181. SAHMs Are An Asset (How to Stay Financially Empowered When You Leave the Workforce to Raise Your Kids)
If you became a stay-at-home mom and quietly started feeling like you need to ask permission to spend money, or like finances are his territory because he's the one bringing home the check, this episode is for you.
Right after my daughter was born, I found herself seriously considering stepping away from work. I sat with the idea, ran through the logistics, thought about what her finances would look like, and had to confront what it would actually feel like to no longer have her own income coming in. I ended up going back to work, but everything I had to think through in that season became the foundation for this episode.
Before anything tactical, I start with the mindset that every stay-at-home mom needs to fully step into. You are an asset. Not just emotionally, not just as a caregiver, but economically. The childcare you provide, the household you run, the space you create for your partner to grow their career, all of it has real financial value. And when you understand that, it changes how you show up in money conversations.
In this episode, you'll learn:
✅ How to understand the movement of money in your household, what comes in, what goes out, where the extra is going, and where all your accounts live
✅ Why having money going into accounts in your name, a personal spending account, a personal savings account, and a spousal IRA, is about autonomy and protection, not distrust
✅ Why losing years of retirement contributions matters and how a spousal IRA keeps your financial future growing even when you are not on a payroll
✅ How term life insurance and long-term disability insurance protect your household when one partner is the sole income earner
✅ How to set clear household boundaries so you are not the default for everything, all the time, without support
This is the episode I wish someone would have handed me when I was four months postpartum, sitting with a decision that a lot of women face and not many people talk about financially. Whether you are already a stay-at-home mom, considering it, or partnered with someone who is, this one is worth a listen
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