The Good In Today

Balancing Work & Home Life, Acknowledging Growth & Going From Good to Great

Resources + Links: Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny [https://www.instagram.com/thegooddanny/?hl=en] Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann [https://www.instagram.com/briannehoefelmann/?hl=en] Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia [https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinmedia/?hl=en] Connect with Kara on Instagram: @kara_ayala [https://www.instagram.com/kara_ayala/] Subscribe to Kara’s Podcast: Marriage, Money & Mayhem [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-money-mayhem/id1550317904]

Learning from Your Past and Future Self with Kara Ayala

In This Episode, We Talk About: What questions are you asking yourself? How do we grow our capacity? What lessons can we learn from our future self? Resources + Links: Listen to Part 1 on Kara's Podcast: Episode 126: Learning from Your Past and Future Self with Brianne Hoefelmann PT1 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-money-mayhem/id1550317904?i=1000596013587]   The Guided Meditation Episode: Episode 83: A Guided Meditation - Connecting with Your Future Self & Your Why [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-money-mayhem/id1550317904?i=1000555446900] Book: “Chop Wood, Carry Water” [https://www.amazon.com/Chop-Wood-Carry-Water-Becoming/dp/153698440X/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=chop+wood+carry+water+book&qid=1675064281&sprefix=chop+woo%2Caps%2C164&sr=8-1]   ………………………………….   Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny [https://www.instagram.com/thegooddanny/?hl=en] Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann [https://www.instagram.com/briannehoefelmann/?hl=en] Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia [https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinmedia/?hl=en] Connect with Kara on Instagram: @kara_ayala [https://www.instagram.com/kara_ayala/] Subscribe to Kara’s Podcast: Marriage, Money & Mayhem [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-money-mayhem/id1550317904] Check out how you can work with Kara | karaayala.com [https://kara-ayala.mykajabi.com/] Show Notes: Are you so focused on old stories that you’re not allowing yourself to grow past them? Today is a special episode! Brianne Hoefelmann is leading today's episode and interviewing Kara Ayala! We’re diving into the questions we ask ourselves and how to grow our capacity in all areas of our lives. Whether you’re wanting to grow your relationship with your children, your spouse, or God, they all require a level of belief and take time. Ask yourself what you want for your future. Ask God who He wants to be in your life. Ask yourself why you feel the need to have it all figured out, right now!   03:40 - What is going well in your life right now? 06:05 - Why do we celebrate wins in the present? 07:40 - What questions are you asking yourself to stay present and grow? 09:30 - Enjoy the journey, the goal is over in an instant. 12:05 - Why are we in a hurry to accomplish our goals? 13:30 - How do we grow our capacity? 14:50 - What comes first, capacity or skill? 15:30 - What does it take to change our future? 18:20 - Is your old story holding you back and creating unnecessary friction? 19:30 - How would you treat yourself if you saw yourself through God’s eyes? 23:00 - How Brianne’s relationship with God has changed over the years. 25:15 - Where do you start when rebuilding a relationship with God? 29:00 - Is God okay with you questioning everything? 30:45 - What can we learn if we’re in tune with our bodies? 33:00 - What I learned losing $600,000. 37:30 - How do you check in with yourself? 41:30 - What lessons can you learn from your future self? 46:08 - How can we use breathwork as a tool? 48:50 - What would my 15 year-old self say if she saw me today?

Navigating Business While Raising A Family with Kara Ayala

Is it really possible to build a business while raising a family without sacrificing one or the other? Today’s guest is Kara Ayala! She is the podcast host of Marriage, Money & Mayhem, a business owner, investor, and an amazing Mom! We’re diving into how Kara and her husband have managed to keep their relationship the priority while growing and exiting their company. We dive into how to communicate with your spouse, how to grow your money mindset, and why they started a couple’s mastermind! 02:50 - Who is Kara Ayala? 05:00 - What motivated Kara and Mike to go into business for themselves? 07:00 - How Danny learned that “safe jobs” aren’t actually safe. 09:00 - What’s the difference between being an owner and a high-paid contractor? 11:00 - How do you handle disagreements in your business leadership? 13:15 - How do you create a win-win? 14:00 - How did you get into personal development? 16:00 - Why did you start mentoring women around money? 17:30 - How do you change your money mindset? 20:00 - How can people overcome their limiting beliefs around money? 22:00 - What is “the work?” 23:00 - Breathwork sessions and learning to overcome self-doubt. 28:00 - Do you know why are you doing the things that you’re doing? 29:50 - Do you operate with a chip on your shoulder or are you self-motivated? 31:20 - Why start a relationship mastermind? 33:20 - How do you set boundaries around business and family? 43:30 - Can women operate in their feminine energy and build a business? 44:40 - Why it’s not noble to be a martyr. 48:00 - What do you do for yourself to bring yourself joy? 49:00 - How do you define joy? Resources + Links: Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny [https://www.instagram.com/thegooddanny/?hl=en] Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann [https://www.instagram.com/briannehoefelmann/?hl=en] Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia [https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinmedia/?hl=en] Connect with Kara on Instagram: @kara_ayala [https://www.instagram.com/kara_ayala/] Subscribe to Kara’s Podcast: Marriage, Money & Mayhem [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-money-mayhem/id1550317904]

Is Fear of LOSS Keeping You From Something Better?

Our decision to homeschool our kids is one we thought about for months! We knew it was something we were drawn to. More freedom as a family, and the ability to teach our kids skills we know they’ll need as adults. I (Brianne) just had these feelings of worry, and fear that were keeping me from fully committing for a while because having the kids go to school was familiar, and homeschool was not. I had fear around things the kids would lose, without honestly weighing what they would GAIN! We hope you enjoy this chat around homeschooling, and how we’re learning to let go of what is good and familiar, for what is great! For what I feel is meant for us in this season of our family’s life! Resources + Links:   Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny [https://www.instagram.com/thegooddanny/?hl=en]   Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann [https://www.instagram.com/briannehoefelmann/?hl=en]   Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia [https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinmedia/?hl=en]

YOU Are Responsible for Your Energy, Not Your Spouse

How do you  want to FEEL when you wake up every morning? As we’re learning and growing, and making daily deposits towards our goals, at the end of the day it's a feeling we’re after. You  want to be happy, proud, confident…and you can tap into those feelings anytime we want because YOU create them. In this episode, Danny and I are talking about a recent conversation we heard between Lori Harder and Brendan Burchard on her podcast, Earn Your Happy, about how we are all responsible for our own energy. The energy we bring into our relationships, our work, and we live our lives in the energy that we choose to generate. So make it GOOD energy! Listen in as we talk about creating the energy we want to have, and why it’s not your spouse's responsibility to make you happy!   Resources + Links:   Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny [https://www.instagram.com/thegooddanny/?hl=en]   Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann [https://www.instagram.com/briannehoefelmann/?hl=en]   Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia [https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinmedia/?hl=en]