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Episode 6: Being a Christian in the Digital: How to be a Light in Every Arena

The internet is louder than ever. Outrage spreads faster than truth. Tragedies become trending topics. And for many, social media is shaping not only how they think, but who they’re becoming. In this episode, we tackle the challenge of being a Christian in today’s digital world. How do we stay faithful when the algorithms reward hate, gossip, and distraction? How do we respond with grace when the world cheers cruelty or celebrates tragedy? And how do we guard our hearts, minds, and integrity when the scroll can desensitize us, tempt us, or pull us away from God? We’ll talk about:💻 The spiritual impact of social media on our hearts and habits.📖 What Scripture says about our words, purity, and integrity.⚔️ How to resist desensitization, temptation, and doomscrolling.✨ Practical tools to shine light in dark spaces online and offline. Whether it’s in your group chat, your feed, or your daily scroll, Jesus is calling us to be light in every arena. Let’s learn how to live with wisdom, compassion, and courage in a digital age that desperately needs it. Social: Instagram: @tylermillershain Tik Tok: @tylermillshain Any questions, thoughts, or ideas for future episodes send to nmctpodcast@gmail.com. Send this episode to someone who needs it. Share on social media for others to along with your thoughts and reflections or what steps you are taking to shine your light in the digital arena.

Episode 5: God Loves Me... Even When I Screw Up?

You’ve made mistakes. You’ve done things you’re not proud of. Maybe you’ve even wondered, “How could God still love me after all of this?” In this raw and real episode, we unpack the truth about God’s unshakable love—even in your lowest moments. We talk about: ❤️ The difference between guilt and shame 📖 What the Bible really says about grace and forgiveness 🚫 Why your sin doesn’t cancel God’s love or your purpose 🔄 How to move forward when you feel stuck in your failures Whether you feel far from God, ashamed, or just tired of messing up, this episode is your reminder: You’re not too far gone. God’s love doesn’t have a breaking point. 🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you tune in. Send this episode to someone, share on social media, and DM or email any thoughts or questions. Follow on social media @tylermillershain Email nmctpodcast@gmail.com for questions or ideas on future episodes.

Episode 4: Why Does God Let Bad Things Happen? Understanding Suffering, God's Sovereignty, and Finding Hope

Have you ever been so overwhelmed by life, scrolling through the news, or dealing with something heavy, and thought— ‘If God is so good, why is life so hard? Why does He let bad things happen?’ Let’s be honest… suffering is a huge struggle for a lot of people, maybe even the biggest reason some walk away from faith. Maybe you’ve been there—maybe you're there right now. And if so, first off, I just want to say... you’re not alone. Today, we’re going to dive deep into this question: Why does God let bad things happen? Is He even in control? Does He care? And if He does, then why does He allow suffering? We’ll break down: ✅ The reality of suffering and why it exists. ✅ How free will and sin play a role in pain. ✅ What the Bible says about God’s control and His purpose in suffering. ✅ How Jesus personally experienced suffering and why that matters. ✅ How to find hope and trust God even in the hardest times. I don’t have all the answers, but I do know this—God isn’t afraid of our questions. So let’s wrestle with this together. And my hope is that by the end of this episode you'll find peace in knowing God is still in control, that He sees you, He knows you, and He loves you. And He is with you every step of the way despite your doubts or questions or struggles. If you have any questions, thoughts, or ideas for future episodes send it to nmctpodcast@gmail.com Send this episode to someone who needs encouragement today. Share it on social media for others along with your thoughts and reflections or what Faith in Action steps helped you.

Episode 3: Sliding into Love: Dating, DMs, and Keeping it Godly

Dating today is WILD. We’ve got dating apps, late-night DMs, endless swiping, ghosting, ‘situationships,’ and a whole lot of confusion about what a healthy, Godly relationship actually looks like. it’s easy to feel like relationships are more confusing than ever. Especially in a culture where commitment feels optional and love is often treated like a game, how do we as followers of Jesus navigate dating in a way that actually honors God—without getting caught up in all the mess? Is it possible to keep your faith strong while figuring out relationships in a world that’s all about quick hookups and instant validation? How do we honor God in a world where love feels more like a game than a commitment? 🔥 In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into: ✔️ Why dating feels so complicated today and how we got here. ✔️ What the Bible actually says about love, relationships, and purity. ✔️ How to set boundaries in a boundary-less culture—yes, we’re talking physical, emotional, AND digital boundaries. ✔️ How to date with faith in a digital world—without letting social media run your love life. So whether you’re living the single life, dating, in a ‘complicated situation,’ or just straight-up confused about what godly dating even looks like, this episode is for you.  If you have any prayer requests, questions about God or the Bible, send those in along with anything you would like the podcast to cover. Send to: nmctpodcast@gmail.com  Send this podcast to someone, share it on social media, and subscribe so you receive episodes as soon as they drop.  If you have boundaries set in your relationships, what are they? share that in the comments—it will help more people find real talk about faith and life and in this case, love.

Episode 2: Faith and Feelings: Finding Hope in the Struggle

Mental health is a significant challenge for Gen Z and Gen Alpha. This episode addresses the tension between faith and feelings, exploring how Jesus provides hope when life feels overwhelming. We’ll tackle questions like, “Is it okay to feel anxious or depressed as a Christian?” and “How can faith help when my emotions seem uncontrollable?” Faith in Action: 1. The 5-Minute Reset: Pause, breathe, and pray. * “God doesn’t need your Instagram-filtered prayer. He wants the raw, real version of you.” 2. Gratitude Journaling: Name your feelings. Write three things you’re thankful for daily. * “Take a second to pause and ask, ‘What am I really feeling?’ Naming it can help you process it.” and then following that up with a few things you're thankful for helps shape your perspective. 3. Scripture Memorization: Start with Philippians 4:6-7 about peace and anxiety. 4. Worship: Throw some worship music on and worship God.  5. Talk it out: “Find someone you trust—a mentor, friend, or counselor—and share what you’re going through.” 6. Take care of your body: “Emotions and physical health are connected. Sleep, eat well, and move—it helps more than you think.” Send in your thoughts on this episode, your experience with mental health, and when you or someone you know found hope in Jesus.  If you have any prayer requests, questions about God or the Bible, send those in along with anything you would like the podcast to cover. Send to: nmctpodcast@gmail.com  Send this podcast to someone, share it on social media, subscribe so you receive episodes as soon as they drop.