The Mutual Marriage w/ Dan and Tonya White

Episode 6 - Hierarchy or Health

An exploration into the word Headship in the Bible and a framework for mutual decision-making.

Episode 5 - Collaborating for Change & Synchronicity

Dan and Tonya share how they moved from Independence to Interdependence.

Episode 4 - The Ego, Kenotic Love, and Space-Making

How do we contend with our self-constructed Egos in Marriage? We each must move beyond blame, aggression, people-pleasing, and self-loathing to face ourselves. Freedom begins when we make space in our relationship to do this work together.

Episode 3 - The Silenced and Siloed Dynamic

When negotiating power, some marriages will drift into a silenced dynamic, and others will drift into a siloed dynamic.

Episode 2 - 5 Power-Play Archetypes

The negotiation for who has power in the relationship starts on day 1 and will continue until you start addressing it directly. When we don’t face the ways we try to gain power, it will lead to resentment, distancing, and frustration.