Heaven or Heisman

Club Sports Playbook: Rec, Select, Club - What Does It All Mean?

In this episode of Heaven or Heisman, we kick off a new series exploring the world of club sports and the challenges families face as they navigate increasingly competitive athletic environments. We begin by tackling one of the most common questions parents ask: how do you know what level of competition is right for your child? From recreational leagues to select teams and full-time club sports, we break down the differences in commitment, cost, coaching, competition, and family impact, helping parents better understand the landscape of youth athletics. Let's challenge the assumption that higher levels of competition automatically lead to better development. Instead, we encourage families to consider their child's skill level, desire, emotional maturity, and the overall health of the family when making decisions. As the first installment in the new club sports series, this episode offers practical guidance, thoughtful questions, and a balanced perspective to help parents choose a path that supports long-term growth, aligns with their values, and allows sports to remain a positive part of family life.

What Youth Sports Families Can Learn from the Apostle Paul // Timothy Ateek

In this episode, we welcome back Timothy Ateek for a conversation about what youth sports families can learn from the life of the Apostle Paul. Together, we unpack how identity, hardship, mentorship, and faith all intersect in the world of athletics and parenting. Timothy shares how Paul’s life modeled perseverance, humility, and purpose long before becoming the influential leader most people remember, reminding us that God often shapes people through seasons of obscurity, disappointment, and hardship before elevating them. We also discuss the temptation for parents to rescue kids too quickly, the pressure athletes feel to tie their worth to performance, and why building an identity rooted in Christ matters far more than wins, rankings, or playing time. Throughout the conversation, we continually come back to the idea that youth sports are more than games and trophies—they are mission fields. Whether it’s encouraging teammates, mentoring younger athletes, handling pressure with grace, or building relationships in the stands, every moment becomes an opportunity to reflect Jesus. This episode is both practical and encouraging for parents and athletes who want to compete with purpose, lead with humility, and remember what matters most long after the scoreboard is forgotten.

Lessons Learned from a Youth Coach and D1 Parent Part 2 // Garry Linton

In part two of our conversation with Garry Linton, we continue unpacking the culture surrounding youth sports and the pressure many families feel to chase rankings, stats, elite teams, and early success. Garry challenges the scoreboard-driven mindset that dominates today’s sports world and encourages parents and coaches to focus instead on long-term development, fundamentals, and helping kids grow at their own pace. We discuss how fear, comparison, and social media often shape decisions more than people realize, and why patience and intentionality matter far more than quick results. Throughout the episode, we talk about what healthy development actually looks like, from allowing kids to fail and learn through experience to prioritizing skill-building over constant competition. Garry shares practical insight into avoiding “money traps” in youth sports, recognizing trustworthy mentors, and resisting the temptation to copy the paths of superstar athletes without understanding the bigger picture behind their journey. The conversation continually points back to one central idea: helping kids become confident, resilient people rather than simply high-performing athletes.

Lessons Learned from a Youth Coach and D1 Parent Part 1 // Garry Linton

In this episode, part one of a two-part conversation, we sit down with Garry Linton, known to many as Take Flight Coach, for an honest and eye-opening discussion about youth sports, parenting, and what it really means to develop kids the right way. Garry shares how his journey began as a parent who stepped in to coach and quickly realized that much of the system was missing the mark. From early ego traps to the pressure-filled culture surrounding kids’ athletics, he brings clarity to the tension so many families feel but struggle to name. We talk about the illusions that drive youth sports today, especially the belief that more games, travel teams, and private training automatically lead to better development. Garry challenges that mindset by pointing us back to something many kids are missing: freedom. Freedom to play, to fail, to experiment, and to build confidence without constant correction. He introduces the idea of “self story” and how the narratives kids form about themselves are often shaped by the words and reactions of the adults around them. This conversation is both grounding and hopeful, and it sets the stage for part two where we continue unpacking what it looks like to reshape the youth sports experience. It invites parents and coaches to step back, rethink their approach, and prioritize long-term growth over short-term success. At its core, this episode is about helping kids rediscover joy in the game while building resilience, confidence, and a healthy identity that goes far beyond the scoreboard.

How to Build Real Confidence in Your Athlete // Brad @ The Coaching Dad

In a youth sports culture that often ties confidence to performance, how do we help kids build something deeper, something that lasts beyond the scoreboard? In this episode of Heaven or Heisman, we’re joined again by Brad, “The Coaching Dad,” to talk about the difference between confidence rooted in results and confidence rooted in identity. Together, we explore how athletes can grow in belief without needing to prove themselves every time they step on the field. Through real coaching stories and practical examples, this conversation highlights simple but powerful ways to build confidence on purpose, creating space for mistakes, celebrating effort over outcomes, and giving kids opportunities to lead and use their voice. It’s a reminder that the environments adults create, through their words, reactions, and expectations, play a huge role in shaping how kids see themselves. Ultimately, this episode is an invitation to zoom out. To focus less on early success and more on long-term development. To trade pressure for presence. And to help kids find a confidence that isn’t shaken by a missed shot or a tough game, but strengthened by knowing who they are and why they play.