Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante

An Interview with Dr. Tom Ascol

In this episode, the Legacy Dads sit down with Dr. Tom Ascol to discuss the intersection of deep theology and daily fatherhood. As a seasoned pastor, author, and father, Tom brings a wealth of wisdom on what it means to lead a family with biblical clarity in an increasingly confused culture. We dive into the "Long Game" of parenting and why the fear of God is the ultimate antidote to the fears of this world. Connect with Tom Ascol * https://founders.org/podcasts/tstt-gods-gift-of-elders-to-his-church/ [https://founders.org/podcasts/tstt-gods-gift-of-elders-to-his-church/] on X: https://x.com/tomascol?s=20 [https://x.com/tomascol?s=20] Instagram: @thomasascol

Discipling through the years: the young adult era

In this final episode of our four-part series, Dave and Dante tackle the "Great Release"—the pivotal transition from parenting by authority to leading through influence as your children enter young adulthood. Grounded in the joy of 3 John 1:4, we explore how to stay spiritually connected without becoming controlling, providing a roadmap for fathers whose children are navigating college, careers, or even seasons of doubt and deconstruction. Whether you're learning to trust the foundation you've built or figuring out how to be a "safe harbor" during their recalibration, this episode challenges you to stop trying to control the outcome and start trusting the God who brings the growth. It's time to move from holding the bow to watching the arrow fly, confident that your legacy is anchored in faithfulness rather than perfection. Key Takeaways: * The Role Shift: Transitioning from daily control to foundational investment and coaching. * Staying Connected: Practical ways to maintain a spiritual bond without being intrusive. * Handling Doubt: How to remain a "safe harbor" if your child deconstructs or walks away from their faith. * Trusting the Growth: Remembering that you planted the seeds, but God brings the increase. Connect With Us * Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org [dave@legacydads.org] and dante@legacydads.org [dante@legacydads.org]. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community [https://www.facebook.com/legacydads] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads].

Discipling through the years: the teenage years

The teenage years are often viewed with dread by parents, but for the Legacy Dad, they represent the most crucial season of discipleship. In this episode, Dave and Dante discuss how to move from being a "manager" of your child's life to a "mentor" of their soul. It's about anchoring them in biblical truth while providing the safe harbor they need to navigate identity, doubt, and independence. Connect With Us * Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org [dave@legacydads.org] and dante@legacydads.org [dante@legacydads.org]. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community [https://www.facebook.com/legacydads] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads].

Discipling through the years: The Adolescent Stage

In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, Dave and Dante dive into the "Training Wheels" phase of fatherhood—discipling adolescents aged 8 to 12. This is a critical developmental window where children shift from simply absorbing their parents' beliefs to investigating the "why" behind them. The conversation centers on Proverbs 4:23, highlighting the father's role in helping children "guard their hearts" as they begin to encounter more complex social and cultural pressures. Dave and Dante discuss the transition from providing "spiritual milk" to "solid food," offering practical strategies for teaching kids how to read the Bible independently and apply a biblical worldview to school, sports, and friendships. Connect With Us * Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org [dave@legacydads.org] and dante@legacydads.org [dante@legacydads.org]. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community [https://www.facebook.com/legacydads] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads].

Discipling through the years: The Toddler Stage

Episode Summary Parenting a toddler feels like planting a garden in the middle of a windstorm—chaotic, messy, and loud. But it is also the most critical season for planting seeds that will last a lifetime. In this episode, Dave and Dante break down the "why" and "how" of discipling children ages 2–7. We're moving away from the pressure of perfection and leaning into the beauty of simple, faithful rhythms that point little hearts toward their Creator. Key Scriptures * Deuteronomy 6:6-7 – The mandate to weave faith into the fabric of everyday life. * Matthew 18:3 – Why the simplicity of a child's faith is the blueprint for our own. * Numbers 6:24-26 – The power of the priestly blessing. * 1 Corinthians 11:1 – Modeling faith for those who are always watching. What We Cover * The Toddler's Spiritual World: Why their "concrete" thinking isn't a limitation, but a gift. We discuss why heart formation beats theological precision every time. * Practical Rhythms: From morning gratitude to the transformative power of bedtime blessings. * Discipling Through the Senses: Faith shouldn't just be heard; it should be seen, touched, and experienced. Learn how to translate big theology into language a 4-year-old understands. * Modeling Over Teaching: You are your child's first "Bible." We get real about what happens when you blow it and how saying "I'm sorry" is a crucial discipleship tool. * The Long View: Trusting the "compound effect" of small, consistent habits even when you don't see immediate fruit. Action Step for the Week The Bedtime Blessing: This week, we're keeping it simple. Whether you've never done it or just got out of the habit, commit to implementing a consistent bedtime prayer or blessing routine for your toddler. Speak the truth of God's love over them before they drift off to sleep. Connect With Us * Join the Conversation: Have a toddler story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org [dave@legacydads.org] and dante@legacydads.org [dante@legacydads.org]. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community [https://www.facebook.com/legacydads] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads]. * Next Episode: We're turning the page to Adolescents. Get ready for a shift in strategy as we talk about navigating the pre-teen years.