Submissive Guide

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1258205/open_sms] Get Your Copy of “Becoming a Service Submissive” Today!   [https://shop.submissiveguide.com/products/becoming-a-service-submissive-a-workbook-to-discover-your-style-and-enhance-your-d-s-dynamic] Sub drop is a natural part of the BDSM experience, but it doesn't have to derail your enjoyment. Learn how to recognize the signs, prevent severe symptoms, and create a personalized aftercare plan that supports both your physical and emotional recovery. From building a drop kit to mastering self-care strategies, this guide empowers you to take control of your well-being and embrace every part of the journey with confidence. Hormone Junkies Series: * Adrenaline [https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/exploring-hormone-junkies-part-1-adrenaline] * Oxytocin [https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/exploring-hormone-junkies-part-2-oxytocin] * Testosterone [https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/exploring-hormone-junkies-part-3-testosterone] * Endorphins [https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/exploring-hormone-junkies-part-4-endorphins] More Resources: * Sub Drop in Long-term relationships [https://submissiveguide.com/safety/articles/sub-drops-emotional-side] * What is Aftercare, Why Do You Need It, and How to Ask for It [https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/the-question-of-aftercare] * Six Important Activities to Include in Your Aftercare Routine [https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/6-important-activities-to-include-in-your-aftercare-routine] * Self-Aftercare [https://submissiveguide.com/personalgrowth/articles/caring-for-yourself-after-a-scene-self-aftercare] * Submissive Guide FetLife Group [http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com/] Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://patreon.com/subguide [https://patreon.com/subguide] A very special thank you to all who have joined our Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com [http://www.submissiveguide.com/] ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide [http://www.twitter.com/subguide] ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide [http://www.instagram.com/subguide] ►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com [http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com/] ►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide [http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide] ►Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide [https://patreon.com/subguide] ►Discord: http://subgui.de/chat [https://subgui.de/chat] Check Out My Books! ►https://subgui.de/store [https://subgui.de/store]

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1258205/open_sms] We’ll cover the complexities of online submission, offering various safe environments to explore and learn the nuances of BDSM and discuss the potential benefits and dangers. We’ll help you navigate the online BDSM landscape with confidence and care. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://patreon.com/subguide [https://patreon.com/subguide] A very special thank you to all who have joined our Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com [http://www.submissiveguide.com/] ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide [http://www.twitter.com/subguide] ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide [http://www.instagram.com/subguide] ►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com [http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com/] ►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide [http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide] ►Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide [https://patreon.com/subguide] ►Discord: http://subgui.de/chat [https://subgui.de/chat] Check Out My Books! ►https://subgui.de/store [https://subgui.de/store]

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1258205/open_sms] A question I see asked all the time is, "How can I be a better submissive?" Here are a few things you can do to improve your submission and service without much work. Resources -  * Non-sexual Service and How To Add It To Your Dynamic [https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/non-sexual-service-and-how-to-add-it-to-your] * How Making a Cup of Coffee Centers Me [https://submissiveguide.com/personalgrowth/articles/how-a-cup-of-coffee-centers-me] * Ritual Ideas: High Tea, Japanese Tea Ceremony and Formal Dining [https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/high-tea-japanese-tea-ceremony-and-formal-dining] * 3 Reasons a "Perpetual Student" Mindset Is Vital to Kink [https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/3-reasons-a-perpetual-student-mindset-is-vita] * Create SMART Goals For Your New Year's Resolutions and Reach Your Goals This Year! [https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/create-smart-goals-for-your-new-years-resolutions-and-reach-your-goals-this-year] * The Importance of Journaling Your Submission [https://submissiveguide.com/personalgrowth/articles/the-importance-of-journaling-your-submission] * 5 Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Submissive Mantra [https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/simple-steps-to-creating-a-personal-mantra] * 365 Days of Submission [https://365daysofsubmission.com] * Learning Good Observation Skills for Better Submissive Awareness [https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/learning-good-observation-skills] * Entering the Community: The Different Ways to Socialize with Local Kinksters [https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/entering-the-community-the-different-ways-to-socialize-with-local-kinksters] * Finding Your Submissive Voice: Speak Up for Better, Honest Communication [https://submissiveguide.com/communication/articles/finding-your-submissive-voice-speaking-up-vs-speaking-out] * Active Submission Means Always Improving Yourself [https://submissiveguide.com/personalgrowth/articles/active-submission-means-always-improving-yourself] * A Submissive's Prime Directive: Take Care of the Property [https://submissiveguide.com/personalgrowth/articles/take-care-of-the-property] * Submissive Guide FetLife Group [https://fetlife.com/groups/7478] Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://patreon.com/subguide [https://patreon.com/subguide] A very special thank you to all who have joined our Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com [http://www.submissiveguide.com/] ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide [http://www.twitter.com/subguide] ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide [http://www.instagram.com/subguide] ►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com [http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com/] ►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide [http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide] ►Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide [https://patreon.com/subguide] ►Discord: http://subgui.de/chat [https://subgui.de/chat] Check Out My Books! ►https://subgui.de/store [https://subgui.de/store]

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1258205/open_sms] Let's discuss how to build healthy communication skills in our D/s relationship and what a safe environment for difficult conversations looks like. I’ll give you the tools to develop a report with your partner that is full of trust, shared vulnerability, and compassion. You’ll learn that a safe environment for those challenging talks requires planning and mutual agreements to work as they should.  Resources: Conversation Starters for Difficult Conversations: https://www.wikihow.com/images/sampledocs/f/Conversation-Starters-for-Difficult-Conversations.pdf [https://www.wikihow.com/images/sampledocs/f/Conversation-Starters-for-Difficult-Conversations.pdf]  Kink Friendly Therapists: * Psychology Today - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/sex-positive-kink-allied [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/sex-positive-kink-allied] * Kink Friendly Therapy - http://kinkfriendlytherapy.com/resources-3/resources/ [http://kinkfriendlytherapy.com/resources-3/resources/] * Kink Aware Professionals Directory - https://www.kapprofessionals.org/ [https://www.kapprofessionals.org/] Domestic Abuse Hotlines: US: https://www.thehotline.org/ [https://www.thehotline.org/] UK: https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ [https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/] EU: https://www.improve-horizon.eu/helplines [https://www.improve-horizon.eu/helplines]  Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://patreon.com/subguide [https://patreon.com/subguide] A very special thank you to all who have joined our Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com [http://www.submissiveguide.com/] ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide [http://www.twitter.com/subguide] ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide [http://www.instagram.com/subguide] ►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com [http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com/] ►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide [http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide] ►Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide [https://patreon.com/subguide] ►Discord: http://subgui.de/chat [https://subgui.de/chat] Check Out My Books! ►https://subgui.de/store [https://subgui.de/store]

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1258205/open_sms] Often, we discover our desire to be submissive or kinky when we are already in a relationship and are not sure really how to proceed with that. Let’s cover what you should do to prepare to talk to your partner about your newfound interest, how you can encourage a submissive mindset on your own, and how you can slowly bring kink into the bedroom. Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/making-him-the-dom-of-your-dreams-working-with-the-man-you-have  [https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/making-him-the-dom-of-your-dreams-working-with-the-man-you-have] Initiating a Discussion about BDSM with Your Partner: * Initiating a Discussion about BDSM Interest with Your Partner [http://www.submissiveguide.com/2012/03/initiating-a-discussion-about-bdsm-interest-with-a-vanilla-partner/] - ted_subby - Part 1 of a 3-part series. Highly recommended. * Ask SehAnru | Communicating Kinky Needs to a Vanilla Partner [http://www.submissiveguide.com/2011/09/communicating-kinky-needs-to-a-vanilla-partner/] - SehAnru * Establishing a Safe, Trusting Environment for Talk [http://www.submissiveguide.com/2011/05/establishing-a-safe-trusting-environment-for-talk/] - lunaKM Resources: * Recommended Reading Lists [https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/the-top-3-books-i-recommend-to-everyone-new-to-bdsm] * Creating a Personal Submissive Protocol [https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/creating-a-personal-protocol] Join our Discord Server - https://subgui.de/chat [https://subgui.de/chat]  Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://patreon.com/subguide [https://patreon.com/subguide] A very special thank you to all who have joined our Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you. _____ Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere? ►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com [http://www.submissiveguide.com/] ►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide [http://www.twitter.com/subguide] ►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide [http://www.instagram.com/subguide] ►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com [http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com/] ►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide [http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide] ►Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide [https://patreon.com/subguide] ►Discord: http://subgui.de/chat [https://subgui.de/chat] Check Out My Books! ►https://subgui.de/store [https://subgui.de/store]