Pearls of Motherhood

S4 Finale: This Isn't How We Planned It (But We're Here Anyway)

What happens when you can’t hold everything together anymore? In this deeply personal Season 4 finale of Pearls of Motherhood, Diana opens up about postpartum anxiety after her C-section, the pressure moms feel to “do it all,” and the hidden emotional toll of constantly trying to stay in control during uncertain seasons of motherhood. From obsessing over laundry and routines while recovering postpartum to the guilt, overstimulation, and emotional exhaustion so many moms silently carry, this episode explores the psychology behind why mothers over-function when life feels overwhelming—and why struggling does not mean you’re failing. Plus, a heartfelt listener mail from a mom of two toddlers sparks an honest conversation about mom guilt, emotional regulation, mental overload, self-criticism, and the impossible expectations modern mothers place on themselves. If you’ve ever: * felt emotionally exhausted in motherhood * struggled with postpartum anxiety or overwhelm * wondered why you can’t “just handle it better” * felt guilty for not enjoying every moment * felt like you were barely holding it together …this episode is for you. Because motherhood isn’t about holding everything together perfectly. Sometimes the bravest thing a mom can do… is stay. ✨ Topics discussed: Postpartum recovery, maternal mental health, emotional overload, mom guilt, overstimulation, perfectionism, intolerance of uncertainty, emotional regulation, identity shifts in motherhood, self-compassion, and parenting through hard seasons. Follow us on Instagram, Threads, and Facebook: @pomcasts 💛 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2446253/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2446253/support] Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

S4E9: Some Kids Just Don't Care, Yet

Ever looked at your child in a moment and thought… “why don’t they care?” When your kid ignores someone crying, grabs a toy without a second thought, or says “I don’t care” with full eye contact—it can feel personal. Like you’re failing. Like something’s off. But what if the truth is simpler… and a whole lot more relieving? In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we’re saying something out loud that most moms think but don’t say: 👉 some kids just don’t care… yet. We break down what empathy actually looks like in child development (hint: it’s not automatic), why your child’s brain might not be there yet, and how to stop feeling like a broken record repeating “be kind” all day long. You’ll learn: * Why empathy is a capacity issue, not a character flaw * The 3 layers of empathy (and why most of us jump straight to the last one) * How to teach empathy in real life—without losing your mind * Why connection works better than correction * What to do instead of forcing apologies * A simple, in-the-moment formula: notice it, name it, guide it We also talk about the emotional side of this—those moments that make you question everything—and how to reframe them with a little more compassion (for your child and yourself). Because empathy isn’t something you can force. It’s something you grow—slowly, imperfectly, and over time. 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and iHeartRadio. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2446253/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2446253/support] Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

S4E8: You're Not Getting An Apology: How to find peace without closure

You’re not getting an apology. And waiting for one is keeping you stuck. They moved on. They’re not thinking about it. And you’re still carrying the weight. That’s the part no one says out loud. In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we talk about the kind of forgiveness that feels unfair— the kind where they never say sorry. Because forgiveness isn’t about them. It doesn’t mean – it was okay – you forget – you let them back in It means you stop letting it control you. You may never get the apology… but you don’t need it to move forward. 🎧 You’re Not Getting an Apology: How to Find Peace Without Closure Listen now! 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2446253/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2446253/support] Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

S4E7: You're Not A Bad Mom...You're Just Comparing: How mom comparison quietly steals your joy (and how to stop)

Ever feel like you're losing at motherhood… just by being around other moms? In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we’re unpacking the silent competition no one talks about—mom comparison—and how it quietly steals your joy. That thought—“Why can’t I do it like she does?”— It’s not truth. It’s pressure. Because here’s what no one tells you: Most moms aren’t judging you… they’re questioning themselves too. ✨ The competition isn’t real ✨ The standard isn’t fair ✨ And your motherhood was never meant to look like hers If you’ve ever walked away from a playdate, scroll session, or school pickup feeling “less than”… this episode is your reset. 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and iHeartRadio. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2446253/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2446253/support] Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

S4E6: The Mom Feeling Nobody Talks About: Loving Your Kid But Not Liking the Moment

Ever felt like you love your kid… but don’t actually like them right now? That feeling almost no mom talks about? We're talking about it today. It’s one of the most taboo feelings in motherhood—and one almost no one talks about out loud. In this honest and compassionate episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we break the silence around those moments when your child pushes every button you have. The truth is, loving your child and enjoying every moment with them are not the same thing—and that doesn’t make you a bad mom. It makes you human. We explore why these feelings happen more often than moms admit. Sometimes it’s a mismatch in temperament. Sometimes it’s sensory overload, exhaustion, or constant power struggles. And sometimes it’s simply the weight of parenting without enough support. Instead of shame, we offer understanding—and practical ways to reset when you feel overwhelmed. In this episode, we talk about: * Why loving your child and liking their behavior are two different things * How burnout, sensory overload, and power struggles affect your reactions * Simple ways to regulate your nervous system before responding * How connection can soften difficult moments * Why repair and honest conversations strengthen your relationship with your child If you’ve ever thought, “I love my child, but right now I don’t like this moment,” this conversation is for you. Because motherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about honesty, growth, and learning how to come back to connection. You’re not alone in this. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2446253/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2446253/support] Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!