Notes to the Son

The silence of men: Why we need to start talking about real pain

When life breaks a man, who is actually there to support him? Learn why fixing problems is the wrong approach and how to be a better friend. Most male friendship dynamics revolve around distractions, sports, or superficial updates. We often default to discussing who is winning or losing, with over half of all conversations lacking any real substance. This video breaks down why this pattern exists and provides a more effective way to show up for the men in your life when they are struggling. Instead of offering quick solutions or trying to fix the issues, true support requires presence. You will learn the value of simply sitting with a man during his lowest moments without needing to provide an immediate answer. If you want to move beyond surface-level talk and start having meaningful conversations that actually help, this perspective is essential. Subscribe to @notestotheson [https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCiH03M8BZRMsUF4Tm_OPe8w] for weekly breakdowns on navigating male relationships and emotional growth, and comment below on how you support your friends during difficult times.

White Gay Bitch | How I defined manhood

This episode delves into my upbringing without a father, exploring the 'psychology' of growing up with a 'single mother' and the unique challenges this presents. My manhood was shaped by all of the things I was told not to do as a young black male. My aim is to offer 'wisdom" for young African American me, so they can benefit from my journey and foster their own personal growth.

Building your Inner Circle | Are You Letting the Wrong People In?

Welcome to 'Notes to the Son,' where I, KGB, invite you to examine your personal relationships through the lens of 'Seats at the Table.' This episode delves into the 'psychology' of who you allow into your life's inner circle, emphasizing that not everyone is equipped to support you through challenges. Understanding 'communication skills' and developing 'emotional intelligence' are crucial 'life skills' for navigating these dynamics, ensuring you don't face difficulties alone. For more self-help, check out the links below.

Ask this question about Love before its too late #podcast #relationship #relationshipadvice

In this video, KGB challenges viewers to examine their own "relationships" by asking why their partners love them. He argues that true love is distinct from other relationship components, emphasizing the importance of preparation in the courting process, sacrifice, and reciprocity. This discussion offers valuable "relationship advice" by exploring the "psychology" behind connection and how it contributes to "personal development" and true love.

Society's Definition of Masculinity Is Destroying Men

In this powerful video, we discuss how "masculine energy" is not always synonymous with true "manhood." Our host, KGB, emphasizes that "masculinity is not manhood". In fact, masculinity is often interfering with the full expression of "being a man." This discussion aims to help men, and those who interact with them, understand "how to be a man" in a way that fosters genuine strength and leadership.