Your Brain on Mom

Back in the Nursing Home: Now What? Navigating Dementia Care, Medication Changes, and a Healthcare System No One Explains

This Is Your Brain on Mom picks up right where the chaos left off: Mom is back at the nursing home after a month in the hospital — restrained, overmedicated, medically cleared, psychiatrically cleared… and somehow still stuck in the middle of a system that no one seems able to explain. In this episode, Wendy and Barry unpack the exhausting reality of dementia care when doctors, hospitals, long-term care facilities, and families are all speaking different languages. From endless medication changes to unanswered questions, they share the frustration of trying to advocate for someone you love while navigating a healthcare system that often feels reactive instead of supportive. Through stories about Mom yelling at Murder, She Wrote, arguing with The Price Is Right, and terrifying nurses with her volume level, this episode balances heartbreak, frustration, and humor in the way only real caregivers can. If you’re supporting a parent with Alzheimer’s, dementia, or cognitive decline — or trying to navigate nursing homes, hospitals, and impossible decisions — this episode will remind you that you are not alone. Produced by Aflalo Communications Inc. (www.aflalo.com) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Dementia Caregiving, Estate Planning & End-of-Life Conversations: What Families Need to Know

What happens when the person who helps families plan for death becomes a dementia caregiver herself? In this episode of This Is Your Brain on Mom, Wendy and Barry speak with Canadian funeral director, educator, and author Minnelle Williams, founder of Ending Well with Minnelle Ending Well with Minnelle. What starts as a conversation about funeral planning quickly becomes deeply personal when Minnelle’s father is diagnosed with dementia—shifting everything she thought she knew about being “prepared.” Suddenly, estate planning isn’t theoretical. Advance directives aren’t paperwork. And end-of-life conversations aren’t optional—they’re urgent. Minnelle shares how her lived experience reshaped her work, leading her to focus on helping families navigate end-of-life planning with more clarity, less fear, and earlier conversations. She also discusses her book Plan Well. Live Well, a practical guide to documenting wishes and reducing crisis-driven decision-making. This is a conversation about what no one prepares you for—not just death, but the long emotional road leading up to it. If you’re caring for a loved one with dementia or trying to make sense of caregiving decisions before crisis hits, this episode will change how you think about planning. 🎧 Listen now and subscribe to This Is Your Brain on Mom for honest conversations about dementia, caregiving, grief, and the reality families live every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

When Dementia Changes the Person You Know | Mixed Dementia & Caregiver Grief

In this episode of This Is Your Brain on Mom, Wendy and Barry talk about one of the hardest parts of dementia caregiving: the moment your parent still recognizes you, but you no longer fully recognize them. After their mother’s diagnosis shifted from Alzheimer’s disease to mixed dementia — including Frontotemporal Dementia (FTD) and vascular dementia — they began facing personality changes, emotional outbursts, constant yelling, and the painful reality that dementia affects far more than memory. The siblings open up about caregiver guilt, hospital life, behavioral changes, and the complicated emotions that come with trying to stay connected to someone who feels different every day. Raw, funny, heartbreaking, and painfully honest, this episode captures the reality of living with dementia as a family — beyond the movie version people expect. This Is Your Brain on Mom is a podcast about dementia caregiving, family dynamics, advocacy, humor, and surviving the chaos of caring for a parent with cognitive decline. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Alzheimer’s… or Not? Understanding FTD, Vascular Dementia & Personality Changes

Wait… it’s not Alzheimer’s? In this episode of This Is Your Brain on Mom, Wendy and Barry unpack a major shift in their mom’s diagnosis—from Alzheimer’s to mixed dementia, including frontal temporal dementia (FTD) and vascular dementia. And honestly? It explains a lot. From extreme personality changes to aggression, language issues, and unpredictable behavior, this episode dives into what FTD actually looks like in real life—not just what Google tells you. Because dementia isn’t one-size-fits-all. There’s humor (because there has to be), but also the raw truth of what it’s like to watch your parent change in ways no one prepares you for. If you’ve ever felt like the diagnosis doesn’t quite fit… or like you’re learning as you go in real time—this episode is for you. 🎧 Tune in and learn what mixed dementia really means—and why getting the right diagnosis matters. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

What happens after an Alzheimer’s diagnosis?

In this episode, Wendy and Barry get brutally honest about the moment everything changes—and the shocking lack of support that follows. Because the truth is: no one hands you a plan. No one tells you what’s dementia, what’s delirium, or what to do next. You’re given a diagnosis… and then you’re shown the door. Inspired by a powerful post from Dr. Kalisha Bonds Johnson, we unpack the reality so many caregivers face: surviving day by day with no roadmap, no guidance, and no real-time help. From their mom’s rapid decline following her Alzheimer’s diagnosis to navigating hospital discharges, psychosis, medications, and impossible decisions—this episode dives into the chaos of becoming a caregiver overnight. This episode is for anyone who has ever thought: “What the hell do I do now?” 🎧 If you’re a caregiver—or love someone who is—you are not alone in this. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]