SOLVED with Mark Manson

In this second episode of Solved, Drew and I go deep into the psychology, history, and science of procrastination. From Plato and Aristotle to Freud and modern research, we break down why we delay the things that matter most—and how to actually stop.This isn't a “just set a timer” productivity talk. We’re diving deep into shame, identity, perfectionism, culture, and why procrastination is ultimately a *skill issue*, not a moral failure. We cover things like:- How humans have thought about putting things off for over 2000 years- The real reason you avoid the most important tasks in your life- Why “I work better under pressure” is (usually) BS- Why self-compassion is actually more motivating than guilt- Tons of practical, research-backed strategies you can start using todayAnd much, much, much more. We also put together a free companion guide with all the takeaways, references, and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here : https://solvedpodcast.com/procrastination [https://solvedpodcast.com/procrastination] Ready to stop listening to podcasts and actually start taking action? Join Momentum, a community of like-minded people who are taking small steps every day to make big changes in their lives: https://findmomentum.com/procrastination [https://findmomentum.com/procrastination] Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://markmanson.net/breakthrough [https://markmanson.net/breakthrough] Follow me: https://instagram.com/markmanson/ [https://instagram.com/markmanson/] https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson [https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson] https://facebook.com/Markmansonnet/ [https://facebook.com/Markmansonnet/] https://linkedin.com/in/markmanson/ [https://linkedin.com/in/markmanson/] https://www.tiktok.com/@iammarkmanson [https://www.tiktok.com/@iammarkmanson] Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:05 Episode Roadmap 08:20 What exactly is procrastination? 15:50 Plato's Thoughts on Procrastination 24:07 The Buddhist & Confucian Views on Procrastination 26:19 Aristotle's Take on Procrastination 33:50 Christianity and Procrastination 46:53 Self-Compassion and Procrastination 58:45 The Reformation and Procrastination 1:04:25 Freud's Influence on Psychology 1:06:40 Pleasure Principle and Reality Principle 1:08:13 Id, Ego, and Superego 1:10:26 Defense Mechanisms 1:17:20 Adopting Habits as Identity 1:23:05 The Influence of Childhood and Parenting on Procrastination 1:33:42 Behaviorism 1:41:21 Environmental Design 1:46:10 Thriving Under Pressure: A Critique 1:52:10 Expectation, Pressure, and Procrastination 1:54:06 Critique of Behaviorism 1:59:20 Time Management 2:07:33 Knowledge vs Emotion in Procrastination 2:16:43 Mark and Drew's Personal Productivity Systems 2:20:37 Deep Work and Task Management 2:23:12 Productivity System for ADHD 2:29:26 Productive Procrastination 2:34:22 Importance of Task Completion 2:36:51 Existentialism and Purpose 2:44:21 Purpose and Motivation 2:53:40 Temporal Motivation Theory 2:57:39 Limitations of Temporal Motivation Theory 2:59:22 The Role of Technology in Procrastination 3:07:10 The Dynamic Nature of Temporal Motivation Theory 3:10:59 Critique of Temporal Motivation Theory 3:16:41 Emotional Regulation Theory of Procrastination 3:20:27 Understanding Emotional Regulation 3:23:04 Managing Emotions and Environment 3:28:09 Introduction to the RAIN Method 3:31:07 The Six Types of Procrastinators 3:40:21 The 80-20 of Procrastination 3:46:21 Strategic Use of Friction 3:56:11 Gamifying Tasks to Make Them More Interesting 3:58:49 The Impact of Environment on Productivity 4:01:07 The Role of Purpose in Overcoming Procrastination 4:06:06 The Concept of "Minimum Viable Action" 4:11:26 Addressing Underlying Emotions to Overcome Procrastination 4:16:06 Leveraging Human Nature and Rewards 4:20:06 The Social Aspect of Overcoming Procrastination 4:21:19 Productive Procrastination: A Double-Edged Sword 4:22:32 The Hidden Costs of Overcoming Procrastination 4:39:12 Conclusion

Welcome to the first episode of the Solved Podcast. Today, we are solving your values. Over eight years ago, I wrote The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck—a book that, underneath all the swearing and irreverence, was really about one thing: values. What do you care about? What’s actually worth your time, your energy, your life? So in this kickoff episode of SOLVED, Drew and I are going deep into why your values are the foundation of everything—your happiness, your mental health, your relationships, your sense of meaning—and why so many of us today feel so lost. We break down the difference between chasing cheap dopamine hits and building real fulfillment, why not all values are created equal, how to figure out what your true values are, how to change your values, how to start living out your values more fully, and how values silently shape your decisions and relationships every day. If you’ve ever felt stuck, directionless, or like you’re living someone else’s life, this episode is the wake-up call you need. It’s time to stop drifting through life and start giving a fck about the right things. Forget the rest. Welcome to SOLVED. Get the Values companion guide for this episode: https://solvedpodcast.com/values [https://solvedpodcast.com/values] Ready to stop listening to podcasts and actually start taking action? Join the Momentum, a community of like-minded people who are taking small steps every day to make big changes in their lives: https://findmomentum.com [https://findmomentum.com] Follow me: https://instagram.com/markmanson/ [https://instagram.com/markmanson/] https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson [https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson] https://facebook.com/Markmansonnet/ [https://facebook.com/Markmansonnet/] https://linkedin.com/in/markmanson/ [https://linkedin.com/in/markmanson/] https://www.tiktok.com/@iammarkmanson [https://www.tiktok.com/@iammarkmanson] Chapters 00:00 Welcome to SOLVED 07:47 Episode Roadmap 09:31 CHAPTER 1: What are Values? 10:26 Characteristics of Values 14:23 Values vs. Psychological Needs vs. Preferences 23:06 Schwartz's Values Wheel 30:36 Instrumental and Terminal Values 32:15 Hierarchy of Values 38:35 Values Conflict 42:35 Carol Ryff's Six Dimensions of Psychological Well-being 57:01 Aristotle's Golden Mean as Virtue 1:05:01 CHAPTER 2: Values and Your Relationships 1:22:56 The Clash of Values in Relationships 1:30:29 Identifying and Navigating Values in Relationships 1:34:40 Understanding Compatibility Through Values 1:37:25 CHAPTER 3: Where Do Values Come From? 1:38:20 Margaret Mead's Cultural Relativism 1:47:55 Mary Douglas's and the Grid-Group Framework 1:56:20 Jonathan Haidt's Moral Foundations Theory 2:09:26 The Allegory of the Taco Truck 2:14:34 CHAPTER 4: Identifying Your Core Values 2:16:58 Thought Experiments to Find Your Values 2:32:16 The Instrumental Value of Golf 2:41:45 The Role of Trauma in Value Change 2:48:53 CHAPTER 5: How to Change Your Values 2:50:44 Kazimierz Dabrowski and Positive Disintegration 3:03:22 On Cults and Cognitive Dissonance 3:16:26 Self-Confrontation and Value Change 3:18:34 Charlie Munger's Maxim: Incentives and Behavior 3:21:56 CHAPTER 6: Lessons and Takeaways 3:36:30 The 80/20 of Values 3:55:57 Reflecting on the Episode

New podcast launches May 1st! We'll be releasing on this same feed, so all you have to do is stay subscribed to this channel and you'll get all the new episodes as they come out. *** After more than 70 episodes and 30 million downloads, I’ve decided to shut down The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck Podcast. Yeah, I know—sounds a little crazy. But the truth is, I wasn’t having fun anymore. The guest treadmill, the pressure to play nice, the temptation to chase clicks instead of meaning—it all started to feel fake. So, I’m pulling the plug. BUT—I’m not going away. I’m launching something new. It’s called Solved—a no-ads, no-guests, deep-dive podcast where each episode tackles one major life topic and breaks it down thoroughly. Think: values, emotions, procrastination—done right, from every angle, with real research and clear implementation. It’s the podcast I wish already existed. So I’m making it. First episode drops May 1 st! Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://markmanson.net/breakthrough [https://markmanson.net/breakthrough] Follow me: https://instagram.com/markmanson/ [https://instagram.com/markmanson/] https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson [https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson] https://facebook.com/Markmansonnet/ [https://facebook.com/Markmansonnet/] https://linkedin.com/in/markmanson/ [https://linkedin.com/in/markmanson/] https://www.tiktok.com/@iammarkmanson [https://www.tiktok.com/@iammarkmanson]

I’ve got a special episode for you today. I sat down in person with my longtime friend and first-ever podcast guest, Derek Sivers. We haven’t recorded live before, and honestly, it shows—in the best way. It’s raw, weird, and filled with the kind of conversations we usually when we’re just hanging out together. We dig into Derek’s new book, Useful, Not True, and the big idea behind it: that our beliefs don’t need to be true to be helpful. That spins off into everything from remixing creative influences (metal + Dixieland jazz, anyone?) to why most podcasts—including mine—have gotten painfully predictable. We talk artistic reinvention, Bob Dylan, Bowie, Miles Davis, why most “thought leaders” are just regurgitating each other’s ideas, and why I'm ending the podcast as you know it—and what’s next! We also dive into the deeper stuff: the emotional power of belief, authenticity vs. performative vulnerability, therapy culture, and why sometimes the most liberating thing you can do is reject what everyone else thinks is necessary—relationships, kids, all of it. This was one of the most honest, meandering, and creatively energizing conversations I’ve had in a while. If you’re into big questions, unconventional ideas, and the occasional musical metaphor, this one’s for you. Derek’s new book- Useful, Not True: https://www.amazon.com/Useful-Not-True-Derek-Sivers-ebook/dp/B0D86K4XF5 [https://www.amazon.com/Useful-Not-True-Derek-Sivers-ebook/dp/B0D86K4XF5] Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://markmanson.net/breakthrough Follow me: https://instagram.com/markmanson/ https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson https://facebook.com/Markmansonnet/ https://linkedin.com/in/markmanson/ https://www.tiktok.com/@iammarkmanson

In this episode, Drew and I dive into some of the biggest beliefs we’ve shifted over the years—and what it actually looks like to change your mind. We talk about Drew’s evolving views on religion, why I’m way less convinced that people are as changeable as we like to believe, and why I think trauma might be getting a little too much airtime in the self-help world. We also get into the loneliness epidemic, the quiet power of community, and why so much of “personal growth” isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about learning to work with who you already are. Leave a comment below about what you’ve changed your mind about—and enjoy. Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://markmanson.net/breakthrough [https://markmanson.net/breakthrough] Follow me: https://instagram.com/markmanson/ [https://instagram.com/markmanson/] https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson [https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson] https://facebook.com/Markmansonnet/ [https://facebook.com/Markmansonnet/] https://linkedin.com/in/markmanson/ [https://linkedin.com/in/markmanson/] https://www.tiktok.com/@iammarkmanson [https://www.tiktok.com/@iammarkmanson] Chapters 00:00 Intro: What we've changed our minds about 02:59 Religion 07:40 Where does belief change start? 17:08 Does Mark stand by his books? 18:06 Why change is so hard 30:27 Trauma doesn't determine destiny 37:52 Cautious optimism Theme song: Icarus Lives by Periphery [https://open.spotify.com/artist/6d24kC5fxHFOSEAmjQPPhc] , used with permission from Periphery.