The lonely queers

#3 'Creating our own timelines'

#3 - season 2. CREATING OUR OWN TIMELINES We are all a part of different constructions and put into systems in this lifetime - but we have to take ownership of our own choice to be here. That is why it is so important that we realise and know that we are the creators of our own timelines and life.  Remember - we are spiritual beings living a human existence.   We have the power to create, and it is time to start taking action and create the best potentials of our lives - so we can be and attract more light and love. It's not a cliché - it's a fact. The law of attraction is a part of our existence. Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.     * Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertet * Visit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

#2 'Pleasure & fear'

#2 - season 2. PLEASURE & FEAR This episode is an inspiration to think about your pleasure. And your fears. A stunning sunset paints the sky in impossible colors. Your breath catches. Something in your chest opens and you feel... alive. Connected. Full. But how long do you let yourself stay in that feeling? Maybe seconds before the thoughts rush in: I should take a photo. I need to post this. What am I making for dinner? Did I respond to that email? I'm wasting time just standing here. You pull yourself out of the pleasure. Back to productivity. Back to control. Back to safety. - Is it any wonder we're disconnected from ourselves? - Is it surprising we can't stay present in a beautiful sunset, when we've been trained to believe our pleasure doesn't matter? - Is it shocking we can't fully enjoy sex, when we've been taught our bodies exist for others' pleasure, not our own? You deserve pleasure. Not because you earned it. Not because you've been good enough. But because you're alive. And pleasure is what reminds you of that truth. So wake up. Feel it. Claim it. Your pleasure is your power. Take it back. Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.   * Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertet * Visit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

#1 'Happy new year'

#1 - season 2. HAPPY NEW YEAR Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.   * Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertet * Visit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

#47 'Self-worth - the foundation of everything'

#47 SELF-WORTH - THE FOUNDATION OF EVERYTHING The Final Episode of 2025. Happy New Year. This is it - the last episode of 2025. And what a year it's been. I hope this year brought you closer to who you truly are. Even if just a little. Even if just in moments. Because that's the real work, isn't it? Not becoming someone new, but remembering who you've always been beneath all the layers of conditioning and expectation. Today, I want to talk about something fundamental. Something we often confuse but desperately need to understand: The difference between self-esteem and self-worth.  In the last episode I talked about self-esteem and this time I include self-worth. Self-worth is the unshakeable knowing that you have value simply because you exist. Not because of what you do. Not because of what you achieve. Not because of who loves you or how you look or what you contribute. But because you ARE. Being the spiritual entity having a human experience.  Not the other way around. You're not a human trying to become spiritual. You're spirit - eternal, infinite, divine - temporarily clothed in human form. And spirit has inherent worth. Always. Unchanging. Your soul doesn't earn its value. Your spirit doesn't prove it deserves to exist. It simply IS. And therefore, it's worthy. In the episode I will take you into an altered state of mind for a very short while so you can sense what I am talking about. We go through the same themes again and again and most of our experiences with love and relations  is connected to our lack of self-esteem due to unhealed childhood traumas and experiences: The same lessons, the same patterns, the same struggles - but each time, we spiral deeper and expand IF we choose to look inward and work with ourselves and heal. Each time you encounter self-worth issues, you're not "failing" or "not getting it." You're meeting the same lesson at a deeper layer. With more awareness. With more capacity to see and integrate and heal - remember that. My words for you is to inspire you to sense the meaning of my words about self-worth.  Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.    * Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertet * Visit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

#46 'Awareness, self-esteem & breaking the projection cycle'

#46 AWARENESS, SELF-ESTEEM AND BREAKING THE PROJECTION CYCLE Have you ever been in the middle of a fight with your partner and suddenly realized - this isn't really about them? That feeling when you're upset about something they said or did, but the intensity of your reaction feels... bigger than the situation deserves? When you hear yourself saying things or feeling things that seem to come from somewhere ancient and wounded inside you? That's your inner child projecting. And here's what most of us don't realize: We're doing this constantly. All of us. Every time we enter into love- into intimate relationship, into vulnerability, into opening our hearts to another human being - we bring our whole history with us. And I don't just mean the conscious history, the stories we know and tell about ourselves. I mean the wounds we carry from when we were small and powerless. The times we weren't seen. The moments we weren't held when we needed it most. The love we didn't receive in the way our little hearts needed it. The messages we internalized about whether we were worthy, lovable, enough. All of that lives in us. Waiting. And then we fall in love. We open our hearts. We let someone in. And suddenly, that wounded inner child wakes up and starts projecting all those old, unhealed traumas onto this person we love. And here's the painful truth: They're probably doing the same thing to you. When they snap at you over something small, when they shut down emotionally, when they criticize or withdraw or cling - that's their wounded inner child projecting their unhealed trauma onto you. So we end up in this dance - two wounded children in adult bodies, projecting our past onto each other's present. No wonder relationships are hard. But it is not all that dark - there are ways around it and it takes awareness. Self-esteem is the foundation and goes hand in hand with awareness. When you genuinely know your own worth and who you are as a being,- not as an intellectual concept but as a lived, embodied truth - you don't need to fall into that rabbithole all the time. Changing habbits, live THE self-love and self-reflect is some of the keywords in this episode. Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.    * Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertet * Visit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal