Perfectly Flawed Podcast

Escaping and Embracing the Darkness

What does it take to reclaim your life after abuse? In this episode of Perfectly Flawed, I talk with Larissa Astara Gray, who escaped an abusive partner in the middle of the night with her young son, flying out of Egypt to safety. From surviving toxic relationships, heroin addiction, and sexual trauma, Larissa’s greatest challenge has been learning to trust and love herself. Now a dynamic speaker and advocate, she sparks transformative conversations about sexual health, consent and the impact of pornography, guiding people toward healthy, empowered choices. We explore: 💡 How to survive trauma and rebuild trust in yourself. 💡 Why honest conversations about sexuality are vital. 💡 Turning personal hardship into empowerment and change. 🎧 Tune in for a raw, inspiring, and life-affirming conversation. Introducing Larissa Astara Gray, a dynamic speaker committed to revolutionizing sex education and sparking transformative conversations about sexual communication. In a world struggling with outdated views on sexuality, Larissa is a beacon of change. She has spent years researching with educators, survivors, and young people, combining their insights with her own powerful story.  Having overcome rape, sexual shame, toxic relationships, and substance abuse, Larissa is dedicated to healing and empowerment. Her talks cover building healthy sexual relationships, preventing sexual assault, non-consensual experiences, and STIs. Her biggest passion is revealing the truth about pornography's impact on young people.  Larissa guides people toward healthy, respectful, and empowering sexual choices. She’s not just a speaker; she’s a movement.

Finding Your Voice

What if the key to success isn’t just talent—but learning to be your own best friend? In this episode of Perfectly Flawed, I sat down with Elliot Kay, CEO of the Speaker Awards and Summit, author and entrepreneur. Growing up with an alcoholic father and facing bullying and isolation at school, Elliot learned early what it felt like to be alone and friendless. Those experiences could have held him back—but instead, they became the foundation for resilience, self-acceptance, and an extraordinary career. Today, Elliot helps leaders and speakers amplify their influence, using the power of authentic, purposeful communication to create impact, trust, and lasting change. He believes that speaking with heart isn’t just about being heard—it’s about inspiring, leading, and leaving a legacy. Together, we explore: 💡 How to transform loneliness and self-doubt into confidence and self-compassion. 💡 Why authenticity is the most powerful tool in leadership communication. 💡 How speaking with purpose can create influence, trust and real change. 🎧 Tune in for insight, inspiration, and a reminder that the most important voice to listen to… is your own. CEO of the Speaker Awards and Summit | Expert in Impactful Leadership Communications  Elliot Kay is the CEO of the Speaker Awards and Summit and a leading voice in leadership communication. With years of experience helping speakers and leaders amplify their influence, he focuses on using the spoken word to connect, lead, and inspire change. Elliot champions authenticity, clarity, and purpose—believing that speaking is one of the most powerful leadership tools when used with heart. Through his work, he supports professionals in mastering communication that creates real impact, legacy, and trust. His mission: to raise the standard of excellence in the world of speaking.    Links:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliot-kay/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliot-kay/]

Playing the Hand You're Dealt

What if the real measure of resilience isn’t avoiding disaster—but learning how to play the hand you’re dealt? In this episode of Perfectly Flawed, I sat down with Steven Dowd, whose life changed in an instant. Cycling to work in London, preparing for a local race, Steven hit a barrier and was javelined into the ground, breaking his neck and leaving him instantly paralysed from the neck down. The prognosis was bleak, the choices limited—but that same day, an experimental clinical research trial gave him hope. Starting with a promise to his wife while lying motionless in intensive care, Steven embarked on a journey that would not only see him walk again but also complete extraordinary charity challenges raising awareness and funds for spinal cord injury research. As a former professional poker teacher, Steven brings a fascinating lens to life’s challenges: the stakes may be high or low, but the key is always the same—reset the cards, play your hand, and never give up. Together, we explore: 💡 How mindset and persistence can rewrite what seems impossible. 💡 The power of resilience when the hand you’re dealt feels unplayable. 💡 Why small shifts in perspective—like seeing life as a poker game—can transform recovery and life itself. 🎧 Tune in for inspiration, insight, and a reminder that even in the most unlikely circumstances, courage, determination, and a little strategy can help you rise again. A promising career in corporate financial services took a dramatic turn as a result of a freak cycling accident in which Steven was instantly paralysed from the neck down. His prognosis was bleak and his choices limited but that same day Steven was  given hope through an experimental clinical research trial.  Starting with a promise to his wife, made whilst laying motionless in intensive care, he set about a journey that would not only see him stand and walk again but create and complete several remarkable charity challenges raising funds and awareness for spinal cord injury research.  stevendowd.com [http://stevendowd.com/]  steven@stevendowd.com  https://www.linkedin.com/in/stevendowd [https://www.linkedin.com/in/stevendowd?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app]

Owning Your Truth

What if the courage to succeed starts with the courage to embrace who you truly are? In this episode of *Perfectly Flawed*, I sat down with **Lewis Crompton** to talk about the bravery it’s taken him to reclaim his truth. As a young man, he grew up in north London with well-meaning parents and a church community that led him to believe he was deeply flawed for being gay. So much so that he agreed to undergo “treatment and interventions” before eventually making his peace—and learning to fully embrace what he once saw as a flaw. Lewis’ journey didn’t stop there. From training as a therapist at 19, to burning out in retail, to discovering investing and trading, he has carved a path that blends personal transformation with financial empowerment. Today, he helps others escape the rat race, build sustainable income, and live life on their own terms. Together, we explore: 💡 The courage it takes to confront deeply held beliefs about yourself. 💡 How setbacks and challenges can be reframed as opportunities for growth. 💡 Why embracing your perceived flaws is the foundation for authentic success. 🎧 Tune in for a conversation full of honesty, resilience, and inspiration—and hear how Lewis turned what once felt like a limitation into his greatest strength. Lewis grew up in north London to teacher parents. He went to the local church where he discovered a skill and desire to help other which led to him training as a therapist at the age of 19. When he burned out in his early 20’s, he found himself working in retail. At this point, he decided retail and corporate was not the life for him. That’s when he discovered investing and trading. He went into debt to get access to mentorship with Robert Kiyosaki’s Rich Dad Poor Dad team. After 7 months, he left his job and started travelling the world. Feeling dissatisfied with not fulfilling his core mission, Lewis started teaching others how to trade, helping them to escape the rat race and develop an income generating skill.   www.startradingnow.com [http://www.startradingnow.com/] https://www.instagram.com/withlewiscrompton [https://www.instagram.com/withlewiscrompton]  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSi6FAzyo-utA0rUVe5mIrQ [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSi6FAzyo-utA0rUVe5mIrQ]  https://www.linkedin.com/in/lewiscrompton/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/lewiscrompton/]

The Accident

How do you rebuild after hitting rock bottom? In this episode of *Perfectly Flawed*, I talk with **Charlie Cannon**—an engaging, energetic speaker and coach who lights up every room he enters. But Charlie’s journey to resilience and self-respect began in darkness. At just 21, after a night of partying, Charlie fell asleep at the wheel and crashed his car on the M4 motorway. The accident left his sister in a life-threatening coma, and the self-blame consumed him for years. In that time, he also uncovered the impact of childhood sexual abuse, sending him further into a spiral of numbing and escape. What followed was a long journey of self-understanding, healing, and transformation. Today, Charlie uses his story to spread messages of resilience, energy, and compassion—for self and others. As a **speaker and coach**, Charlie has worked at the intersection of leadership, performance, and wellbeing for almost two decades. His clients include global brands such as **Deloitte, Tesco, HSBC, Barclays, Mars, and Unilever**. His philosophy is simple but profound: resilience matters, but so does the often-overlooked asset of *energy*. In this conversation, we explore: ✨ Why setbacks can become our biggest opportunities for growth. ✨ How self-respect and compassion transform resilience. ✨ The vital role of energy in sustained performance. ✨ Why leaders need to balance high achievement with humanity. Charlie’s story is a powerful reminder that even in our deepest struggles, light and growth are possible. 🎧 Tune in for a raw, uplifting, and energising conversation on resilience, leadership, and the art of being human.