The Crabby Pastor

134: Back from Burnout: Rev. Rob Gashler's saga

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1811263/open_sms] What happens when a dedicated discipleship pastor faces the crushing weight of ministry burnout? This episode of the Crabby Pastor podcast brings you another Back from Burnout saga with an eye-opening conversation about pastor health featuring our brave guest, Rob Gashler, who shares his personal story of navigating the challenging waters of ministry burnout and recovery. From his experience in college ministry and church planting to his current role at Second Baptist Church in Baytown, Texas, Rob opens up about the anxiety and pressures that led to a breaking point. His journey underscores the critical need to seek new paths when necessary. Burnout isn't just an individual struggle—it's an issue deeply intertwined with organizational structures and cultural expectations. Join us as we uncover how environments can become 'burnout factories,' placing undue blame on individuals while ignoring systemic issues. Through our discussion, we highlight the essential balance of spiritual, mental, and emotional well-being, drawing on insights from Pastor Wayne Cordero's "Leading on Empty." We confront the relentless North American productivity culture and advocate for a faith-centered approach to work and leadership, emphasizing rest, boundaries, and quiet time with God as crucial elements for sustainability. I am passionate about fostering sustainable ministry practices and invite you to explore this vital subject as there are very few warning signs that you are heading toward burnout. Listen in to explore pastor health so you can remain fulfilled and effective in your calling. Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/thecrabbypastor] This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry. Contact info: Email me at crabbypastor@gmail.com with your input and ideas for burnout and leadership topics of interest or if you know someone who might be interesting to interview. Visit my website: YOUR LEADERSHIP COACH FOCUSED ON BURNOUT PREVENTION [https://margiebryce.com] Get your FREE Burnout Symptoms test to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT SYMPTOMS TEST. [https://www.margiebryce.com/burnout-symptoms-test] I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE [margie@margiebryce.com] to email me. And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey! Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group: Building Sustainability in Ministry Leaders: Beating Burnout. [https://www.facebook.com/groups/766476554854410] Connect with me about LEADERSHIP COACHING and Workshops... [https://www.margiebryce.com/work-with-me/]

133: Finding Resonance with Author Andrew Root

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1811263/open_sms] Join my discussion with guest Dr. Andrew Root, author of "When Church Stops Working." Together, we dissect how the relentless drive for growth impacts pastoral health which then leads to burnout and and the threat of early departure from ministry. Discover how pursuing resonance over acceleration can breathe new life into our spiritual communities. Our discussion takes a reflective turn as we explore the powerful act of waiting, a rare but transformative practice in today's fast-paced world. Delve into the primal sin of outpacing God (isn't that a nice way to say "avoid burnout") and learn how living within our human constraints can lead to profound spiritual renewal. Finally, Dr. Root shares experiences of those who've faced burnout, often unaware until it's too late. We offer tangible resources like a free burnout questionnaire to help leaders assess their well-being. This episode is an essential listen for anyone navigating church life, seeking to maintain authenticity and spiritual integrity in a world that demands constant acceleration. Link to When Church Stops Working by Andrew Root.  [https://a.co/d/6FHxDpY] Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/thecrabbypastor] This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry. Contact info: Email me at crabbypastor@gmail.com with your input and ideas for burnout and leadership topics of interest or if you know someone who might be interesting to interview. Visit my website: YOUR LEADERSHIP COACH FOCUSED ON BURNOUT PREVENTION [https://margiebryce.com] Get your FREE Burnout Symptoms test to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT SYMPTOMS TEST. [https://www.margiebryce.com/burnout-symptoms-test] I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE [margie@margiebryce.com] to email me. And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey! Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group: Building Sustainability in Ministry Leaders: Beating Burnout. [https://www.facebook.com/groups/766476554854410] Connect with me about LEADERSHIP COACHING and Workshops... [https://www.margiebryce.com/work-with-me/]

132: Dealing with Conflict within Yourself

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1811263/open_sms] Unlock the secrets to navigating the intricate world of intrapersonal conflict with insights to promote pastor health from Rev. Geniese Stanford, a former business professional turned pastor, who joins me on the Crabby Pastor podcast. We'll explore how recognizing the gap between current experiences and desired outcomes can turn conflict into a powerful source of energy for growth and change, even in the simplest scenarios—like deciding between a beloved cup of coffee and timely meeting attendance. Discover how her journey through traditional conflict resolution in church settings led her to the transformative "Leading Out of Drama" framework and Dr. Nate Regier's "Conflict Without Casualties." Tools and connections to prevent pastor burnout and dealing effectively with internal conflict, and other conflict: Compassionate Accountability [https://a.co/d/6TYd3Px]book Conflict without Casualties [https://a.co/d/9PnAQQX] audiobook Self-Compassion Test [https://self-compassion.org/self-compassion-test/] Email: revstanford@gmail.com to connect with Rev. Geniese Stanford. Rev. Geniese Stanford is certified by Next Element Consulting, LLC ("NE") to provide training, coaching and consulting services relating to its Leading Out of Drama® methodology, the intellectual property rights to which are held by NE.  Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/thecrabbypastor] This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry. Contact info: Email me at crabbypastor@gmail.com with your input and ideas for burnout and leadership topics of interest or if you know someone who might be interesting to interview. Visit my website: YOUR LEADERSHIP COACH FOCUSED ON BURNOUT PREVENTION [https://margiebryce.com] Get your FREE Burnout Symptoms test to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT SYMPTOMS TEST. [https://www.margiebryce.com/burnout-symptoms-test] I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE [margie@margiebryce.com] to email me. And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey! Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group: Building Sustainability in Ministry Leaders: Beating Burnout. [https://www.facebook.com/groups/766476554854410] Connect with me about LEADERSHIP COACHING and Workshops... [https://www.margiebryce.com/work-with-me/]

131: Pastor Appreciation Month: Genuine Celebration or Obligatory Gesture?

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1811263/open_sms] What truly lies behind Pastor Appreciation Month? Join me, Margie Bryce, your leadership coach who focuses on burnout prevention on the Crabby Pastor podcast as we unravel the tangled web of emotions and expectations surrounding this special time. From the joys of receiving unexpected gifts like bath bombs and meat packages to the bittersweet reality of being forgotten, we dive into stories shared by our vibrant online community.  The complexities of Pastor Appreciation Month are akin to the mixed feelings experienced during holiday gift-giving. Ministry leaders are often caught in a whirlwind of expectations, grappling with the human desire for validation. We explore how societal norms and gender dynamics intersect, sometimes leaving clergy feeling undervalued both at home and within the church. The ripple effect on pastors' spouses and the influential role of social media also come into play, challenging us to rethink how appreciation should be expressed. This conversation peels back the layers of what it means to appreciate our leaders genuinely. As we journey through these reflections, don't miss the chance to prioritize your well-being with a self-care reminder and burnout symptoms test on my website.  Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/thecrabbypastor] This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry. Contact info: Email me at crabbypastor@gmail.com with your input and ideas for burnout and leadership topics of interest or if you know someone who might be interesting to interview. Visit my website: YOUR LEADERSHIP COACH FOCUSED ON BURNOUT PREVENTION [https://margiebryce.com] Get your FREE Burnout Symptoms test to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT SYMPTOMS TEST. [https://www.margiebryce.com/burnout-symptoms-test] I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE [margie@margiebryce.com] to email me. And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey! Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group: Building Sustainability in Ministry Leaders: Beating Burnout. [https://www.facebook.com/groups/766476554854410] Connect with me about LEADERSHIP COACHING and Workshops... [https://www.margiebryce.com/work-with-me/]

130: Check your Finite-tude

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1811263/open_sms] Join me, Margie Bryce, your leadership coach who focuses on burnout prevention, on this eye-opening episode of the Crabby Pastor Podcast, where we unravel what's essential to find contentment and perseverance through Christ's strength, all while understanding that we are not built for limitless capacity. What if the very Bible verse you've been leaning on for endless strength is actually nudging you to recognize your limits? This heartfelt conversation guides you through maintaining sustainability to fight leadership burnout in both your ministry and personal life by acknowledging your human limitations. Running on fumes without recognizing our limits can lead to burnout, affecting both physical and mental health. It also saps the joy out of us. Who wants THAT? Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/thecrabbypastor] This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry. Contact info: Email me at crabbypastor@gmail.com with your input and ideas for burnout and leadership topics of interest or if you know someone who might be interesting to interview. Visit my website: YOUR LEADERSHIP COACH FOCUSED ON BURNOUT PREVENTION [https://margiebryce.com] Get your FREE Burnout Symptoms test to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT SYMPTOMS TEST. [https://www.margiebryce.com/burnout-symptoms-test] I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE [margie@margiebryce.com] to email me. And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey! Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group: Building Sustainability in Ministry Leaders: Beating Burnout. [https://www.facebook.com/groups/766476554854410] Connect with me about LEADERSHIP COACHING and Workshops... [https://www.margiebryce.com/work-with-me/]