The Self-Hype Podcast

How To Heal Childhood Wounds And Practice Secure Attachment w/ Therapist & Coach Jessica Da Silva

Is your attachment style standing in your way? Our guest this week, published author, licensed therapist and attachment coach Jessica Da Silva breaks down the science of why we love the way we do. We’re talking childhood wounds, fear of failure, and how to tell if you’re actually ready for intimacy or just performing. Stop running from the "scary monster" of vulnerability and learn the tools to sit, regulate, and repair. You aren't stuck with the hand you were dealt—it’s time to rewire your nervous system for the love you deserve. We unpack attachment and so much more!   Learn More about Sahara Rose https://iamsahararose.com/ [https://iamsahararose.com/]   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603] Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez [https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

Dating An Avoidant: Is Taking Him Back Healing Or Self-Sabotage?

If you’ve ever said “He’s avoidant, but our connection is different,” this episode is your intervention. Eli walks you through the real post-breakup cycle of an avoidant man—from love bombing and intensity, to shutdown and defensiveness, to the late-night “Hey stranger” text that has you questioning everything. Using his own past as an avoidant, he explains why him watching your stories, texting you, or wanting to “try again” is usually about his fear, ego, and loneliness—not some epic, healed version of him suddenly waking up. Then he hands the mic back to you: What did this relationship expose about your attachment style, your boundaries, your inner child, and your fear of being alone? You’ll leave with a checklist of what actually needs to change for a reunion to be healthy (on both sides), how to create a “third option” that isn’t just yes or no, and how to turn this breakup from a waiting room into your personal bootcamp for building a secure relationship with yourself.   Learn More about Sahara Rose https://iamsahararose.com/ [https://iamsahararose.com/]   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603] Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez [https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

How To Turn Self-Love Into Community w/ Tiffany Yu

Tiffany Yu didn't just survive a car accident at nine that killed her father and left her with a paralyzed arm—she built one of the most impactful disability advocacy platforms in the world. In this raw conversation, she takes us through the process of not only loving herself but turning it into action and advocacy. Tiffany shares how she went from a nine-year-old to the founder of Diversability, a global movement born from her own exclusion. She explains why disability needs to be more than just known but integrated in society as whole. Her book the Anti-Ableist Manifesto, explains just that. If you’ve ever felt like you had to "fix" yourself to be worthy of taking up space, this episode is your permission slip to take even more space, unapologetically.   Learn More about Sahara Rose https://iamsahararose.com/ [https://iamsahararose.com/]   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603] Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez [https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

How To Survive Valentine’s Day When You’re Single

This episode is for the girl in the oversized sweater, scrolling couple photos, lowkey raging at Walgreens heart displays, and wondering why this day hurts so much. Eli walks you through how to survive Valentine’s Day when you’re single — not with fake “I don’t care” energy, but with honest, messy, human feelings that actually lead to healing. He gives you permission to be sad, angry, or triggered, while also challenging you to take real-world actions that ground your nervous system and make you feel in control of your day again. From buying your own damn chocolates to taking yourself out, to creating emotional “anchors” you’ll remember years from now, this is your no-BS guide to getting through the day and quietly proving to yourself: “I still got me, even now.”   Learn More about Sahara Rose https://iamsahararose.com/ [https://iamsahararose.com/]   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603] Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez [https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

The High Achievers Survival Guide w/ Coach Gina Moreno

On this episode of The Self Hype Podcast, Eli sits down with Gina Moreno, a coach helping high-achieving women — especially Latinas — navigate ambition, self-care, and relationships. Gina shares her journey from tech prodigy and TED Talk speaker to discovering her true purpose: coaching women to break generational patterns and embrace their full potential. They dive into her early successes, the quarter-life crisis that shifted her path, and how she turned her own healing and growth into a mission to empower others. Gina opens up about balancing family expectations, cultural pressures, and personal ambition, and Eli unpacks the lessons for listeners seeking to align their achievements with purpose.   Learn More about Sahara Rose https://iamsahararose.com/ [https://iamsahararose.com/]   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603] Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez [https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice