The Naked Room

Ashley-Lauren Elrod: how I channeled my trauma into advocacy with "Maya's Magic Word"

This week, we got really lucky to snag some time with the incredible Ashley-Lauren Elrod! Ashley-Lauren is an Emmy-nominated producer and trauma-informed intuitive healing professional. Pulling from her personal experiences, she is a prominent voice for childhood abuse + assault survivors. Her work has led her to collaborate with prominent organizations like the Chicago Children's Advocacy Center and the National Children's Alliance. As the founder of Visionary Woman Productions, Ashley-Lauren creates impactful campaigns that address critical issues, including child safety. While attending a UN conference, she wrote her recently released children's book, Maya's Magic Word, to educate young kids about consent, boundaries, and self-protection through engaging storytelling Maya's Magic Word aims to: - Teach Consent and Boundaries: Helping children understand their right to say no and recognize their feelings of discomfort. - Encourage Open Communication: Equipping parents and educators with the language to discuss sensitive topics around safety in a non-fear-based manner. Let's not wait in silence. How have you approached these discussions with your kids? Follow + support Ashley-Lauren Elrod ⤵️ https://www.ashleylaurenelrod.com/ [https://www.ashleylaurenelrod.com/] https://www.ashleylaurenelrod.com/mayasmagicword [https://www.ashleylaurenelrod.com/mayasmagicword] https://www.ashleylaurenelrod.com/adiaryofarecoveringinnerchild [https://www.ashleylaurenelrod.com/adiaryofarecoveringinnerchild] https://www.instagram.com/ashleylaurenofficial [https://www.instagram.com/ashleylaurenofficial] https://www.instagram.com/mayasmagicword/ [https://www.instagram.com/mayasmagicword/] https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleylaurenelrod [https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleylaurenelrod] Follow TNR on Substack + socials: https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedroompod [https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedroompod] https://substack.com/@thenakedroompod [https://substack.com/@thenakedroompod] https://www.instagram.com/thenakedroompod [https://www.instagram.com/thenakedroompod] https://www.tiktok.com/@thenakedroompod [https://www.tiktok.com/@thenakedroompod] Wanna write in with a question? Have a comment? Email TNR: nakedroompodcast@gmail.com [nakedroompodcast@gmail.com] Call us and leave an anonymous VM:‪ +1 (213) 537-9791‬ Helpful links / shoutouts: Sexual assault resources https://rainn.org/help-and-healing/hotline/ [https://rainn.org/help-and-healing/hotline/] https://www.nsvrc.org/survivors/ [https://www.nsvrc.org/survivors/] https://1in6.org/ [https://1in6.org/] Interested in learning more past-life regressions? Here's a great book! https://www.brianweiss.com/about-the-books/many-lives-many-masters/ [https://www.brianweiss.com/about-the-books/many-lives-many-masters/] https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/health/a27226349/past-life-regression-therapy-review/ [https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/health/a27226349/past-life-regression-therapy-review/] Sponsor discount codes: Solaray, for 20% off use THENAKEDROOM at checkout https://solaray.com/ [https://solaray.com/] Free Bird (Kelly + JL’s FAVORITE water), for 10% off use NakedRoom10 at checkout https://drinkfreebird.com/ [https://drinkfreebird.com/] Get full access to The Naked Room at thenakedroompod.substack.com/subscribe [https://thenakedroompod.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

BONUS listener voicemail message ft. Mike Underell

Back in April, we recorded an episode with the one, the only Mike Underell. The conversation got a lot of people talking, and someone called into our voicemail line to ask him a question. As per usual, he answered openly and honestly Listen in, and then go support his work dismantling the patriarchy from within 💪 Mike Underell ⤵️: https://www.instagram.com/mikeinprogress_/ [https://www.instagram.com/mikeinprogress_/] https://substack.com/@mikeinprogress [https://substack.com/@mikeinprogress] https://www.linkedin.com/in/mikeunderell/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mikeunderell/] Follow TNR on Substack + socials: https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedroompod [https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedroompod] https://substack.com/@thenakedroompod [https://substack.com/@thenakedroompod] https://www.instagram.com/thenakedroompod [https://www.instagram.com/thenakedroompod] https://www.tiktok.com/@thenakedroompod [https://www.tiktok.com/@thenakedroompod] Email TNR: nakedroompodcast@gmail.com [nakedroompodcast@gmail.com] Call us and leave an anonymous VM:‪ +1 (213) 537-9791‬ Sponsor discount codes:Solaray, for 20% off use THENAKEDROOM at checkout Free Bird (Kelly + JL’s FAVORITE water), for 10% off use NakedRoom10 at checkout Get full access to The Naked Room at thenakedroompod.substack.com/subscribe [https://thenakedroompod.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

Joanna Fajardo: I was in a high-control religious group

Annnnnd we're back!! Did you miss us? This week in TNR, buckle up for a wild life story from our guest, Joanna Fajardo. Joanna grew up very religious. Once she got a bit older, certain things she witnessed started to making her question everything she knew. She had a realization that she was in what she calls a "high-control group", often referred to as ... a cult. She exited years ago, and that came with major life-altering changes she openly explains in detail. To leave meant to lose touch with her whole family, but it also meant being true to herself. She was finally able to embrace her queerness -- her favorite thing about herself. Joanna offers several key takeaways for those looking to navigate life after leaving a high-control group: - Embrace Your Authenticity: Finding and embracing your true self is paramount. Joanna encourages individuals to explore their identities outside the confines of their upbringing. - Seek Support: Connecting with others who have had similar experiences can be invaluable. Joanna found solace in sharing her story with others who understood what she went through. - Challenge Fear: Recognizing that fear is often a tool used by high-control groups can help individuals reclaim their power. Joanna urges those in similar situations to question the narratives they've been taught. *If you or someone you know needs help or are looking for resources, we've included some links in the Helpful links section below ⤵️ Follow TNR on Substack + socials: https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedroompod [https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedroompod] https://substack.com/@thenakedroompod [https://substack.com/@thenakedroompod] https://www.instagram.com/thenakedroompod [https://www.instagram.com/thenakedroompod] https://www.tiktok.com/@thenakedroompod [https://www.tiktok.com/@thenakedroompod] Wanna write in with a question? Have a comment? Email TNR: nakedroompodcast@gmail.com [nakedroompodcast@gmail.com] Call us and leave an anonymous VM: ‪+1 (213) 537-9791‬ Helpful links / shoutouts: When we asked Joanna what causes she wanted to call out, she did not hesitate: Human Rights Campaign. Great cause, great mission. Donate if you can: https://www.hrc.org/ [https://www.hrc.org/] Below are some helpful resources if you are looking for support: https://internationalculticstudies.org/ [https://internationalculticstudies.org/] https://www.peopleleavecults.com/ [https://www.peopleleavecults.com/] https://culteducation.com/directory-of-cult-recovery-resources.html [https://culteducation.com/directory-of-cult-recovery-resources.html] https://www.lalichcenter.org/ [https://www.lalichcenter.org/] JL’s referenced a church she went to that didn’t use musical instruments … it’s called The Church of Christ Sponsor discount codes: Solaray [https://solaray.com/], for 20% off use THENAKEDROOM at checkout Free Bird [https://drinkfreebird.com/] (Kelly + JL’s FAVORITE water), for 10% off use NakedRoom10 at checkout Get full access to The Naked Room at thenakedroompod.substack.com/subscribe [https://thenakedroompod.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

Listener voicemail! "How do you forgive yourself?"

When a listener called in and left a voicemail on TNR hotline, the Kelly and JL jumped on making an episode out of it! The topic of forgiveness is a hard one for a lot of people ... how do you forgive someone else, and just as importantly, how do you forgive yourself? What does it take? How can you truly let go? Kelly and JL do some cathartic friend therapy: Kelly dives into a very personal circumstance of learning to forgive herself and JL how far she's come with not letting other people's opinions dictate how she feels about herself. Follow TNR on Substack + socials: https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedroompod [https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedroompod] https://substack.com/@thenakedroompod [https://substack.com/@thenakedroompod] https://www.instagram.com/thenakedroompod [https://www.instagram.com/thenakedroompod] https://www.tiktok.com/@thenakedroompod [https://www.tiktok.com/@thenakedroompod] Wanna write in with a question? Have a comment? Email TNR: nakedroompodcast@gmail.com [nakedroompodcast@gmail.com] Call us and leave an anonymous VM: ‪+1 (213) 537-9791‬ Sponsor discount codes: Solaray [https://solaray.com/], for 20% off use THENAKEDROOM at checkout Free Bird [https://drinkfreebird.com/] (Kelly + JL’s FAVORITE water), for 10% off use NakedRoom10 at checkout Get full access to The Naked Room at thenakedroompod.substack.com/subscribe [https://thenakedroompod.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

Delaney Debinski: Moving to Europe, Offline Clubs and overcoming the Freelancer's Dilemma

This week in TNR, Kelly and JL chat with Delaney Debinski! Skydiving, new media entrepreneurship, and moving across the pond, OH MY! Delaney relocated to Belgium from the States, and that’s influenced all facets of her life. She created Delavie Creative (in French, delavie means “of life”) to help her clients strike a balance between the work and the personal to build a sustainable lifestyle. And to set better boundaries around knowing when it’s time to turn OFF … before the dreaded BURNOUT. insert melty face emoji here. Listen in to hear Delaney’s actionable tips on how to achieve striking a better balance! This is your sign to shut down, put your phone to bed, and go to yoga class. Delaney Debinski ⤵️ (Hire this woman. She’ll change your life!) https://delaviecreative.com/ https://www.instagram.com/hey_there_delaney/ https://www.instagram.com/delaviecreative/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/delaviecreative/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/delaneydebinski/ https://www.youtube.com/@delaviecreative https://www.youtube.com/@hey_there_delaney Follow TNR on Substack + socials: https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedroompod [https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedroompod] https://substack.com/@thenakedroompod [https://substack.com/@thenakedroompod] https://www.instagram.com/thenakedroompod [https://www.instagram.com/thenakedroompod] https://www.tiktok.com/@thenakedroompod [https://www.tiktok.com/@thenakedroompod]Wanna write in with a question? Have a comment? Email TNR: nakedroompodcast@gmail.com [nakedroompodcast@gmail.com] Call us and leave an anonymous VM:‪+1 (213) 537-9791‬Helpful links / shoutouts: Unplugged Cabins (in the UK): https://unplugged.rest/ (Manifesting a TNR retreat 🙏) The Offline Club. SIGN. ME. UP. https://www.theoffline-club.com/ Booksmart. “Malalaaaa!” https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6062774/ Sponsor discount codes:Solaray, for 20% off use THENAKEDROOM at checkout https://solaray.com/Free Bird (Kelly + JL’s FAVORITE water), for 10% off use NakedRoom10 at checkout\ https://drinkfreebird.com/ Get full access to The Naked Room at thenakedroompod.substack.com/subscribe [https://thenakedroompod.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]