Burnout and Taking Back Control, with Ashly Balding
What happens when your drive and discipline push you to the very brink—physically, emotionally, and spiritually? In this powerful episode of Get Real, Get Results, host Speaker B welcomes Ashley Balding, Executive Vice President and Chief Sales Officer at Associated Luxury Hotels International, for an intimate conversation that cuts through the noise of perfectionism and reveals what it means to truly take care of yourself.
Ashley’s story is a wake-up call for every woman who’s ever put her own health last. Battling career challenges, family upheaval, and overwhelming stress, Ashley ignored her body’s warnings—until a near-fatal heart crisis forced her to stop, surrender, and reset everything. She shares how pushing through pain and normalizing exhaustion nearly cost her life, and how open-heart surgery became an unexpected gift that transformed her mindset and sense of purpose.
Discover the essential lessons Ashley learned about the hidden dangers of high achievement: Why do so many women equate exhaustion with leadership? How can you recognize the signals your body—and your spirit—are sending before it’s too late? Ashley opens up about finding strength in vulnerability, setting boundaries without guilt, seeking wisdom in community, and redefining success by prioritizing faith, family, and intentional living.
Packed with raw honesty, practical strategies, and hope, this episode is your permission slip to pause, ask for help, and finally put yourself first. Subscribe for more real conversations that inspire transformation—or share this episode with someone who needs the reminder: you can’t pour from an empty cup.
CHAPTERS
00:00 A Miracle Warning Saves My Life
02:13 High-Performing Women Neglecting Their Health
05:12 Coping With Crisis: Career, Family, and Personal Loss
07:29 Ignoring Medical Red Flags Until It’s Almost Too Late
08:23 Surviving Open Heart Surgery and the Aftermath
10:09 The Long Road to Becoming Pacemaker Free
11:07 Mistaking Exhaustion for Leadership
12:18 Redefining Worth: Output Isn’t Everything
16:01 Letting Go of Control: Facing Mortality
19:44 The Power of Gratitude After Trauma
21:17 Crystal Balls vs. Rubber Balls: Prioritizing What Matters
25:43 Lean In—Why Asking for Help Heals
29:08 Setting Boundaries With People Who Drain You
31:13 Leading With Compassion, Not Overextension
33:14 Moving Beyond Anger: Forgiveness as Superpower
37:37 Modeling Purpose and Meaning For the Next Generation
40:32 The Simple Power of Sleep and Breathwork
42:47 The Real Cost of Ignoring Your Body’s Warnings
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Join host Chantell Preston, a seasoned professional with over two decades of experience in healthcare operations, project management, and consulting, as she shares invaluable insights and lessons learned from navigating the complexities of career advancement and personal satisfaction.
Through candid conversations and expert advice, "Get Real, Get Results" serves as your go-to resource for achieving harmony between work and life without sacrificing well-being.
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