The Pursuit of MiSELF

Breaking Up With Your Good Girl. She's Costing You

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2505191/fan_mail/new] This Masterclass Almost Didn't Make It to the Podcast I ran a live masterclass this week called The Ex-Good Girl, and about ten minutes in I knew I had to get it out to more of you than just the women who were on the call. So this episode is that masterclass, live and unfiltered. We get into the good girl pattern — where it actually comes from, why it's not a personality quirk but a survival strategy you built so young you've never lived without it, and what it's quietly costing you in your marriage, your friendships, your money, and your body. I also break down why just seeing the pattern never actually changes it. Awareness isn't the same as capacity, and I walk through exactly what capacity actually means and how you build it — because "just stop people pleasing" was never going to work for you. This one got raw. I went off script a few times because honestly, it was hitting me too. In this episode: * Why your attachment to being "good" is what's actually keeping you stuck * The difference between awareness and capacity (and why awareness alone makes things feel worse before better) * The three moves that actually build nervous system capacity * Why boundaries fail when they come from the same identity that created the problem * What happens in your relationships, money, and purpose when you finally stop performing If this episode moves something in you, come find me on Instagram and tell me — I read every message. And if you're ready to do this work in person, not just hear about it, my three-day immersion She Evolves is coming up July 29–31 in Perth. Link in bio.

How to Build a Personal Brand When You're Terrified of Being Seen with Kate Wright

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2505191/fan_mail/new] She's a visibility coach who spent six years hiding behind a business name instead of her own. Kate Wright helps women become visible — in their brands, their businesses, their lives. In this episode, she tells me the truth about what it actually took to become visible herself. We talk about the blushing problem she took to a GP in her twenties, hoping for a pill. The fertility journey that cracked her open and forced her to listen to her body for the first time. The marriage that ended and taught her the word codependency — and how much of her life had been built around fixing, saving, and shrinking so other people would feel comfortable. We get into why she hid behind a business name instead of her own for six years. What she thought she'd lose if people found out she was "woo woo." Why playing small felt safer than being known — even while she was coaching other women to do the opposite. This is not a marketing episode. This is what's actually underneath visibility. If you've ever picked up your phone to post something true and put it back down, this one's for you. We can do hard things. Kate Wright - @katewrightloves

The Decision That Changed Everything — And Why You're Still Waiting To Make Yours

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2505191/fan_mail/new] In this episode I share the decision I made five years ago that terrified me — and why it changed everything. We talk about the identity gap that's keeping you stuck, why isolation is a block not a badge, and why you cannot upgrade yourself from inside the same walls you've been living in. Plus — everything you need to know about SHE EVOLVES, my three-day immersive expansion. DM me EVOLVE on Instagram @raynebryantofficial

Grateful for Her. Done Being Her.

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2505191/fan_mail/new] She Got You Here. She Won't Get You There. The woman who survived the divorce, built the business, raised the kids, and held everything together — she is extraordinary. And she is not the one who gets you to what's next. In this episode, Rayne gets honest about the identity gap that keeps high-achieving women spinning their wheels — doing the courses, attending the retreats, listening to the podcasts, and returning to the same life. The problem isn't effort. It's that your nervous system doesn't rise to the level of your goals. It rises to the level of your unconscious beliefs. Rayne breaks down why comfort is the most dangerous place to stay, what it really means when you catch yourself saying "I used to be braver than this," and why attaching to an old version of yourself isn't nostalgia — it's protection from what courage actually requires of you now. This one is raw, unscripted, and deeply personal. Rayne is doing this work in real time alongside you. In this episode: * Why the identity that built your current life can't build your next one * What your nervous system is actually protecting you from * The difference between naming your pattern and doing something about it * How to start stepping into the woman who already has what you want Ready to collapse the gap?  The 3-Day Immersion [https://miself.com.au/she-evolves-3-day-immersion-landing-page-page] is coming. Only 5 spots left (17.6.25)

What If I Just Want More? And why I'm not ungrateful.

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2505191/fan_mail/new] "I don't know what I want, but I know I just want more." If that sentence has ever passed through you — at the kitchen sink, in the school car park, halfway through a day that looks successful on paper — this episode is for you. Rayne unpacks why so many capable, accomplished women cannot articulate what "more" actually means — and why that's not a sign you're confused, ungrateful, or asking for too much. It's evidence of something much deeper. In this episode: * Why women are conditioned to be satisfied while men are conditioned to be ambitious * What happens when a performed life eats the language for your own desire * Why "more" isn't a bigger life — it's a different woman walking down the same hallway * A personal reflection on the desires Rayne suppressed inside her marriage, and what she learnt from it * The cost of "almost" — and why almost is the most expensive place a woman can live * Why permission is the missing piece, and the only person who can give it to you is you If anything in this episode lands in your body — not your head, your body — that's the felt sense of recognition. That recognition is exactly what we move through inside the free masterclass Permission to Want More, Wednesday 3 June at 5:30pm AEST. 90 minutes. Live. Interactive. Hot seat coaching, real questions, real shifts. Register here: Permission to Wand More Masterclass [https://miself.com.au/permissiontowantmoremasterclass] Follow Rayne: Instagram: @raynebryantofficial  Website: miself.com.au