She Who Speaks

Trauma Bonding

Hello everyone, in today’s episode I will be talking about the union between marked souls or as you heard it “Trauma Bonding”. Yes this is a Hot Topic🔥🔥🔥...and Yepp...I know it’s a very sensitive subject! So tune in you don’t want to miss out! We have a special guest joining us, Nefora!!!! Artist, Educator, Naturalist.Yess so get ready, grab your popcorn and notes pads. We will be sharing a few experiences and stories, we have encountered and seen from others. I’m laying out the good, bad, and the ugly truth “Traumatic bonding” A lot of people may ask what it’s traumatic bonding? The Definition is simply put it’s when you form a bond or a strong, emotional attachment between an abused person and his or her abuser, formed as a result of the cycle of violence. It’s an ongoing cycle of abuse in which the intermittent reinforcement of reward and punishment creates powerful emotional bonds that are resistant to change. Warning ⚠️ please understand this is not healthy, it’s NOT love, friendship, or family! Traumatic behavior is the misuse of fear, excitement, sexual feelings, and sexual physiology to entangle another person. Also this is not just applied to one group this can be in relations to friends, family members, and even coworkers.

Cuffing Season

Yes it’s that time of the year! And cuffing season is near. Tune in as I share experiences and give knowledge on things to avoid during the seasons. No one wants to look crazy, get distracted, and form soulties... hunty I know so click on that play button!

Planning Ahead

Today podcast I will be sharing a quick message about planning ahead of time. For yourself and future experiences. Unexpected deaths in the family has always been a pain and terrible feeling... But not having Life Insurance is the hot topic for today! Tune In as I share a few my experiences. I’m here to inspire you and all families In you’re community to plan a head to avoid stress.

How I was Almost Sex Trafficked!!! Exposing The Truth!!!!

Sex trafficking is a crime when women, men and/or children are forcefully involved in commercial sex acts. In the United States, any minor under the age of 18 engaged in commercial sex acts is automatically considered a victim of sex trafficking under the law. Worldwide, it's estimated that there are 4.5 million victims of sex trafficking. Worldwide, false promises are ways in which traffickers bait and enslave their victims – both adults and minors. Indigenous populations and those who live in abject poverty are typically economically and politically marginalized; thus, most lack rights and access to basic services such as education which make them particularly vulnerable to sex trafficking. Many times, people from these communities are offered false employment opportunities in major cities. For example, men and boys are sent overseas to work in construction and agriculture but are also forced to perform commercial sex acts. Women and young girls may be offered jobs as models, nannies, waitresses or dancers. Some traffickers operate under the guise of agencies that offer cross-country dating services. However, upon arrival, these individuals are abused, threatened and sold in the sex industry. Often, traffickers keep victims under their control by saying that they’ll be free after they pay their debt. The “debt” is supposedly incurred from the victims’ recruitment, transportation, upkeep or even their crude “sale.” Thus, sex trafficking may occur within debt bondage/bonded labor. Victims of sex trafficking may eventually perform other functions, in addition to being forced sex workers. Some traffickers use sex trafficking victims to recruit or transport other victims. As a result, when sex trafficking victims are caught, they might be detained and prosecuted for criminal activity (e.g., prostitution). However, a legal charge is only one area of concern. Sex trafficking has devastating consequences for the trafficked individual. Victims may suffer from long-lasting physical and psychological trauma, disease (HIV/AIDS), drug addiction, malnutrition and social ostracism.

Turning My Pain Into Power...

Sex trafficking has devastating consequences for the trafficked individual. Victims may suffer from long-lasting physical and psychological trauma, disease (HIV/AIDS), drug addiction, malnutrition and social ostracism. Tune in with me as I share my experience about dating , anxiety, ptsd, engaging with others in society, and the healing skills I use to help me on a daily basis.