My Spiritual Friends

Safe to Be: Gender, Spirit, and the Neuroscience of Acceptance with Dr. Gena St. David

In this rich conversation, Joni Lorraine is joined by Dr. Gena St. David—licensed professional counselor, marriage and family therapist, and Director of the Center for Counseling and Spirituality at Seminary of the Southwest in Austin, Texas. With deep expertise in trauma resilience, systemic therapy, and neuroscience, Dr. St. David brings a compassionate and research-informed perspective to the topic of LGBTQ+ spirituality. Together, they explore the nature of spiritual formation, how we come to understand and honor gender identity, and the realities of gender dysphoria. Dr. St. David explains the neuroscience behind trust, acceptance, and vulnerability—and how these are crucial in the coming out process and in creating communities where LGBTQ+ individuals can truly thrive. Drawing from her book The Brain & the Spirit and her ongoing research into nonviolence and spiritual healing, Dr. St. David offers a powerful vision for what becomes possible when we meet each other—and ourselves—with love and understanding. 🎧 Join us for a conversation that bridges science and soul, offering insight, healing, and hope for all who long to be fully seen.

Creating an Affirmative Spirituality with Marilyn Connelly

In this enlightening episode, Marilyn Connelly reflects on her spiritual upbringing and the importance of supportive environments for LGBTQ+ individuals. She explores the role of sensation and anger in spirituality, offering insights on how these emotions can be embraced as part of the spiritual journey. Marilyn also chats on the need for safe spaces and the power of intentional communities in fostering belonging and growth.

Finding Spiritual Connection Anywhere – with Leslie Starnes

In this light hearted episode with her longtime friend Leslie Starnes, Leslie and Joni explore the nuances between religion and spirituality, and chat on treatment and addiction recovery. The two ponder on how order and ritual provide comfort as a centering power in life’s journey, and Leslie offers a unique perspective on finding spirituality anywhere, even when you’re power washing. Nothing lofty about spirituality here, and that’s a blessing.

Coming Home to Spiritual Wholeness with Rev. Jere Farrell

In this profound conversation, Rev. Jere Farrell shares insights on oneness experiences and the journey of reconciling spirituality with sexual orientation. We discuss the challenges of experiencing exile and the healing power of finding a welcoming spiritual community. Rev. Jere also explores the idea of coming out as a universal experience, the misconceptions surrounding Jesus, and the path to true acceptance.

Embracing Authenticity with Bonnie & Vicky Gale

In this heartfelt episode, Bonnie and Vicky Gale open up about their spiritual journeys, sharing how they navigated authenticity, explored profound spiritual teachings, and found wisdom in various masters. They discuss the struggles and triumphs of their coming-out journey, emphasizing the deep impact of acceptance—both from within and from spiritual guides and leaders. Their story is a testament to the power of love, self-discovery, and the role of spirituality in embracing one’s true self.