R U SINGLE? with Peter Lam

Ep. 15 - Dan from Sydney

He is THE social-media cool cat with a wicked sense of humour and hipster beard to boot - meet Dan from Sydney!     Dan and I met in a previous (and corporate) life way back when, but he has always been the sweet, suave and grounded fella that you will hear in this episode. Dan takes us through the origins of his current relationship (and a little of his past ones too), life as a middle child alongside four brothers and his career trajectory where we learn just how much of a creative he is. I also get a bit emotional in this but I blame my now 31-year-old disposition.     Find Dan on Instagram @smallfriesandacoke!

Ep. 14 - David from Gunnedah

I’ve returned from holiday, folks! Anyway, my next guest is the ultimate kid’s party entertainer, raised in the depths of regional Australia and has a sense of humour that women love - meet Dave from Gunnedah!     David impresses me on quite a number of levels. He rode to the studio straight from work in the rain (which took just over an hour), requested that he use my shower and borrow all kinds of chargers. But in the politest way possible! So after freshening up, we went straight into the podcast, talking about his upbringing in Gunnedah (regional New South Wales), his need for a change professionally and his rather twisted family dynamic with his older brother. Ladies - one thing is for sure, he is a kid's party entertainer in high demand and his sense of humour will have you hooked!   Find David on Instagram under his moniker partyherodave and his eBay store where he sells tug-of-war ropes! ​

Ep. 13 - Jess from Manly

She's come back to Sydney after a long stint overseas, she can swim like a pro and is about to release a documentary - meet Jess from Manly! I met Jess through work many years ago and have since formed a friendship through laughter and cocktails.  Jess has always striked me as a quiet slayer where basically when push comes to shove - she will shove as necessary!  With her drive for  Hungarian blood and athletic physique, you would never think of Jess as a somewhat-quiet-kind-of gal but her tales growing up in the Northern Beaches suggest otherwise.  When it comes to dating, she is seeking a fella to take the lead in many respects but most importantly: makes her laugh and feel appreciated.

Ep. 12 - Nick from South Africa

He is a former husband that does not drink, has too many legal names and he flies planes - meet Nick from South Africa!  Reacquainting myself with an old friend from way back when, we basically pick up where we left off 4 years ago.  Nick was the first gay man I met who was married to another dude, did not drink and flew planes - and here I though pigs could not fly!  Not a dull moment has passed as we chat dating techniques (oblivious could be one way to descrive Nick which I find endearing), his upbringing as a child who moved around a fair bit and his secret past as an overweight kid.  It's clear that he is one of the cheekiest and funniest people I've met in my life and easily one of my favourite interviews to date.  It was honestly like we saw each other yesterday.

Ep. 11 - Jake from Sydney

He puts the ‘anal’ in analyse but also likes to build robots and ultimately put the needs of others before his own - meet Jake from Sydney! After months of trying to get his behind in my studio, Jake finally came in for a session!  Jake grew up in and around Sydney but always had a unique view on life that others may deem as ‘odd’.  He bats for both teams and even I’m surprised to discover this other “sensual” side of him.  He may be his own worst enemy when it comes to the game of love but I hope that after this, he learns to lets other in and take a chance.