Oxendine Law Podcast

The First 30 Days After Filing for Divorce: What to Expect

The first month after filing for divorce can feel overwhelming. Emotions are high, routines are changing, and many people aren't sure what comes next. In this episode, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer explain what to expect during the first 30 to 60 days of the divorce process. They discuss why it's important to avoid making emotional decisions, how to build the right support team, what your attorney is doing behind the scenes, and why patience is often one of the most valuable tools during this stage of a case. They also cover practical steps for protecting your finances, gathering important information, responding to legal requests, and maintaining stability for your children while the legal process unfolds. If you're preparing to file for divorce or have recently started the process, this conversation offers practical guidance to help you move forward with confidence and clarity. Are you contemplating divorce? We can help. Are you looking for a second opinion? We can help with that, too. Learn more about our practice: https://bit.ly/3ZMBWGa Ready to talk to an attorney about your unique situation? We’re here to help. Fill out our contact form online and we’ll be in touch: https://bit.ly/41oKyDR Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/oxendinelaw/ [https://www.facebook.com/oxendinelaw/] https://twitter.com/OxendineLaw [https://twitter.com/OxendineLaw] https://www.instagram.com/oxendinelaw/ [https://www.instagram.com/oxendinelaw/] https://www.youtube.com/@oxendinelawdivorcefamilyla1807 [https://www.youtube.com/@oxendinelawdivorcefamilyla1807]

How Divorce Affects Children at Every Age

One of the biggest concerns parents have during a divorce is how it will affect their children. The reality is that every child experiences divorce differently depending on their age, stage of development, and the way their parents handle the process. In this episode, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss how toddlers, school-age children, teenagers, and even college-aged children may respond to divorce. They explain why maintaining routines, protecting children from parental conflict, encouraging healthy relationships with both parents, and communicating in age-appropriate ways can make a significant difference during the transition. The conversation also explores common mistakes parents make, including placing children in the middle of adult conflicts, speaking negatively about the other parent, and unintentionally creating loyalty conflicts that can have lasting emotional effects. No matter your child's age, there are practical steps you can take to help them feel secure, supported, and loved throughout the divorce process. Are you contemplating divorce? We can help. Are you looking for a second opinion? We can help with that, too. Learn more about our practice: https://bit.ly/3ZMBWGa Ready to talk to an attorney about your unique situation? We’re here to help. Fill out our contact form online and we’ll be in touch: https://bit.ly/41oKyDR Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/oxendinelaw/ [https://www.facebook.com/oxendinelaw/] https://twitter.com/OxendineLaw [https://twitter.com/OxendineLaw] https://www.instagram.com/oxendinelaw/ [https://www.instagram.com/oxendinelaw/] https://www.youtube.com/@oxendinelawdivorcefamilyla1807 [https://www.youtube.com/@oxendinelawdivorcefamilyla1807]

Am I Going to Lose Everything? Your Top Divorce Questions Answered

Divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when you're trying to separate facts from fears. From concerns about the house and retirement accounts to questions about alimony, custody, attorney fees, and moving out, most people walk into their first consultation with the same worries. Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer break down the most common questions they hear from clients who are considering divorce. They explain what factors impact the cost and length of a case, when hiring an attorney matters most, how courts typically handle property division, and what parents should know before making decisions that could affect custody. If you're at the beginning of the divorce process and looking for straightforward answers, this conversation provides a practical roadmap for what to expect and how to protect yourself moving forward. Are you contemplating divorce? We can help. Are you looking for a second opinion? We can help with that, too. Learn more about our practice: https://bit.ly/3ZMBWGa Ready to talk to an attorney about your unique situation? We’re here to help. Fill out our contact form online and we’ll be in touch: https://bit.ly/41oKyDR Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/oxendinelaw/ [https://www.facebook.com/oxendinelaw/] https://twitter.com/OxendineLaw [https://twitter.com/OxendineLaw] https://www.instagram.com/oxendinelaw/ [https://www.instagram.com/oxendinelaw/] https://www.youtube.com/@oxendinelawdivorcefamilyla1807 [https://www.youtube.com/@oxendinelawdivorcefamilyla1807]

The Hidden Warning Signs Your Marriage May Be Headed Toward Divorce

Most marriages don't end because of a single fight, an affair, or one major event. More often, they begin to unravel through small changes that happen over time. Communication becomes less meaningful. Emotional connection starts to fade. Partners begin living parallel lives instead of building a life together. Eventually, resentment can replace appreciation, and unresolved issues become permanent sources of conflict. Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss the subtle warning signs they frequently see in struggling marriages, including communication breakdowns, emotional disconnection, keeping score, and the feeling of becoming roommates instead of partners. They also explore practical steps couples can take when they want to save their relationship, from individual counseling and couples counseling to having honest conversations about the issues that matter most. Whether you're working to strengthen your marriage or trying to understand where your relationship stands, recognizing these signs early can help you make informed decisions about your future. Are you contemplating divorce? We can help. Are you looking for a second opinion? We can help with that, too. Learn more about our practice: https://bit.ly/3ZMBWGa Ready to talk to an attorney about your unique situation? We’re here to help. Fill out our contact form online and we’ll be in touch: https://bit.ly/41oKyDR Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/oxendinelaw/ [https://www.facebook.com/oxendinelaw/] https://twitter.com/OxendineLaw [https://twitter.com/OxendineLaw] https://www.instagram.com/oxendinelaw/ [https://www.instagram.com/oxendinelaw/] https://www.youtube.com/@oxendinelawdivorcefamilyla1807 [https://www.youtube.com/@oxendinelawdivorcefamilyla1807]

When Is It Really Time to File for Divorce?

How do you know when it's time to file for divorce? It's one of the most common and most personal questions family law attorneys hear. In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss the difficult process of deciding whether to stay in a marriage or move forward with divorce. They explore the questions people should be asking themselves, including whether they are staying out of love, hope, fear, comfort, or simply because change feels overwhelming. The conversation covers common reasons people stay in unhappy marriages, such as concerns about children, financial uncertainty, fear of being alone, and worries about what family and friends might think. Jared and Christine also discuss the importance of honest self-reflection, recognizing when counseling is being approached in good faith, and making decisions from a place of clarity rather than fear. Drawing from both professional experience and personal insight, they offer practical guidance for anyone struggling with one of life's most difficult decisions. Learn more about our practice: https://bit.ly/3ZMBWGa Contact us: https://bit.ly/41oKyDR Follow Oxendine Law: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/oxendinelaw/ X: https://twitter.com/OxendineLaw Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oxendinelaw/ [https://www.instagram.com/oxendinelaw/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@oxendinelawdivorcefamilyla1807