Leading From The Edge Podcast

The Truth About Leadership Boundaries: You've Got It Backwards

Most leaders avoid setting boundaries because of what they think it looks like. The boss who called someone out in front of the team. The leader who let frustration build until it boiled over publicly. The manager who made an example of someone to send a message. That is not boundary setting. That is what happens when boundaries are never set early enough.   In this episode I challenge how you think about leadership boundaries entirely. Because a leadership boundary is not a wall you put up when something goes wrong. It is a standard you name out loud before it does. And once you see it that way, everything changes.   In this episode: Where the fear of setting boundaries really comes from The boss identity trap and why you don't need it The reframe that changes everything about how boundaries feel What healthy cultures consistently have in common Why proactive clarity is the safest environment you can create for your team   Ready to set standards that stick without becoming someone you're not? 👉 Explore Be Exceptional [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/joinus-2c00a25f-6b1e-43de-9f69-9caa21b5ecbc]   Connect With Liz 👉 Subscribe on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@lizmurray_Leadership]for more episodes of Take 5 With Me 👉 Subscribe to Leadership Edge on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7370729283092160512]for weekly leadership insights. 🎧 Listen to Take 5 with Me [https://open.spotify.com/show/4Hbdf0kFgsuhDVNLnanQRc] — short episodes designed to strengthen leadership from the inside out. 🔹 WORK WITH LIZ MURRAY Liz Murray helps leaders protect their energy, sharpen their influence, and lead with emotional stamina through her online course Be Exceptional, one-to-one coaching, and high-impact workshops. 📩 Contact: liz@edgeofpossibilities.com.au 🌐 Website: www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au [http://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/] Follow Liz: LinkedIn: Liz Murray [https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizmurrayedgeofpossibilities/] Instagram: @eopossibilities [https://www.instagram.com/eopossibilities/#] Facebook: Edge of Possibilities [https://www.facebook.com/edgeofpossibilities#] Website: www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/]

The Cost of Soft Standards: What Leaders Think Is Kindness Is Actually Chaos

Most leaders are not deliberately lowering the bar. But every time they let something slide, they set a new standard. Whether they meant to or not. In this episode I share a real client story of a leader who invested deeply in their team's Mission, Vision and Values, watched the culture thrive, and then slowly lost their best people because one standard went unaddressed for too long. If you have ever told yourself you are being supportive when you might actually be avoiding, this one is for you. In this episode: The team that started strong and slowly lost momentum Why it was never the underperformer who damaged the culture What silent quitting actually signals about leadership How structured check ins changed everything The truth about soft standards and the kindness trap   Ready to hold the standard and lead with clarity? 👉 Explore Be Exceptional [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/joinus-2c00a25f-6b1e-43de-9f69-9caa21b5ecbc] 👉 Watch the full video [https://youtu.be/qCW42ghEXCI] 👉 Subscribe to my LinkedIn Newsletter [https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7370729283092160512]

Why Leaders Avoid Hard Conversations

Most leaders aren't avoiding people. They're avoiding the moment. In this episode I'm opening May's theme on standards, boundaries, and the cost of going quiet. I share a real example of a leader who kept delaying a necessary conversation for six weeks and what it cost their team when they did. If you've been pushing a conversation to next week, softening the message, or convincing yourself the moment has passed, this one is for you. Avoidance doesn't make the conversation disappear. It makes it bigger. In this episode: Why leaders avoid the moment, not the person The six week delay and what it cost the team Why avoidance doesn't make the conversation disappear What's coming this month on standards, boundaries, and leadership culture   Ready to lead with clarity? 👉 Explore Be Exceptional [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/joinus-2c00a25f-6b1e-43de-9f69-9caa21b5ecbc]

Lead Differently: From Control to Clarity

Most leaders don’t realise when they’ve slipped from leadership into control. It usually starts with good intentions: trying to help trying to keep things moving trying to maintain the standard But over time, stepping in too often creates something dangerous: dependency. In this episode, Liz Murray explores the hidden cost of over-controlling leadership and why clarity, not control, is what actually builds capability, ownership, and trust inside teams. Through personal leadership experience and practical insight, Liz unpacks: why leaders step in too quickly how unclear expectations create frustration the difference between carrying vs leading and how clarity transforms team performance. This episode is for leaders who feel stretched, frustrated, or stuck in the cycle of doing more instead of leading differently. Because real leadership isn’t about controlling every outcome. It’s about creating clarity strong enough for others to rise into. Key Takeaways Control often disguises itself as leadership Over-functioning reduces ownership in teams Clarity creates confidence and accountability Delayed conversations weaken standards Strong leadership requires clear expectations and follow-through Leadership becomes lighter when responsibility is redistributed properly   In This Episode Liz shares: a personal leadership experience where stepping in created more frustration the hidden emotional drivers behind controlling behaviour why leaders often avoid the real conversation how one direct conversation shifted an entire team dynamic the difference between rescuing and leading.   Episode Chapters 00:00 – The hidden problem with “doing more” 00:14 – When leaders step in too quickly 00:29 – Why control creates dependency 00:44 – The shift from carrying to clarity 00:56 – What strong leadership actually looks like 01:05 – Final reflection and challenge   “Control feels like leadership because it keeps you busy. Clarity is leadership because it builds capability.”   Reflection Question Where are you stepping in to control… instead of creating clarity?   Resources & Links Explore Be Exceptional Leadership development for leaders ready to stop over-functioning and lead with clarity and authority. 🌐 Edge of Possibilities  [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au?utm_source=chatgpt.com]   Connect With Liz Murray Follow for weekly leadership insights on: * leadership identity * standards and accountability * executive presence * emotional intelligence without rescue * clarity-based leadership   STAY CONNECTED For more leadership insights, connect with Liz Murray and explore the Beyond Boundaries Blog [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/blog]. 🎓 Join the Program 👉 Be Exceptional [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/joinus-2c00a25f-6b1e-43de-9f69-9caa21b5ecbc] Liz’s signature course to help you master stamina, influence, and energy. 👉 Subscribe on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@lizmurray_Leadership]for more episodes of Take 5 With Me 👉 Subscribe to Leadership Edge on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7370729283092160512]for weekly leadership insights. 🎧 Listen to Take 5 with Me [https://open.spotify.com/show/4Hbdf0kFgsuhDVNLnanQRc] — short episodes designed to strengthen leadership from the inside out. 📩 Contact: liz@edgeofpossibilities.com.au 🌐 Website: www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au [http://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/] Follow Liz: LinkedIn: Liz Murray [https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizmurrayedgeofpossibilities/] Instagram: @eopossibilities [https://www.instagram.com/eopossibilities/#] Facebook: Edge of Possibilities [https://www.facebook.com/edgeofpossibilities#] Website: www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/]

Stop Doing More: The Subtle Leadership Drift You’re Missing

Most leaders think the issue is their team. Or the workload. Or the strategy. But what if none of that is the real problem? In this short episode, Liz Murray breaks down the concept of identity drift—the subtle, almost invisible shift that happens when leaders start compensating instead of leading. It doesn’t happen all at once. It shows up in the small moments: softening a conversation delaying a decision carrying what isn’t yours And over time, those small shifts erode your authority. This episode is a call to pause, reflect, and look at what’s really driving your leadership right now.   🔑 Key Takeaways Leadership breakdown rarely happens suddenly—it happens incrementally “Doing more” is often compensation, not leadership Identity drift shows up in subtle behaviours, not big decisions You can’t fix identity drift with more information or frameworks Awareness—not effort—is what creates the shift   🎯 The Core Message You don’t lose your leadership overnight. You drift. And until you can see where you’ve started compensating… you can’t shift it.   🧠 Reflection Question Where have you started compensating… instead of leading?   ▶️ Watch / Read 🎥 Watch the full video [http://youtu.be/Il-63r-gfVo?si=21Ej2_XlNWZ0Ze0m'] 🎓Read the newsletter [https://www.linkedin.com/posts/lizmurrayedgeofpossibilities_you-dont-have-a-workload-problem-you-have-ugcPost-7452156157072158721-1dWW?utm_source=social_share_send&utm_medium=member_desktop_web&rcm=ACoAAA7vdDwB-SwmW_d70xCSn-B-OpKjjn9jWWM]   🚀 WORK WITH ME If something feels off in your leadership right now, it’s likely not a strategy issue. It’s a pattern you haven’t seen clearly yet. Inside Be Exceptional, [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/joinus-2c00a25f-6b1e-43de-9f69-9caa21b5ecbc] I work with leaders to: * identify where they’ve drifted * reset their leadership identity * lead with clarity, certainty, and consistency Because once you see it clearly… everything shifts.   🔗 STAY CONNECTED For more leadership insights, connect with Liz Murray and explore the Beyond Boundaries Blog [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/blog]. 🎓 Join the Program 👉 Be Exceptional [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/joinus-2c00a25f-6b1e-43de-9f69-9caa21b5ecbc] Liz’s signature course to help you master stamina, influence, and energy. 👉 Subscribe on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@lizmurray_Leadership]for more episodes of Take 5 With Me 👉 Subscribe to Leadership Edge on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7370729283092160512]for weekly leadership insights. 🎧 Listen to Take 5 with Me [https://open.spotify.com/show/4Hbdf0kFgsuhDVNLnanQRc] — short episodes designed to strengthen leadership from the inside out. 📩 Contact: liz@edgeofpossibilities.com.au 🌐 Website: www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au [http://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/] Follow Liz: LinkedIn: Liz Murray [https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizmurrayedgeofpossibilities/] Instagram: @eopossibilities [https://www.instagram.com/eopossibilities/#] Facebook: Edge of Possibilities [https://www.facebook.com/edgeofpossibilities#] Website: www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au [https://www.edgeofpossibilities.com.au/]