.fathatorch.com/e/create/] Any Fool Can Make a Baby | FATHA TORCH [https://www.fathatorch.com/e/any-fool-can-make-a-baby/]   Podcast Like a Pro! Riverside.FM [https://riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_2&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=JazzCast] Promo Code JAZZYCAST for 15% off Remote Recording  JazzCastPros.com [https://www.jazzcastpros.com/] for help launching, branding or editing your podcast.   Other Podcasts Mentioned in this episode: Healthy Illness | a podcast by Kelly Marie [https://thefrontseatlife.podbean.com/] Heart of the Hustle | a podcast by Monique Chatman  [https://www.heartofthehustlepodcast.com/] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]