Talking With The Benzis

Runaway Train to Nowhere

In this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald talks to Kenzie about nothing really. This is a good passing the time kinda episode. Grab a drink, have a drag and sit back and enjoy a hangout session with these two drinking buddies of yours.

It's a cliffhanger you fool

On this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald and cohost Kenzie dive into the lighthearted — and sometimes unexpected — tradition of April Fools’ Day. Gerald kicks things off with a childhood story that left a lasting impression, sharing a prank that genuinely frightened him and ultimately shaped his decision to steer clear of celebrating the day altogether. His story brings a surprising depth to what is often seen as a playful holiday. Kenzie follows up with her own memories, reflecting on growing up in a household where pranks were part of the fun. She recalls one unforgettable trick pulled by her mother that still stands out to this day, offering a contrast to Gerald’s experience and highlighting how differently the tradition can be lived. As the conversation unfolds, the two explore common traditions associated with April Fools’ Day, from harmless jokes to more elaborate setups, and where the line should be drawn between fun and fear. They wrap up the episode on a meaningful note, recognizing that April 1st holds an even deeper significance for Gerald — it’s also his daughter’s birthday — adding a heartfelt layer to a day often known for mischief.

A good day to be a Woman

In this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald talks to co-host Kenzie about the current world view on women and how their strength is perceived. The conversation ends with a take on the current status of the manosphere. Join Talking with Benzis for a fun conversation that also addresses important issues, if want to be part of this fun podcast you can email at: talkingwiththebenzis@gmail.com

Why does he do that?

In this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald and cohost Kenzie kick off Women’s History Month with a heartfelt and flavorful conversation about one of the foundations of their relationship—food. The episode begins with the couple reflecting on their shared connection through meals and the role food has played in bringing them closer together. Kenzie shares how deeply she values Gerald’s cooking and how his meals have become a meaningful expression of love and care in their relationship. She laughs about how much she enjoys being on the receiving end of Gerald’s home-cooked dishes, while Gerald gives Kenzie credit for helping expand his palate over the years. He shares how her influence encouraged him to try new things, especially seafood, which he once avoided but now enjoys exploring. In celebration of Women History Month, they dive into a book Kenzie finished reading recently. This episode is focused on empowering women and shining the light on the abuse women experience in relationships. The Book is called Why does he do that? by Lundy Bancroft. Enjoy some snippets from the book and a candid conversation between these two hosts. Happy Women History Month!

Hmm, Books

In this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald sits down with cohost Kenzie during their final week of celebrating Black History Month. Together, they honor the richness of Black stories, knowledge, and legacy—starting right at home. Kenzie opens up her personal library, sharing a special collection of children’s books centered on Black history—stories that affirm identity, celebrate culture, and plant seeds of confidence in young readers. From vibrant illustrations to empowering narratives, she highlights why representation on the bookshelf matters just as much as it does in the world. Kenzie then dives into some of her favorite autobiographies, drawing inspiration from figures like Malcom X. This episode is a celebration of stories, growth, and the enduring power of reading. As Black History Month comes to a close, Gerald and Kenzie leave listeners encouraged to keep learning, keep listening, and keep seeking truth—because liberation begins in the mind.