The Baddie Rewrite Podcast

The Truth About Stalking Nobody Talks About

Stalking isn’t always dramatic. It doesn’t always start with fear. And it’s rarely talked about honestly until it’s too late. In this episode of Baddie Rewrite, Jacqueline Hernandez and Amber have a raw, necessary conversation about the kind of stalking most women are taught to minimize, excuse, or normalize. The kind that hides behind persistence, “romance,” entitlement, and silence. The kind that lives in DMs, parking lots, court filings, workplaces, and relationships long before anyone calls it what it is. This isn’t fear-bait. This is grown-woman truth. As a bestselling author and ecosystem architect and a powerhouse trial attorney and advocate, Jacqueline and Amber break down what stalking really looks like, why women are conditioned to downplay it, how power and control show up quietly, and where the legal system and social expectations often fail women in real life. Baddie Rewrite is the grown-woman evolution of unfiltered podcasts bold, strategic, cinematic, and emotionally honest. Inspired by the unapologetic energy of unfiltered culture and elevated by lived experience, this show explores what happens when confidence, chaos, leadership, motherhood, marriage, entrepreneurship, and identity collide. Each episode blends raw conversation with cinematic storytelling and reality-style moments the behind-the-scenes chaos, the truths you don’t say out loud, and the lessons powerful women learn the hard way. If you’re navigating leadership, entrepreneurship, motherhood, marriage, or a full-blown identity rewrite this is your place. If you’re tired of being called “too much,” “too confident,” “too ambitious,” or “too emotional” this is your tribe. If you’re becoming the woman your younger self needed this is your home. Welcome to Baddie Rewrite where grown women rewrite the rules in real time, and where every truth becomes part of the movement. Hair and make up provided by: Jessica Esparza @plush_andstuff Andie Vasquez @charmingAndie Sponsorship Provided by: Nano Cube USA https://nanocubeusa.com/ https://www.facebook.com/NanoCubeIndustrial

Pretty Face, Dangerous Hands: Special Guest: Alivia Bierley

Welcome back to the podcast! We are excited to have our first-ever guest, MMA fighter Alivia Bierley, join us today. Alivia shares her incredible and inspiring story of how she got into Mixed Martial Arts (MMA), starting with a desire for self-defense after a harrowing experience in college with an ex-boyfriend. She recounts an incident where he cheated on her began stalking her, and eventually physically assaulted her in public. She also tells the terrifying story of being followed in a Walmart parking lot late at night during the 2020 pandemic. This fear and anger fueled her decision to start training MMA, initially to learn self-defense and then it grew into a passion and career. Alivia discusses her competitive spirit and athletic background in basketball, track, and gymnastics. We dive into: * How being beautiful sometimes attracts "interesting people" * How Alivia realized she had a "fight or flight" response * Her first time getting "rocked in the face" * Training with male partners and being in the heaviest women's weight class for the UFC, which is 135 lbs. * The rush of adrenaline she experiences during a fight * The moment she realized fighting was a platform to inspire and advocate for others Alivia made her amateur debut in August 2021 and discusses her professional debut on Mother's Day 2024 where she fought a bigger girl and had her nose broken in the first round. She finishes by stressing the importance of sticking to the game plan as she won her next fight in the first round by following her coach's advice. Guest Bio: Alivia Bierley is an MMA fighter who competes in the UFC's heaviest weight class for women, 135 lbs. She began her journey to learn self-defense in 2020 and made her amateur debut in 2021.

Can a man lead when I have it all?

This episode of Baddie Rewrite is all about rewriting the rules and creating a personal blueprint that supports your ambition without leading to burnout. We're tackling the often-unspoken challenges that ambitious women face today, moving beyond the superficial "girl boss" narrative to address the real issues. Are you tired of feeling like you have to do it all, alone? You're not the only one. We delve into the concept of single married mother syndrome, where women in relationships often carry the weight of responsibilities as if they were single, leading to exhaustion and a feeling of depletion. We explore why exhaustion is not a badge of honor or a sign of empowerment. Instead, we highlight the vital importance of support systems, understanding personal and professional roles , and the power of delegating.This episode encourages you to ditch the idea that being strong means being alone. Discover how to reframe your ambition and independence not as burdens, but as strengths that can be sustainable with the right foundations. Learn why collaboration over competition and building a strong community are key to thriving, not just surviving. Join us for an honest conversation about: 1. The real impact of burnout and how to prevent it. 2. The art of asking for and accepting support. 3. Developing clear communication and setting expectations in all areas of your life. 4. Embracing your softness and allowing yourself to be supported. If you're ready to move past overwhelm and cultivate a life of peace, rest, and true empowerment, this episode is your guide. Let's rewrite the narrative together! #BaddieRewrite [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/baddierewrite] #WomenInBusiness [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/womeninbusiness] #Ambition [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/ambition] #SupportSystems [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/supportsystems] #Burnout [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/burnout] #SelfCare [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/selfcare] #Collaboration [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/collaboration] #Empowerment [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/empowerment] #Relationships [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationships] #LifeBlueprint [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/lifeblueprint] #GirlBoss [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/girlboss] #Resilience [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/resilience] #EmotionalIntelligence [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/emotionalintelligence] #Community [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/community] #FamilyStructure [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/familystructure] #RolesAndResponsibilities [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/rolesandresponsibilities]

Bossy, Aggressive, or Just Confident? The Labels Women Pay For Power

What happens when a woman refuses to tone it down? In this episode, Amber and Jacqueline dive deep into confidence — where it comes from, why it threatens people, and how women are often punished for showing it. From the influence of powerful grandmothers, to being labeled “bossy,” “aggressive,” or “too much,” this conversation unpacks how confidence is built through failure, discipline, and resilience — not luck. They talk about: 1. Why confidence is often mistaken for arrogance 2. How doors closing can be a hidden promotion 3. Staying soft and strong in male-dominated spaces 4. The real difference between confidence, aggression, and insecurity 5. Why discipline and failure are the secret ingredients to self-belief This isn’t about being loud. It’s about being unapologetically yourself — and letting the right doors open. 🎙️ If you’ve ever been told to shrink, hush, or “tone it down,” this episode is for you.

Hired for my looks? The Dark Side of Being Pretty in Business

Is beauty a weapon, a warning, or an unfair advantage? In this episode of Baddie Rewrite, Jacqueline and Amber dive deep into the controversial topic: Does Pretty Pay? We open up about our own "blueprints" and how our looks have both helped and hurt our careers. From Jacqueline getting hired because she was "easy on the eyes" to Amber being told she "sounded smart" for a pretty lawyer, we are unpacking the reality of lookism in business. We also discuss the "Pretty Tax"—why some men refuse to mentor attractive women, the pressure to get plastic surgery (or breast reductions) to be taken seriously, and the bizarre comments Amber gets about being a "young-looking grandma." In this episode, we cover: 💎 The "Easy on the Eyes" Hire: When you get the job for your looks, not your brain. ⚖️ The Courtroom Advantage: Amber’s story about the "white suit" and the jury. 🚫 The Mentor Gap: Why attractive women struggle to find male mentors. 👵 Aging & Expectations: Kris Jenner’s makeover and "Grandma Shaming." 📱 Social Media Toxicity: How "The Exposer" accounts and filters are harming teen mental health. 💉 Plastic Surgery: To BBL or not to BBL? Quote of the episode: "I think society does treat people that are good looking a different way... It can get you into the room, but you better be able to deliver." 🗣️ Baddies, we want to hear from you! Have you ever felt that being pretty was a disadvantage? Has your appearance ever held you back from an opportunity? Let us know in the comments below! 👇 Connect with us: Instagram: @BaddieRewrite TikTok: @BaddieRewrite #PrettyPrivilege #WomenInBusiness #BaddieRewrite #BeautyStandards #Podcast #WomenEmpowerment #AgingGracefully