The Psychology of your 20s

Extreme thinness is back in trend (again) so today, we explore the psychology behind why and the impact its having? In this episode, we'll discuss the rise of skinnytok and how this so-called ‘wellness’ version of thinness convinces us to be smaller, neater, cleaner, more controlled. What to expect: •        How to tell whether content is skinnytok aligned •        Links to orthorexia and the demonisation of food groups •        What does this say about politics? •        The role of weight loss drugs  •        Why female bodies are so policed •        How to counteract the impact of skinnytok If you’ve ever felt smaller after scrolling – physically or emotionally - this episode is for you. For professional help:  The Butterfly Foundation [https://butterfly.org.au/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=17678229317&gbraid=0AAAAADBtQWRmvlm6mxTnfLswaQtfAF33B&gclid=Cj0KCQjwmYzIBhC6ARIsAHA3IkQ_akrEZbybWWVXQFj59vuNK6QEEhf1RCUUOAQPqRb_Lpv7g7ByhXoaAvVhEALw_wcB] National Eating Disorder Organisation [https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/]   Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg [https://www.instagram.com/jemmasbeg/?hl=en#] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thatpsychologypodcast/?hl=en#] For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com [psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com]  ORDER MY BOOK [https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/copy-of-book] The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.   See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Have you ever felt that urge for payback? Revenge is one of the oldest, most universal human instincts. It seems like it promises justice, balance, or even peace. But why does it so often leave us feeling worse, not better? In this episode, we dive into the psychology of revenge - what drives it, what it costs us, and why our brains find it so hard to let go. We explore: •        Why revenge feels so intoxicating •        The difference between impulsive and planned revenge •        Who might be more prone to act out revenge •        The negative effects of seeking it out •        Why acting on our need can leave us feeling worse •        The push and pull behind human morality •        Empathy, success and silence as alternatives If you’ve ever replayed an argument in your head or imagined getting even, this episode is for you. ORDER MY BOOK [https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/copy-of-book] Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg [https://www.instagram.com/jemmasbeg/?hl=en#] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thatpsychologypodcast/?hl=en#] For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com [psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com]    The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.   See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Everyone is secretly searching for the perfect relationship, but what if your relationship is just 'good enough'? What if you feel secure, or fine about the person you're with but secretly want more? In today's episode we break down what it means to settle in your 20s, including:  * The pressure to be 'coupled up' during your 20s * How milestone anxiety creates unfulfilled relationships  * What settling looks and feels like  * How to tell if it's just relationships anxiety  * 3 questions to ask yourself if you're thinking about leaving  Listen now!  ORDER MY BOOK [https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/copy-of-book] Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg [https://www.instagram.com/jemmasbeg/?hl=en#] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thatpsychologypodcast/?hl=en#] For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com [psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com]  The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.   See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

We think of failure as a terrible thing or something to be avoided. But when you learn to fall in love with failure, a whole new level of growth occurs that will have you seeing progress faster than ever. In our 20s, the so called failure-decade, we talk about how you can learn to fail, including:  * The reasons we fear failure  * Why our definition of success is inaccurate and socially conditioned  * The relationship successful people have with success  * Why grit matters more than IQ  * Why your fear of failure is keeping you behind * 5 ways to ritualise failure in your daily life + more  Listen now to change your entire mindset towards setbacks!  ORDER MY BOOK [https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/copy-of-book] Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg [https://www.instagram.com/jemmasbeg/?hl=en#] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thatpsychologypodcast/?hl=en#] For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com [psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com]  The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.   See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

We’ve all heard the term thrown around – in books, in TV dramas, in news articles – we’re taught to be scared of it. But rarely do we consider what it actually means. In today’s bonus episode, we take a look at sociopathy. We explore: * Differentiating sociopathy and psychopathy * Common misconceptions * Early origins of the term * The role of self-awareness and masking in sociopathy * Whether all sociopaths are bad * Treatments and management for sociopathy Listen now! ORDER MY BOOK: https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/book [https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/book] Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg [https://www.instagram.com/jemmasbeg/?hl=en] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thatpsychologypodcast/?hl=en] For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com    The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist. See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.