Spill the Tea with Will & Maria

Blow Jobs: Love Them, Hate Them, Let’s Talk About It

ORAL SEX • COMMUNICATION • INTIMACY • RELATIONSHIPS • SEX THERAPY • SEXUAL HEALTH This week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria open up a conversation that most people avoid but everyone thinks about. From navigating oral sex in relationships to unpacking discomfort, expectations, and communication, this episode breaks down what actually leads to better intimacy and connection. They explore how societal pressures shape our attitudes toward pleasure, why discomfort (physical or mental) shows up, and how honest conversations can transform your sex life. Through a sex therapy lens, this episode focuses on self-awareness, feedback, and creating a space where both partners feel comfortable, respected, and fulfilled. Sound bites that say it all: “Communication is key to better sex.” “Feedback helps improve intimacy.” “Honest conversations build trust.” If you’ve ever struggled to talk about what you want, felt stuck in your head during intimacy, or wanted to improve connection in your relationship, this episode gives you the tools to start. Subscribe now to stay updated! Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod [https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod]

One Wants Sex, The Other Doesn’t—Now What?

DESIRE DIFFERENCES • INTIMACY • RELATIONSHIPS • SEX DRIVE • MENTAL HEALTH • COMMUNICATION This week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria get real about one of the biggest (and most frustrating) challenges in long-term relationships—mismatched desire. What happens when one partner wants sex more than the other? And how do you navigate it without resentment, pressure, or feeling rejected? From the impact of mental health, medication, and seasonal mood shifts to the deeper layers of attraction, self-image, and emotional connection, this episode unpacks why desire isn’t always aligned and why that’s more common than you think. They break down how to communicate honestly about your needs, rebuild connection beyond just sex, and find ways to reconnect without forcing it. Because desire isn’t just physical it’s emotional, mental, and constantly evolving. Sound bites that hit home: “It really does affect your mood.” “Long periods without sex are common.” “Medication can lower your sex drive.” If you’ve ever felt like you want it more (or less) than your partner, or you’re trying to bring the spark back without pressure or guilt, this episode is for you. Subscribe now to stay updated! Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod [https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod]

Sexy, Soft, and Revolutionary: Heated Rivalry

HEATED RIVALRY • QUEER REPRESENTATION • HOCKEY CULTURE • LGBTQ+ • MASCULINITY • RELATIONSHIPS • SEX THERAPY This week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria break down why Heated Rivalry has become such a cultural moment. From queer representation in hockey culture to emotionally grounded storytelling, this episode explores why the show resonates so deeply with LGBTQ+ audiences and beyond. They dive into character dynamics, consent in queer narratives, the complexity of masculinity in sports, and the importance of allyship: especially from female characters. Through a sex therapy lens, the conversation highlights how authentic representation, emotional depth, and visibility can validate identity, spark healing, and open up meaningful conversations about love and acceptance. Sound bites that say it all: “I loved that part and the consent part.” “Who doesn’t like something sexy?” “This show did make my life better.” If you’re interested in queer storytelling, Canadian television, relationships, masculinity, or why representation in media truly matters, this episode is a must-listen. Subscribe now to stay updated! Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod [https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod]

Why Heated Rivalry Made Us Cry!

HEATED RIVALRY • LGBTQ+ • REPRESENTATION • EMOTIONAL CONNECTION • TELEVISION • HOCKEY • IDENTITY This week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria dive into Heated Rivalry and why it’s hitting so hard, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. From emotional storytelling and the fluidity of sexuality to the cultural power of representation in television, this conversation goes far beyond the screen. They explore how shows like Heated Rivalry (and classics like Schitt’s Creek) create space for deeper conversations about identity, belonging, and emotional connection, whether or not you share the characters’ sexual orientation. This episode unpacks why representation matters, how sports narratives intersect with queer stories, and why media can help people feel less alone in their personal journeys. Sound bites that say it all: “I finished Schitt’s Creek.” “I cried at the last episode.” “I was thinking about family members.” If you’re interested in LGBTQ+ representation, inclusive storytelling, emotional depth in television, or how culture shapes our understanding of sexuality and connection, this episode is for you. Subscribe now to stay updated! Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod [https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod]

This Person Sucks: When Friendship Meets Bad Dating Choices

FRIENDSHIP • RELATIONSHIPS • HONESTY • RED FLAGS • COMMUNICATION • BOUNDARIES This week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria dive into the complicated space where friendships and romantic relationships collide. From navigating holiday preferences to handling honesty that feels uncomfortable, this episode explores how friendships can influence dating choices, perceptions of partners, and personal growth. They unpack how to spot red flags, when to speak up (and when not to), how to support friends without crossing boundaries, and why communication matters just as much in friendships as it does in romantic relationships. If you’ve ever wondered whether to say something about your friend’s partner—or struggled to balance loyalty with honesty—this conversation is for you. Sound bites you won’t forget: “You should have no shame.” “This person sucks.” “You do have to respect it.” If you’re navigating dating, evolving friendships, or relationship advice that isn’t black and white, this episode offers insight, nuance, and real-life perspective. Subscribe now to stay updated! Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod [https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod]