Jillian on Love

5 Ways to Date in 2026

Dating in 2026 feels harder than ever—but what if the problem isn’t you, it’s how you’re approaching it? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the biggest mindset shifts she’s seen actually work with her clients—from letting go of the pressure to “find the one,” to raising your standards in the right way, slowing down attraction, and learning how to choose connection over fantasy. If you’re tired of repeating the same dating patterns and want to feel more grounded, confident, and clear, this episode will reset how you think about love. Try Jillian on Love Plus FREE for 30 days! [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049?itscg=30200&itsct=podcast_box&ls=1&mttnsubad=1640172049&at=1001l36mQ&ct=JOL-shownotes] Join The Conscious Woman Waitlist - https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist [https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist] Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook [http://jillianturecki.com/workbook]  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 [https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

Anxiety: How to Not Sabotage a Healthy Relationship

Have you ever been in a healthy relationship and still felt anxious waiting for it to fall apart? In this coaching episode, Jillian works one-on-one with a woman who can’t stop overthinking as her relationship moves out of the honeymoon phase. Together, they unpack why reassurance fades, how anxiety quietly sabotages connection, and what actually keeps love secure—without creating problems where none exist. Try Jillian on Love Plus FREE for 30 days! [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049?itscg=30200&itsct=podcast_box&ls=1&mttnsubad=1640172049&at=1001l36mQ&ct=JOL-shownotes] Join The Conscious Woman Waitlist - https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist [https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist] Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook [http://jillianturecki.com/workbook]  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 [https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

Lust is Not the Same Thing as Love

In this episode, Jillian reads from It Begins With You [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] to break down one of the most painful patterns in modern dating: confusing lust, intensity, and obsession with real love. She explains why chemistry can feel intoxicating—and why it so often leads to confusion, unmet needs, and heartbreak. If you’ve ever felt addicted to someone who couldn’t show up for you, this episode brings clarity back to where love actually begins. This episode is sponsored by Olipop. http://drinkolipop.com/JILLIAN [http://drinkolipop.com/JILLIAN] Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook [http://jillianturecki.com/workbook]  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 [https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

Stop Falling in Love With Their Potential

What if the reason your relationship feels so painful is because you’re loving someone’s potential instead of who they actually are? In this episode, Jillian unpacks why trying to fix or change a partner creates resentment, pressure, and emotional burnout. She explores emotional capacity, radical self-honesty, and how to communicate your needs without turning love into a project. Join the Conscious Woman waitlist - ⁠https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist⁠ [https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist] Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook [http://jillianturecki.com/workbook]  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 [https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

Stop Chasing: How to Date with Confidence

In this special coaching episode, Jillian sits down with a 38-year-old listener who’s four dates into a new connection and stuck in her head about one big question: Is he actually interested, or just passive? Together, they unpack why slow, calm chemistry can feel confusing when you’re used to intensity, what to do when someone’s texting and effort don’t quite match your needs, and how to treat early dating as data instead of a referendum on your worth. Jillian coaches her on how to flirt, set the tone without over-pursuing, keep dating other people, and show up as the most confident version of herself—even when there’s still no kiss. Join the Conscious Woman waitlist - ⁠https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist⁠ [https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist] Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook [http://jillianturecki.com/workbook]  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 [https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]