Riffin' About Life with Brian R. King, MSW

When Your Child Changes Everything: A Mother’s Journey to Truth - Riffin with Heather Hester

There are moments in life that split everything into before… and after. For Heather Hester, that moment came in the middle of the night when a terrifying phone call about her missing son turned into something she never expected… and everything changed. What followed was a complete unraveling of beliefs, identity, relationships, and ultimately, a powerful rebuilding rooted in truth, love, and courage. In this deeply honest episode of Riffin’ About Life, Brian sits down with Heather to explore what it really looks like to choose your child… even when it means questioning everything you were taught. But here’s what makes this conversation unforgettable: 👉 The hardest part wasn’t accepting her son. 👉 It was confronting everything else. If you’ve ever wrestled with your beliefs… struggled to find your voice… or faced the tension between family, authenticity, and love—this episode will stay with you. * The moment that changed Heather’s life forever—and how she responded * What happens when your values and your upbringing no longer align * The uncomfortable (but necessary) work of unlearning beliefs * Why authenticity often requires losing relationships * How to set boundaries—even with family * What it really means to support your child unconditionally * The role therapy plays in navigating identity, fear, and growth Heather opens up about the internal battle between what she was taught and what she knew—deep down—was true. And the cost of choosing authenticity over approval. Because sometimes the most loving thing you can do is also the hardest. This episode is for: * Parents navigating identity and acceptance * Anyone questioning long-held beliefs * People struggling to set boundaries with family * Those learning how to live more authentically It’s not about having all the answers. It’s about being willing to ask better questions. * Website: heatherhester.net * More resources: morehumanmorekind.com * Instagram: @morehumanmorekind Reflect on this: What beliefs are you holding onto that no longer feel true?

He Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late… The Reality of Kidney Disease | Riffin With Dr. Matt Harmody

Most people don’t think about their kidneys… Until something goes wrong. In this episode of Riffin’ About Life, Brian sits down with Dr. Matt Harmody to talk about a reality that affects millions of people—but often goes unnoticed until it’s serious. Dr. Harmody shares his personal connection to kidney disease, watching his own father go through dialysis, and eventually stepping in as a donor. What makes this conversation hit differently is how preventable so much of this can be, and how rarely people are told what to actually look for. Because kidney disease doesn’t usually show up with obvious warning signs. It builds quietly. Slowly. Until you’re forced to deal with it. This episode breaks down what people need to know (without overwhelming you!) and why small, consistent habits can make a bigger difference than most people realize. And one idea sits at the center of it all: 👉 What if you could avoid something serious… just by paying attention earlier? If you’ve never thought about kidney health before—this is a conversation worth having now, not later. * Why kidney disease often goes unnoticed until it’s advanced * Dr. Harmody’s personal experience with his father’s diagnosis and transplant journey * What dialysis actually looks like—and how it impacts daily life * Early warning signs most people overlook * Simple habits that support long-term kidney health * Why prevention matters more than most people think * What people should understand about organ donation This is about awareness and what happens when we ignore something until we don’t have a choice anymore. Dr. Harmody brings both professional insight and personal experience, making this feel less like a lecture… and more like a conversation you probably haven’t had—but should. This episode is for: * Anyone who hasn’t thought about kidney health before * People with a family history of chronic illness * Those looking to be more proactive about their health * Anyone who wants to understand prevention in a practical way

Why Success Still Feels Empty (And What Most People Miss) | Riffin With David Marcus

You can build a life that looks successful on the outside… and still feel like something’s missing. In this episode of Riffin’ About Life, Brian sits down with David Marcus to talk about a question more people are quietly asking: Why doesn’t success always feel the way we expect it to? David shares his perspective on what happens when achievement, progress, and external validation don’t translate into a real sense of fulfillment. This conversation explores the gap between doing well… and actually feeling good about where you are. From the pressure to keep pushing forward… to the moment you realize something isn’t clicking the way it should— Brian and David get into what it looks like to step back and reassess what you’re actually working toward. You’ll hear how small shifts in awareness can change how you approach growth, habits, and decision-making—without needing to overhaul your entire life. And one idea keeps coming up: What if success isn’t about doing more… but understanding what actually matters to you? If you’ve ever felt like you “should” feel better about where you are—but don’t quite—this episode will resonate. * Why external success doesn’t always lead to fulfillment * The disconnect between achievement and satisfaction * How constant forward momentum can mask misalignment * The role of awareness in making better decisions * Why slowing down can actually improve clarity * A more realistic way to think about growth and progress This is about what happens when you realize that external results don’t automatically create internal alignment. David brings a perspective that challenges the idea that more effort is always the solution—and replaces it with something more intentional. This episode is for: * High achievers who feel unfulfilled * People questioning their direction * Anyone navigating burnout or constant pressure * Those looking for a more grounded approach to growth It doesn’t push you to do more. It helps you think differently about what you’re doing.

Failed for Having Dyslexia… Then He Changed the System | Riffin With Russell Van Brocklen

What would you do if you gave everything, and still got told it wasn’t enough? In this episode of Riffin’ About Life, Brian sits down with Russell Van Brocklen, whose story starts with a moment that could have ended everything. After completing a high-level government internship, with accommodations approved by the state, Russell was given 15 credits of an A- recommendation. His university changed it to an F. That moment didn’t just change his path, it gave him a mission. Russell went on to do something most people would never attempt: 👉 He forced himself to learn how to read and write in law school… with dyslexia. And what he discovered along the way became the foundation for a system that’s now helping students dramatically improve their reading, writing, and confidence—without years of expensive intervention. This conversation goes deep into how the dyslexic brain actually works… why traditional approaches don’t always help… and how small, structured shifts can unlock massive progress. You’ll also hear real-world results—from students jumping multiple grade levels… to parents implementing this at home with powerful outcomes. And one idea sits at the center of it all: 👉 What if the way we’re teaching… is the real problem? If you’re a parent, educator, or someone who has ever struggled with learning—this episode will challenge what you think you know. * What dyslexia actually looks like in the brain—and why that matters * The moment that pushed Russell to dedicate his life to this work * Why traditional methods can miss how dyslexic students process information * A simple, structured writing method parents can start using immediately * How focusing on a child’s “specialty” changes motivation completely * Why starting small and specific leads to better results than big-picture thinking * Real examples of students making massive progress in months—not years This is about what happens when someone refuses to accept a broken system—and builds a better one. Russell brings a perspective that blends lived experience, science, and practical application—especially for parents who feel like they’ve tried everything. This episode is for: * Parents of children with dyslexia or learning challenges * Educators looking for practical, alternative approaches * Anyone who has felt underestimated or misunderstood in school * People curious about how learning actually works It doesn’t just offer insight. It offers something you can use. * Website: https://dyslexiaclasses.com/ [https://dyslexiaclasses.com/]

Why Motivation Isn’t Coming (And What Actually Gets You Moving) | Riffin With Nicole Tuxbury

What if the reason you’re stuck has nothing to do with motivation? In this episode of Riffin’ About Life, Brian sits down with Nicole Tuxbury—podcaster, author, and systems expert—who breaks down a simple idea that challenges how most people approach productivity: Motivation doesn’t just show up. And if you’ve been waiting for it… that might be exactly why things feel stalled. Nicole shares how she went from juggling ideas, overwhelm, and “I’ll do it later”… to building systems that actually help her follow through—without relying on willpower. This conversation gets practical fast. From washing one dish… to writing one paragraph… to building an entire business from small, repeatable actions you’ll hear how momentum is created, not found. And along the way, one shift stands out: What if you stopped trying to do everything… and just started with one small thing? If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, or like you’re constantly “not doing enough”… this episode will give you a different way to approach it. * Why motivation is often misunderstood (and what to rely on instead) * The difference between inspiration and action—and why it matters * How starting small creates real momentum * Why breaking tasks down changes everything (especially for neurodivergent minds) * The concept of “future you”—and how it can guide better decisions * How to stop overwhelming yourself with big goals * Why giving yourself credit is more important than you think Nicole brings a perspective that replaces pressure with process—showing how small, consistent actions can build something much bigger over time. This episode is for: * Anyone who feels stuck waiting for motivation * People overwhelmed by big goals or long to-do lists * Neurodivergent individuals navigating executive function challenges * Creators, entrepreneurs, and high thinkers with lots of ideas—but trouble executing It doesn’t ask you to do more. It shows you how to start differently. Connect with Nicole: * Free gifts: nicoletuxbury.com/resources [nicoletuxbury.com/resources] * Podcast: https://www.nicoletuxbury.com/podcast [https://www.nicoletuxbury.com/podcast] * Facebook: https://facebook.com/nictuxbury [https://facebook.com/nictuxbury] * Instagram: https://instagram.com/nicole_tuxbury [https://instagram.com/nicole_tuxbury] * YouTube: https://youtube.com/@NicoleTuxbury [https://youtube.com/@NicoleTuxbury] * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tuxbee01 [https://www.tiktok.com/@tuxbee01] * LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicoletuxbury [https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicoletuxbury]