Father & Friend: Interviews With Everyday Dads

Fatherhood on Auto-Pilot: How One Pilot Dad Learned to Put Family First

What happens when career ambition collides head-on with family life? In this episode, Tim sits down with Connor — a first-time dad, commercial pilot, and former aspiring Air Force aviator — for an honest conversation about the choices that define us as fathers. Connor shares what it was like to grow up as the oldest of four boys in a military family, watching his stoic, often-deployed dad lead by example. He opens up about his own years-long pursuit of becoming an Air Force National Guard pilot — and the pivotal moment when his wife's pregnancy helped him finally see how far his priorities had drifted from what mattered most. From missing church every Sunday during airline training to leaving home just days after his son Cooper was born, Connor reflects on the cost of unchecked ambition — and the unexpected peace he found in letting it go. The conversation also dives into the lost art of rites of passage, the book The Intentional Father by Jon Tyson, and Connor's plans to walk his son through meaningful milestones — from the first shave to learning to fly. In this episode: * Growing up in a military household and learning to lead by example * Why the Air National Guard dream nearly cost Connor his family * Life as a reserve pilot and navigating an unpredictable schedule with a newborn * The power of rites of passage and why modern boys are missing them * Extracurriculars, sports, and finding the balance between pushing and allowing kids to choose * What being truly present looks like with a 4-month-old Father and Friend is a podcast for dads who want to show up, love deeply, and make a lasting impact on their families. Visit fatherandfriend.com [http://fatherandfriend.com] to connect.

HELP — I’m Raising Five Kids (A Christian Dad’s Honest Confession)

Consistency, Sacrifice, and Raising Kids on Purpose (with Ben, Dad of Five) In this Father and Friend episode, Ben (husband to Kelly and father of five) shares how growing up with an engaged, hardworking dad shaped his approach to family life. He describes his father’s steady presence, strong church involvement, and willingness to work multiple jobs and even give up flying to provide, teaching Ben the value of duty and sacrificing personal desires for those you love. Ben explains how he tries to build a special relationship with his only son in a girl-heavy environment and outlines key practices in his home: consistency through daily rhythms and routines, balanced discipline with his wife, and leveraging strengths like teaching/coaching and organization. He discusses homeschooling support, teaching life skills (money, sexuality, drugs/alcohol), prioritizing marriage, and parenting as preparing kids to leave and thrive for generations. 00:00 Father and Friend - Consistent Faithful Fatherhood with Ben 00:10 Introduction 01:34 Growing Up with an Engaged Father 07:48 Lessons from Dad's Sacrifice 14:32 Three Pillars of Fatherhood 15:00 Consistency and Family Rhythms 19:05 Teaching and Coaching 22:06 Teaching Children About Life 28:41 Organization and Structure 47:32 Putting Marriage First 53:17 Maintaining Connection Through Baby Years 01:03:13 Final Thoughts 01:03:35 Thinking Generationally

What Kind of Leader Are You Going To Be? | Interview With Brent | Father and Friend #interview

In this conversation, Tim and Brent Howell discuss the profound impact of divorce on fatherhood and marriage, exploring Brent's personal journey from being a child of divorce to becoming a father of five. They delve into the misconceptions surrounding marriage, the importance of faith, and the lies that often lead to marital strife. Brent emphasizes the need for spiritual leadership in the family, the significance of honoring one's spouse, and the necessity of training children with both truth and grace. The discussion also highlights the mission of Covenant Army, which aims to equip couples to strengthen their marriages and combat the challenges they face. Connect with Brent and Lucy ⁨@CovenantArmyPodcast⁩ or at https://covenantarmy.org/ [https://covenantarmy.org/] TAKEAWAYS *Divorce can have a lasting impact on families and children. *Understanding the true nature of marriage is crucial for success. *Faith plays a significant role in navigating marriage and fatherhood. *Identifying and combating lies in relationships is essential. *Selfishness is often at the core of marital issues. *Apologizing and humility can lead to healing in relationships. *The myth of the Brady Bunch family often misrepresents reality. *Every marriage faces daily battles that require attention and effort. *Leading spiritually as a father sets a strong example for children. #FatherAndFriend #LivingForTheirGood #MarriageMatters #FaithAndFamily #SpiritualLeadership #BiblicalMarriage #BreakTheCycle #IntentionalFatherhood #FightForYourFamily #generationalimpact ----------------------------------------------------- 📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith. Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com [https://fatherandfriend.com] or connect with us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood [https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood] https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood [https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood] https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend [https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend]

You Are Not Alone | Interview with Mike Eads | Father and Friend #interview

In this episode of Father and Friend, Tim engages in a fantastic conversation with Mike Eads, a seasoned military leader and author of the book "Awaken." Mike shares his journey as a father and the profound impact of his faith on his life. The discussion delves into the significance of discipline and how leadership starts with dad, the challenges of maintaining family bonds amidst military life, and the necessity of brotherhood among men. Mike also shares practical advice on how to instill discipline in children, the importance of prayer, and the value of memorizing scripture as a means of spiritual growth and connection within the family. Mike knows from experience that men should not do life alone. Connect with Mike: https://ironlionforge.com [https://ironlionforge.com] Check out his book, "Awaken": https://a.co/d/3zhUpFp [https://a.co/d/3zhUpFp] #fatherhoodjourney #legacybuilding #faithandfamily #militarylife #BrotherhoodInChrist #DisciplineAndPurpose #IronLionForge #SpiritualLeadership #fatherandfriend #livingfortheirgood ----------------------------------------------------- 📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith. Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com [https://fatherandfriend.com] or connect with us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood [https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood] https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood [https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood] https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend [https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend]

Long Distance Dads | Interview With Danny | Father and Friend #interview

In this conversation, Tim and Danny Andreas explore the challenges and strategies of long-distance fatherhood. Danny shares his personal journey as a father living apart from his daughter, emphasizing the importance of emotional connection, honesty, and creative ways to maintain a strong bond. He discusses the impact of legal challenges on fathers, the significance of positive reinforcement in parenting, and the development of a platform designed to enhance virtual parenting experiences. Throughout the discussion, Danny offers valuable insights and encouragement for fathers facing similar situations, highlighting the importance of resilience and never giving up on their children. Connect With Danny: https://distancedads.com/ [https://distancedads.com/] @distancedads #LongDistanceParenting #fatherhoodjourney #positivereinforcement #parenting #DistanceDads #PositiveParenting #ParentingTips #fatherandfriend #livingfortheirgood ----------------------------------------------------- 📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith. Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com [https://fatherandfriend.com] or connect with us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood [https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood] https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood [https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood] https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend [https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend]