The Sexes Podcast

Is Future Faking Ruining Dating?

In this episode, Monroe and Lexx delve into the concept of future faking in dating, exploring its implications and the importance of honesty in relationships. They discuss how expectations can lead to disappointment, the connection between future faking and love bombing, and the prevalence of financial deception. The conversation emphasizes the need for authenticity and self-improvement in the dating landscape, highlighting the long-term consequences of manipulative behaviors. Ultimately, they advocate for genuine connections and the importance of being true to oneself in the pursuit of love. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535067/support]

Is Princess Treatment a thing?

In this conversation, Monroe and Lexx explore the concept of 'princess treatment' in dating, discussing its definitions, expectations, and the impact of social media on modern relationships. They delve into the materialistic aspects of dating, the importance of emotional connections, and the dangers of high expectations. The discussion emphasizes the need for genuine communication and the value of looking beyond superficial traits in relationships. Join our Patreon - https://patreon.com/TheSexesPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink  Follow us on socials! Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535067/support]

Where do our ideas about relationships come from?

In this episode, Monroe and Lex Delvin to the origins of our beliefs about relationships, exploring how upbringing culture and societal norm shape, our views on love and partnership. They discuss the importance of communication, self discovery and challenging, traditional relationship structures, emphasizing the need for vulnerability and openness in navigating personal desires and expectations. The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own beliefs and experiences, advocating for a more intentional approach to relationships. Want more? Join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/TheSexesPodcast Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535067/support]

Threesomes - The good, the bad and the wtf

Most folks don’t realize how a simple invitation can turn into a disaster — especially when the rules go out the window. With unexpected twists like a surprise third participant and a perfectly planned night derailed by chaos, you’ll discover how even the smoothest seductions can explode with the wrong rules—or none at all. In this episode, you'll learn:   - How premeditated, organic, and structure-free encounters can backfire in shocking ways   - The critical rules for safe, consensual, and enjoyable threesomes (and how to implement them)   - Why communication, vetting, and emotional intelligence are essential before jumping into intimate adventures     - Monroe & Lexx’s hilarious and disastrous personal stories, including a threesome with an uninvited guest.  This episode isn’t just about sex — it’s about boundaries, expectations, and the lessons learned from even the most thrilling experiences gone wrong and ones that went right. Whether you’re a seasoned explorer or just curious about opening your relationship, these tales will make you laugh, gasp, and rethink your next move. Perfect for anyone navigating non-traditional relationships or curious about the fine line between fun and chaos. Tune in to hear how a night that promised pleasure ended in a complete meltdown — and what you can do to keep your adventures safe and enjoyable. want more? Sign up to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/TheSexesPodcast [https://www.patreon.com/cw/TheSexesPodcast] Follow us everywhere else - https://linktr.ee/Sexespodcast [https://linktr.ee/Sexespodcast] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535067/support]

Relationship Structures - What is Polyamory, NonMonogamy and ENM Anyway?

So what is up with all of these dating profiles saying monogamy, polyamory, nonmonogamy or ENM? What does it all mean? This is the episode for you. We are going to talk about the various different relationship structures and definitions. We will share what we've learned along the way and how these definitions don't always mean the same thing to everyone. In fact, after you listen to this episode, we recommend asking yourself what your relationship structure means. It's time to get real about dating and what you want. This episode will help you start to ask yourself and others important questions while dating. Heck, they are even useful when you are already dating someone.  Some of the resources we mentioned on the pod:  * Therapy Jeff on TikTok * Ethical Slut Book & Workbook Jby anet Hardy * The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory by Dedeker Winston * The Multiamory Podcast * Sex and the City TV Show * Opening Up by Tristan Taramino * Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern Follow us on social media for more behind the scenes action and fun.  Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535067/support]