just talking About Podcast (AAMU)

EP#10__What I Wish I Knew Before Graduation: Real Advice for College Seniors

In this heartfelt episode of "Just Talking About What I'm Talking About," we dive into the pivotal topic of life after college graduation. As May approaches, graduates are filled with anticipation and excitement for the future. Today, we extend hearty congratulations to all the graduates, especially those from HBCUs, who are poised to become tomorrow's leaders. Our host, a soon-to-be three-time master's graduate, shares invaluable insights and lessons learned from personal experiences across various educational milestones. Explore essential knowledge you need before graduation, from understanding the graduation ceremony to strategizing your job search effectively. Discover why relaxing before the ceremony is crucial and learn insider facts about receiving your diploma. Gain confidence in applying for jobs even before having your degree in hand, and understand the significance of a professionally crafted resume in standing out to potential employers. Learn practical tips for job hunting in today's digital age, from navigating online applications to leveraging LinkedIn. Uncover the truth behind job postings and maximize your chances of success by applying widely and remaining flexible. The episode also emphasizes cultural adaptation and the importance of presenting yourself professionally in interviews. Additionally, viewers are encouraged to continue applying for opportunities even after securing a position, ensuring career growth and better prospects. Whether you're gearing up for graduation or navigating the early stages of job hunting, this episode offers indispensable guidance to equip you for the journey ahead. Lind up your job applications, polish your resume, and approach the workforce with confidence!

EP#9__Navigating College: Lessons and Unexpected Realities

In this engaging episode, host Redman navigates through two intertwining subjects as part of a compelling series on college experiences. Join a diverse panel of new and returning guests as they delve into eye-opening revelations about what they wish they had known before embarking on their college journeys, particularly historically black colleges and universities (HBCUs). The conversation takes a candid turn, exploring both personal growth and the elusive concept of 'the streets,' where societal pressures and relationships collide. Discover insights on mental health challenges, the dynamics of situationships, and the evolving perspective of today's students. The panelists share personal stories about college choices, peer influences, and the balance between academic aspirations and societal norms. This episode promises a riveting discussion on self-reflection, accountability, and the labyrinth of modern collegiate life. Whether you are a student, an alum, or simply curious about navigating life's intricate paths, tune in for a blend of humor, wisdom, and candid talk that resonates deeply with the complexities of coming-of-age in today's world.

EP#8___What I Wish I knew before coming to a HBCU

In this insightful episode, our diverse panel, representing students from various backgrounds, discusses the challenges and revelations experienced while navigating college life at an HBCU. They explore the critical lessons they wish they had known before transitioning from high school to college, offering perspectives on academic expectations, relationship dynamics, and the importance of networking. The episode delves into personal stories and advice on building social circles, maintaining mental health, and the unique cultural environment of an HBCU. Our panelists candidly address the common stereotypes and pressures they encounter, emphasizing the need to redefine black excellence and the power of self-discovery through education. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the complexities of college relationships, the responsibility of black women in selecting partners, and the broader journey of asserting black identity within and beyond the college experience. This episode serves as a reflective platform for students to share their narratives, offering relatable and profound guidance for anyone embarking on a similar path.

EP#7___"To Weave or Not to Weave: Breaking Down Hair Controversies"

Join the lively discussion as host Red Man and guest speakers delve into one of the most controversial episodes yet, exploring the intriguing and often divisive topic of hair weaves. Featured guests from diverse backgrounds that bring fresh perspectives as they tackle gender norms and societal expectations surrounding hair, especially regarding men and women wearing weaves. The episode offers a thought-provoking debate on what hair choices reveal about cultural identity and self-expression. Hear firsthand accounts and survey results that reveal societal standards, internalized beauty perceptions, and how these influence individual preferences and romantic relationships. With a mix of humor and candid insights, discover how hair shapes, and sometimes challenges, our understanding of gender roles and personal confidence. Available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and iHeartRadio.

EP#2___Situationships

Podcast Segment: Let’s Talk Situationships in the Black Community** Hey y’all, welcome back to the show. Today we’re diving into something real—a topic that’s been coming up a lot lately: *situationships*, and how they’re playing out in the Black community. Now, for those who don’t know, a situationship is basically a romantic connection without a clear label. You’re more than friends, but not quite in a committed relationship. Sounds chill, right? But let’s be real—it’s not always as simple as it seems. In our community, situationships come with some deeper layers. We’ve got generational trauma, broken trust, and systemic issues that influence how we show up in relationships. A lot of us are still healing—emotionally, mentally—and instead of being vulnerable, we stay in these “gray areas” because they feel safer. There’s also this disconnect between Black men and women sometimes—miscommunication, lack of trust, or even fear of rejection. Add in social media and pop culture glamorizing toxic love and casual hookups, and it’s no surprise that clarity and commitment can feel like a thing of the past. But here's the thing—situationships can leave folks feeling emotionally drained, confused, and lowkey resentful. No clear expectations. No accountability. Just vibes… until it’s not. So the question becomes: are we avoiding love because we’re scared of getting hurt, or because we’ve never been shown what healthy love looks like? Let’s get into it.