The Relationship Revolutionary, with Dr. Jeni Wahlig

Why You're Still Not Happy (Even After All the Personal Development Work) | Christy Holt + Dr. Jeni Wahlig

Catalyst Conversations: A Relationship RevolutionEp. 13: The Biggest Myth About Happiness (And What Actually Works) | May Myths Finale You've done the work. Read the books. Tried the therapy. Done the journaling. And still something is missing. The reason? You've been looking in the wrong place.In this final episode of the May Myths series, Dr. Jeni Wahlig sits down with Christy Holt — author, podcast host, and self-described Happiness Hussy — to bust open the biggest myth about happiness most high-achieving women have been living by without realizing it.Christy brings two divorces, zero apologies, and a decade of helping women stop performing happiness and start actually feeling it. In this conversation: • Why the self-help industry profits from keeping you stuck and how to recognize when it's happening to you• The "common denominator" moment that shifts everything (in relationships and in life) • What actually happens when you stop chasing external happiness and start aligning internally • The practical approach to creating feel-good states now without waiting for circumstances to cooperate. Join my free masterclass- "From Frustrated... To Fulfilled- How to get your partner to finally show up the way you've been asking, without burning yourself out trying to make it happen." https://powerfulove.com/the-love-you-... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa2Z1dFg4dHZmWUk2eXp2eVVTZ3otS05FbldSQXxBQ3Jtc0ttY1dQcGlXUE4zTktwczFONDNlaWtTN0Z6Ukd3YkF6bWdCS0txMDVZeVlXSlF4YVZ1dXFsMW5CNkNMcC1lbGRCU2lHNTNjaWpyNThZakJpYndTZU9VTm1WY3dIVG9IYnNYdlV4eGNoMk1xWW1YdXRxQQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fpowerfulove.com%2Fthe-love-you-deserve-masterclass&v=0Cn0GMYg8bU]🚀 Go deeper inside The Relationship Revolution Community... The space where powerful women (and the partners who love them) learn to lead love differently — with truth, courage, and support.🔗 Learn more and join here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqblhNRTJCcmpBUGJBc2hiRWdQMzhhdk5QRWphZ3xBQ3Jtc0ttckU4alFGS0Z1dlVQVTc3T3VKSnVWWHUtTHhQNDBsd2taNzl6eXVJRlhRLXJEVGJ6VllFZU1mWGpxaTFienhJdEtoV3plcExxNFZyX0REdWQyRjlabkZJZkRWRTk0NERLR1Q4ZUNJMzdONm1kMjVOMA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fdocs.google.com%2Fforms%2Fd%2Fe%2F1FAIpQLScAIj7diqMCOdLDH4Ufg1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDuvqDFf1A%2Fviewform&v=0Cn0GMYg8bU]📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel for all Catalyst Conversations:    / @powerfulove   [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3yVd52IcRRG_lljev2BB3A]Get Love, Unstuck — Christy Holt's guidebook to creating healthy, happy relationships, starting with the one you have with yourself:www.loveunstuck.comListen to Christy's podcast, Create Your Happy wherever you listen to podcasts!www.createyourhappy.ca

You've been performing for love. And it's exactly why you can't seem to have it.

In this episode of Catalyst Conversations: A Relationship Revolution, Dr. Jeni Wahlig is joined by Gianna Yazana — philosopher, relationship coach, and writer — whose work draws on Socrates, Carl Jung, Eric Fromm, and ancient mythology to dismantle one of the most damaging stories women carry: that love is a reward for becoming desirable enough. Together they unpack why performing for love guarantees you'll never actually receive it, what happens inside relationships when a persona — not a person — shows up, and what it looks like to stop chasing love and start becoming it. In this episode:• The capitalistic logic that turned you into an object to be acquired — and why it's woven into every piece of dating advice you've ever received• What the honeymoon phase crash is really about and why the performance always breaks down eventually• Jeni's client story: what happened when a woman stopped hiding herself and showed up fully• Eric Fromm's radical reframe: love is not separate from us — we are love, and becoming it is the whole path• The question that replaces 'how do I get chosen?' and why it changes everything• What 'love yourself first' actually means, made concrete and actionable 🚀 Go deeper inside The Relationship Revolution Community... The space where powerful women (and the partners who love them) learn to lead love differently-- with truth, courage, and support.🔗 Learn more and join the community here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbERXamhJR2J5dXU1cmpOSnlHMy02Y0hOM2J1UXxBQ3Jtc0trV1RaRHV5NjZoc0VkemswWkt5ekpleF9EZktxYWNFWThDSExCdnFiWThidHlWQVVqeFVvZVA0cXBsaXBfZ3lGVUhfdXlkNEVrWHFQWS1pVnEwRUQtNXpBYzhic3kxVWhiQ0Y3LWNNVmFfZXlWWnRyaw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fdocs.google.com%2Fforms%2Fd%2Fe%2F1FAIpQLScAIj7diqMCOdLDH4Ufg1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDuvqDFf1A%2Fviewform&v=1_9b0PBBQhw]Join my next FREE Live masterclass: "From Frustrated... To Fulfilled. Get The Love You Deserve." https://powerfulove.com/the-love-you-... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbFR4SG1ZMkNlUGFZNE9kbGExWnNLVjc4Vi1wUXxBQ3Jtc0ttc283ZUhHME5kVjlPRnFwTGg1WTFlU0hsREY2ZnpjSmNucFA5UmdNZE5QMHRSczdwWmRBUlFTRE1SV0R5MTFjaktZYUc0dWtxZmhfRkI4SWt1dmR0WEd0U0FJbjdKTElnSnRfaTRrc2R3SUQ5dGpjVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fpowerfulove.com%2Fthe-love-you-deserve-masterclass&v=1_9b0PBBQhw]📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel for all Catalyst Conversations:    / @powerfulove   [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3yVd52IcRRG_lljev2BB3A]Get Gianna's free reflective guided journal — designed to help you reset your relationship patterns by moving from performance and external validation into self-awareness, presence, and a more conscious way of loving:https://philosophicalhearts.com/chall... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmh1bUR5MVZQS0h1WlE4WUgtblJlaG45RVljUXxBQ3Jtc0tsZkVVdTh5ZzlYUFk5S0pfS1NsUjRUN1RHSFJyV2lwWExScVdiOWhMWEgwbFJGTFZCSDZiZkV0VTBZd3ZacTlwaDVjNEJhWTdPOTZSQ21BWFZxU0JLLU83VWdfU0RJZTNoQms2Xzd3LUk2YUdjZ0VDVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fphilosophicalhearts.com%2Fchallenge-freebie&v=1_9b0PBBQhw]Additional resources:Loving in the Now Mini Course — https://philosophicalhearts.com/sales... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa0l2OXZGS1BCRm9xTzVqZ19wWTJmeEs4aWNYZ3xBQ3Jtc0tuMEo4TWlsYVZpazBxSHdJbXZpWW9TR29IVjZOSklGdnViNUJlb2Y5YnZVQVg2VmhBWDRGbzdSTDhZclBBOE9Ia2NZcWo2cmhnY1FGd3MyMlVDNGJYaExzcjdhZFhCRVRSZ3MyVGc0R0FXSURPVnpfQQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fphilosophicalhearts.com%2Fsales-page-page-8320-2791-4123&v=1_9b0PBBQhw]#RelationshipRevolution [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationshiprevolution] #RelationalLeadership [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationalleadership] #DesirableWoman [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/desirablewoman] #LoveYourself [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/loveyourself] #AuthenticLove [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/authenticlove] #WomenInRelationships [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/womeninrelationships] #PerformingForLove [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/performingforlove] #SelfLove [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/selflove] #RelationshipCoach [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationshipcoach] #PowerfuLove [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/powerfulove]

The Myth That You Can't Change Your Past

The past is in the past. You can't change it ... you can only accept it and move on. That's the myth. And it's one of the most costly beliefs we carry. In this episode of Catalyst Conversations: A Relationship Revolution, Dr. Jeni Wahlig sits down with Nikko Anna Jean CEO of Heartshine Revolution, #1 Amazon best-selling author, and creator of the Heartshine EFT Method to bust open the idea that our past is fixed. Because neuroscience and quantum physics are telling a very different story. In this conversation, you'll hear: * Why the past doesn't live in a fixed event ... it lives in your nervous system, your memories, and your identity * What EFT tapping actually is and why it goes far beyond stress relief * What inner child reparenting really means and the step most people skip * Why your inner child is likely running your most important adult conversations * Why affirmations and visualization fall short when the nervous system hasn't been addressed * How to become the conscious creator who actually changes the wiring not just paints over it This is Episode 3 of the May Myths series, where Dr. Jeni and her guests are cracking open the inherited stories that keep us stuck in love, leadership, and life. 🚀 Go deeper inside The Relationship Revolution Community... The space where powerful women (and the partners who love them) learn to lead love differently with truth, courage, and support. 🔗 Learn more and join here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScAIj7diqMCOdLDH4Ufg1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDuvqDFf1A/viewform 📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel for all Catalyst Conversations: https://www.youtube.com/@powerfulove Get a free chapter of Niko's book here: https://heartshinerevolution.com/books Access Niko's free masterclass — The 4-Step Method to Break Toxic Cycles and Become the Coach You're Meant to Be: https://nikoanab.easywebinar.live/event-registration Additional resources: Inner Child Revolution Podcast — https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXf5CW9T2Yly0m04zeN3eTxYtqYTGOxxM&si=EinSav7LlcA6jsD6 .

How to Stop Letting Your Roles Define You | Identity & Reinvention for High-Achieving Women | Catalyst Conversations

What if the identity you've been living was never really yours?In episode two of the May Myths series, Dr. Jeni Wahlig is joined by Charu Seth — ICF-certified identity strategist, transition coach, and author of She Stands Strong ...for a conversation that dismantles the myth most high-achieving women never see coming: the myth of who you are.Charu works with women over 40 who are navigating divorce, career reinvention, empty nesting, and other life transitions that strip away the familiar anchors of identity. Together, she and Jeni pull apart three pervasive myths that keep women performing roles instead of living from the truth of who they actually are.In this episode: why 86% of high-achieving women face a specific identity crisis right now, the three myths quietly running your sense of self, why reinvention doesn't mean starting from scratch, how knowing who you are is the foundation of every relationship you lead, and the one question you can ask yourself today to start the journey home.And one line you won't forget: 'Expiry is for food, not for people. 'This is the Relationship Revolutionary — a weekly Catalyst Conversation for the woman who wants it all. 🚀 Go deeper inside The Relationship Revolution Community... The space where powerful women (and the partners who love them) learn to lead love differently -- with truth, courage, and support. 🔗 Learn more and join here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScAIj7diqMCOdLDH4Ufg1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDuvqDFf1A/viewform 📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel for all Catalyst Conversations: https://www.youtube.com/@powerfulove Comment 'CATALYST' for more information on The Third Path Get The Identity Recalibration from Charu here: https://thrive-transform.kit.com/17eea8835b Additional resources: Book — "She Stands Strong" on Amazon Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/thrivetransform/ LinkedIn — www.linkedin.com/in/charu-seth-0b8b631 Website — https://thrivealter.com

How to Stop Living by Someone Else's Rules | Invisible Disabilities, Relationship Limits & Breaking Free from the Box

The box someone built for you was never built with your name on it — and it's time to stop pretending it fits.In this episode, Dr. Jeni Wahlig sits down with writer, speaker, and disability advocate Michelle Steiner, who was told she couldn't go to college, couldn't be published, and couldn't build the career she wanted. She did all of it. Their conversation goes far beyond disability advocacy — it's a reckoning for every person who has internalized someone else's story about what's possible for them.In this episode you'll hear:• Why the real limits keeping you stuck are almost never your identity or diagnosis • What hidden and invisible disabilities reveal about how we love and lead in relationship • Jeni's personal confession about how she perpetuated ableism in her own partnership • What "doing it afraid" actually looks like — and why courage doesn't require certainty • What becomes available when you finally give yourself permission to live outside the box This episode is part of the series Hard-Won Truths: Lessons That Transformed Everything. These truths don't come from books. They come from living. 🚀 Go deeper inside The Relationship Revolution Community... The space where powerful women (and the partners who love them) learn to lead love differently -- with truth, courage, and support. 🔗 Learn more and join here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScAIj7diqMCOdLDH4Ufg1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDuvqDFf1A/viewform 📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel for all Catalyst Conversations: https://www.youtube.com/@powerfulove Sign up for the "How To Get Your Partner To Finally Show Up The Way You Deserve" Masterclass here: https://bit.ly/masterclass-imworthit Get Michelle's free resource — Steps to Success with a Disability — here: https://www.canva.com/design/DAHEJH5lKTk/ehqIGEoB9Nyqrv8Kg8tNlg/edit Additional resources: Michelle's blog (Michelle's Mission): www.michellesmission.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/michelle.steiner.493966 Instagram: www.instagram.com/steiner7250