Still Holding Hands

Why Intimacy Matters In Your Marriage

Why does intimacy matter so much in a Christian marriage—and why do so many couples struggle to maintain it? In this episode of Still Holding Hands, Tim & Chris unpack God’s design for intimacy, exploring how emotional, physical, and spiritual connection are essential for a thriving, Christ-centered relationship. If you’ve ever felt distant from your spouse, struggled with communication, or wondered how faith and intimacy truly work together, this conversation will give you clarity and practical direction. We dive into what the Bible says about marriage intimacy, why connection often fades over time, and how couples can intentionally rebuild closeness in every season. You’ll discover how intimacy strengthens trust, deepens unity, and protects your marriage from disconnection. We also share practical tools for improving communication, prioritizing your spouse, and reigniting both emotional and physical connection—without shame, pressure, or unrealistic expectations. Whether you’re newly married or have been together for years, this episode will help you understand why intimacy isn’t optional—it’s foundational to a healthy Christian marriage. Matthew 19:5 (TPT) Proverbs 5:15 (TPT) 1 Corinthians 7:3-4 (CJB) Hebrews 13:4 (TPT) Proverbs 5:18-19 (TPT) 1 Peter 3:7 (NKJV) Family Life (Books on Intimacy): https://shop.familylife.com/product-category/marriage/sex-intimacy/ [https://shop.familylife.com/product-category/marriage/sex-intimacy/] STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: * Share your misconceptions about sex with each other  * Be intentional to connect & be intimate THIS WEEK with each other emotionally & physically   * Communicate with your spouse what you enjoy when you are intimate together  * Take time to care for & satisfy your spouse physically  On the next STILL HOLDING HANDS Podcast: * Well....we didn't prepare a " NEXT" so you'll just have to come back! LIKE US: Subscribe where you watch & listen to podcasts LOVE US: Leave a review and share with a friend EMAIL US: timandchrispeterson@gmail.com [timandchrispeterson@gmail.com] #ChristianMarriage [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/christianmarriage] #MarriageAdvice [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriageadvice] #MarriagePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriagepodcast] #MarriageCommunication [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriagecommunication] #RelationshipAdvice [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationshipadvice] #StillHoldingHands [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/stillholdinghands] #GodCenteredMarriage [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/godcenteredmarriage] #IntimacyInMarriage

Money, Marriage & Misunderstandings

Money is one of the biggest sources of stress and misunderstanding in marriage. In this episode of Still Holding Hands, Tim & Chris unpack how financial pressure, different money mindsets, and poor communication can create conflict between spouses. Learn practical, faith-based strategies for budgeting as a couple, improving financial communication, resolving money disagreements, and building unity so your finances strengthen your marriage instead of dividing it as you navigate marriage and faith. 1 Corinthians 14:33 (NLT) 1 Timothy 6:10 (NLT) Proverbs 15:27 (TPT) Credit Card Statistics (Forbes) $6,800 per adult Average Credit Card Interest Rates (Lending Tree) *this can fluctuate - 25.32% 1 Corinthians 16:2 (TPT) Financial Peace University: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tByzgwmsyL0 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tByzgwmsyL0] Getting a Grip on Generous Living: https://thebasicswithbeth.store/collections/the-basics-collection/products/getting-a-grip-on-the-basics-of-generous-living [https://thebasicswithbeth.store/collections/the-basics-collection/products/getting-a-grip-on-the-basics-of-generous-living] Deuteronomy 8:18 (NKJV) STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: Open Communication/Conversation with each other  * Ask what did money 'feel like' in your home when you were growing up?  * Ask what is a financial fear or concern that you are carrying?  * Ask what is one money/financial dream that you have for our future?  1. Stay at Home Mom 2. New Home 3. Big Vacation 4. Debt Free * Pray together for wisdom & unity  Luke 16:13 (TPT) On the Next STILL HOLDING HANDS: We talk about Why Intimacy Matters in Marriage If you enjoy the STILL HOLDING HANDS podcast: * Like Us: Subscribe where you listen/watch podcasts * Love Us: Leave a review & share with someone this week * Email Us: timandchrispeterson@gmail.com [timandchrispeterson@gmail.com] Wherever this week takes you, keep choosing each other...and keep STILL HOLDING HANDS! #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriagePodcast #MarriageCommunication #RelationshipAdvice #StillHoldingHands #GodCenteredMarriage

Life's Priorities in Marriage: God, Work, Kids...What Comes First?

Many couples love each other but struggle with priorities. In this episode of Still Holding Hands, Tim & Chris Peterson talk about blending God, work, kids, church, and marriage so your relationship doesn’t get pushed to the bottom of the list. Life's Priorities: * God * Spouse * Kids * Church * Work 1 Corinthians 14:33 (NLT) Psalms 92:13-14 (NKJV) Matthew 6:33 (NLT) Song: "First Things First" - Consumed by Fire https://youtu.be/bpTOcZN9JB4?si=9r3Uq3kee0EhMm28 [https://youtu.be/bpTOcZN9JB4?si=9r3Uq3kee0EhMm28] STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: Do a 30 minute Priority Checkup/Reset * Have an honest conversation * Ask each other: "Where do you think you fall in my priorities?" * Ask each other: "Where do you want to be in my priorities?" * Individually, rand for yourself these 5 priorities: * Faith/Relationship with the Lord * Marriage * Kids/Family * Church * Work * Then compare each of your lists * Where are you aligned? * Where are you off? * ACTION: Make one adjustment in your priorities this week * Attend church together * Say no to any extra commitment this week * Log off ON TIME or early from work Strong marriages aren't built on accident, they are built on purpose...priority purpose. When you get this right, you won't just stay married, you will stay connected. Next Time on STILL HOLDING HANDS: We talk about finances in, "Marriage, Money & Misunderstandings!" If you enjoy the STILL HOLDING HANDS podcast: * Like Us: Subscribe where you listen/watch podcasts * Love Us: Leave a review & share with someone this week * Email Us: timandchrispeterson@gmail.com [timandchrispeterson@gmail.com] Wherever this week takes you, keep choosing each other...and keep STILL HOLDING HANDS!

"What Planet Are You From?" - What Builds or Breaks Your Marriage

Marriage often breaks down when wives feel unloved and husbands feel disrespected. In this episode of Still Holding Hands, we explore the power dynamic of what builds or breaks your marriage, and how it impacts communication, conflict, intimacy, and practical ways couples can rebuild connection using biblical wisdom and everyday habits. Episode 5: "What Planet Are Your From" Song: While I'm Waiting - John Waller https://youtu.be/i6X71sXagUY?si=qRA1dQWEyJp7PoKv [https://youtu.be/i6X71sXagUY?si=qRA1dQWEyJp7PoKv] Book and Study: "Love & Respect" - Emerson Eggerichs https://www.amazon.com/Love-Respect-Study-Set-Desperately/dp/B00ZG6NRHG/ref=pd_sbs_d_sccl_1_4/131-8678041-9343806?pd_rd_w=DyAUQ&content-id=amzn1.sym.aa738fbd-ad05-4d11-aae2-04b598db6305&pf_rd_p=aa738fbd-ad05-4d11-aae2-04b598db6305&pf_rd_r=SNG7D16PWN1JR412VXTC&pd_rd_wg=G0Js7&pd_rd_r=2f179e68-9c9a-4542-a84e-883bed290046&pd_rd_i=B00ZG6NRHG&psc=1 [https://www.amazon.com/Love-Respect-Study-Set-Desperately/dp/B00ZG6NRHG/ref=pd_sbs_d_sccl_1_4/131-8678041-9343806?pd_rd_w=DyAUQ&content-id=amzn1.sym.aa738fbd-ad05-4d11-aae2-04b598db6305&pf_rd_p=aa738fbd-ad05-4d11-aae2-04b598db6305&pf_rd_r=SNG7D16PWN1JR412VXTC&pd_rd_wg=G0Js7&pd_rd_r=2f179e68-9c9a-4542-a84e-883bed290046&pd_rd_i=B00ZG6NRHG&psc=1] Ephesians 5:31-33 NLT Proverbs 15:1 NLT Proverbs 18:21 The Message STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: Next 7 Days: Husbands: Every day, intentionally show one act of love to your wife Wives: Every day, intentionally show one act of respect to your husband At end of each day, ask each other: What did that mean to you today? On the Next STILL HOLDING HANDS Podcast: Life's Priorities in Marriage: Learn how to blend faith, work, kids, church and your spouse, so your relationship stays strong, connected and centered on what matters most. #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriagePodcast #MarriageCommunication #RelationshipAdvice #StillHoldingHands #GodCenteredMarriage

Rekindling The Romance In The Everyday

Why do marriages, even Christian marriages, seem to struggle in the early years? How do you recognize the subtle signs that your marriage might be drifting into a slow fade and instead embrace the business of life? Join Tim & Chris Peterson as they look at keeping the home fires lit in today's podcast, Rekindling The Romance In The Everyday. YouVersion Bible App - wherever you get your apps for Apple or Google. * Bible Project Studies Weekend to Remember Marriage Conference: https://www.familylife.com/weekend-to-remember/ [https://www.familylife.com/weekend-to-remember/] Weekend to Remember Discount Code for $100 off Reg: StillHoldingHands (all one word) Family Life Convo Cards - These are a great and fun way to play cards, but have a conversation with your spouse. This is a normal deck of playing cards, with a twist! Check out these and other great products at: https://shop.familylife.com/product/convo-playing-cards-couples-edition/ [https://shop.familylife.com/product/convo-playing-cards-couples-edition/] STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: Protect One Hour Together * Uninterrupted * No phones * No Logistical talk * Don't talk about work * Don't talk about the kids * Questions to ask each other: * What gave you energy this week? * What drained you this week? Songs to listen to: Keep on Loving You (REO Speedwagon) - https://shop.familylife.com/product/convo-playing-cards-couples-edition/ [https://shop.familylife.com/product/convo-playing-cards-couples-edition/] Slow Fade (Casting Crowns) - https://youtu.be/QASREBVDsLk?si=YpkHeohLigPA_Pdn [https://youtu.be/QASREBVDsLk?si=YpkHeohLigPA_Pdn] LIKE US: Subscribe where you watch & listen to podcasts LOVE US: Leave a review and share with a friend EMAIL US: timandchrispeterson@gmail.com [timandchrispeterson@gmail.com] On the next STILL HOLDING HANDS Podcast: "What Planet Are You From?" - What builds or breaks your marriage