What Are Invisible Disabilities and How Can Faith Communities Help? A Conversation with Wayne Connell
What does it mean to believe someone when their pain, illness, or disability is not visible? In this episode of Together 4 Good, Pastor Nate talks with Wayne Connell, founder of the Invisible Disabilities Association, about chronic illness, compassion, suffering, isolation, and the kind of community people need when life becomes hard in ways others cannot see.
This conversation is about more than disability awareness. It is about learning how to listen, believe, support, and show up for one another with the love of Christ.
What You’ll Learn:
* What invisible disabilities are and why they are often misunderstood
* Why phrases like “but you look good” can unintentionally dismiss someone’s pain
* How churches and faith communities can better support people with chronic illness
* Why compassion means suffering with people, not fixing them
* How presence, listening, and belief can become meaningful care
Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and introduction to Wayne Connell 00:50 Wayne’s background in technology, broadcasting, and RadioShack 02:30 How Wayne met his wife, Sherri 05:00 Sherri’s diagnosis with MS and Lyme disease 09:45 The phrase “invisible disabilities” is born 12:00 Launching the Invisible Disabilities Advocate website 15:00 The book But You Look Good 17:00 Encourage, educate, and connect 20:00 Disability, chronic illness, and language 22:00 Faith, value, and being made in the image of God 24:00 Churches, suffering, and accessibility 28:30 Romans 5 and why we cannot skip suffering 34:00 Sitting with people in the ashes 36:00 Compassion means suffering with 39:00 Isolation, presence, and showing up 41:00 Why “How are you doing?” matters more than “How are you feeling?” 45:00 Listening, believing, and supporting people 47:00 Invisible disability as a mission field 49:00 Wayne’s calling and the work ahead
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Connect with Bethany: 📍 Bethany Lutheran Church – Denver, CO 🌐 Learn more: www.bethany-denver.org [http://www.bethany-denver.org]
Connect with Wayne: https://invisibledisabilities.org/