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Fight Night | Pastor Chris Kouba

Every relationship fights. The question is not *if* you’ll have conflict. The question is whether your conflict pushes you closer together…or farther apart. In this message from Song of Solomon 5–6, Pastor Chris Kouba walks through one of the most relatable moments in the entire book: a fight between two people who deeply love each other. Through their conflict, Scripture gives practical wisdom for communication, expectations, forgiveness, reconciliation, and fighting for your relationship instead of against each other. This message covers: * Why conflict in marriage and relationships is normal * How unmet expectations create tension * The difference between responding and reacting * Letting God work in the middle of conflict * Why forgiveness matters * How healthy couples repair quickly * Fighting *with* your spouse against the real enemy Whether you’re dating, engaged, married, healing from relational hurt, or praying for future relationships, this message is a reminder that conflict does not have to destroy intimacy. God can use it to deepen it. 📖 Scripture References: Song of Solomon 5:2–6:13 Ephesians 6:12 James 1:19–20 Ephesians 4:26–32 James 1:2–4 If this message encouraged you, share it with someone and subscribe for more messages from United City Church. #FightNight #ChristianMarriage #Relationships #SongOfSolomon #PastorChrisKouba #MarriageAdvice #ChristianDating #ConflictResolution #UnitedCityChurch #BiblicalMarriage Thanks for listening! NEXT STEPS Have you made a  decision to follow Jesus?  We'd love to guide you in that next step in your walk with Christ:  https://unitedcity.church/next-steps/ [https://unitedcity.church/next-steps/] NEED PRAYER? Do you need prayer?  We'd love to pray for you and with you: https://unitedcity.church/prayer/ [https://unitedcity.church/prayer/] PLAN A VISIT No matter your stage of life, we have a place for you.  We invite you to experience UC with us this Sunday: https://unitedcity.church/about-united-city [https://unitedcity.church/about-united-city/#] With United City Online, you can join us every Sunday live at 9:30a and 11:00a.  Join us at https://unitedcity.online.church/ [https://unitedcity.online.church/] To subscribe to our weekly Digital Guide, text GUIDE to 55498. Subscribe to our channel to see more messages from United City Church: https://www.youtube.com/unitedcitychurch [https://www.youtube.com/unitedcitychurch] To give to and through United City, visit: https://unitedcity.church/give/ [https://unitedcity.church/give/] Follow us: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/untdcitychurch/ [https://www.instagram.com/untdcitychurch/] - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/untdcitychurch/ [https://www.facebook.com/untdcitychurch/] ...

God is Pro-Sex | Pastor Chris Kouba

What does God actually say about sex? In a world where culture is loud, confusing, and constantly redefining intimacy, the Bible gives a radically different picture—one that is honest, beautiful, protective, and life-giving.  In this message from Song of Solomon 4–5, Pastor Chris Kouba walks through one of the most talked-about passages in Scripture and shows that God is not anti-sex… He’s the One who created it. This message explores: God’s design for sex and marriage Why intimacy is deeper than just physical attraction The dangers of pornography and comparison How emotional, spiritual, and physical connection work together Why covenant matters How God redeems sexual brokenness, shame, and regret Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, married, healing from your past, or trying to understand God’s heart for relationships, this message is a reminder that God’s design is always better than the counterfeit. 📖 Scripture References: Song of Solomon 4:1–5:1 1 Corinthians 7 Romans 8:1 Luke 15 If this message encouraged you, share it with someone and subscribe for more content from United City Church. #SongOfSolomon #ChristianRelationships #Marriage #Dating #Purity #PastorChrisKouba #UnitedCityChurch #BiblicalMarriage #ChristianDating #SexAndMarriage Thanks for listening! NEXT STEPS Have you made a  decision to follow Jesus?  We'd love to guide you in that next step in your walk with Christ:  https://unitedcity.church/next-steps/ [https://unitedcity.church/next-steps/] NEED PRAYER? Do you need prayer?  We'd love to pray for you and with you: https://unitedcity.church/prayer/ [https://unitedcity.church/prayer/] PLAN A VISIT No matter your stage of life, we have a place for you.  We invite you to experience UC with us this Sunday: https://unitedcity.church/about-united-city [https://unitedcity.church/about-united-city/#] With United City Online, you can join us every Sunday live at 9:30a and 11:00a.  Join us at https://unitedcity.online.church/ [https://unitedcity.online.church/] To subscribe to our weekly Digital Guide, text GUIDE to 55498. Subscribe to our channel to see more messages from United City Church: https://www.youtube.com/unitedcitychurch [https://www.youtube.com/unitedcitychurch] To give to and through United City, visit: https://unitedcity.church/give/ [https://unitedcity.church/give/] Follow us: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/untdcitychurch/ [https://www.instagram.com/untdcitychurch/] - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/untdcitychurch/ [https://www.facebook.com/untdcitychurch/] ...

More Than You Know | Pastor Chris Kouba

What if the most important things you’re doing as a parent are the things nobody sees? In this special Mother’s Day message, Pastor Chris Kouba walks through Scripture to remind parents—especially moms—that their influence reaches far deeper than they realize. From marriage, to faith, to the ordinary moments around the dinner table, this message reveals how God uses everyday faithfulness to shape generations. Through passages in Genesis 2, Psalm 127, Ephesians 5, Deuteronomy 6, and Song of Solomon 8, Pastor Chris shares two foundational truths: * The greatest gift you can give your kids is a great marriage * The flame of faith gets passed at the table, not just at church This message also includes a powerful multi-generational conversation with Ronda Kouba, Hillary Kouba, and Kenzie Kouba about family, faith, parenting, marriage, and the legacy of authentic faith lived out at home. In this message, you’ll discover: * Why healthy marriages create healthy homes * How faith is formed in ordinary everyday moments * Why authenticity matters more than perfection in parenting * How moms shape generations in ways they may never fully see * Practical encouragement for married parents, single parents, and families in every season Whether you’re raising kids, hoping to one day, or simply reflecting on the people who shaped your life, this message is a powerful reminder that what’s done faithfully in the home matters more than you know. Key Scriptures: Song of Solomon 8:8-9 Genesis 2 Psalm 127 Ephesians 5 Deuteronomy 6 If this message encouraged you, share it with a mom, parent, or family member who needs encouragement today. #MothersDay #Parenting #FaithAndFamily #Marriage #ChristianParenting #UnitedCityChurch Thanks for listening! NEXT STEPS Have you made a  decision to follow Jesus?  We'd love to guide you in that next step in your walk with Christ:  https://unitedcity.church/next-steps/ [https://unitedcity.church/next-steps/] NEED PRAYER? Do you need prayer?  We'd love to pray for you and with you: https://unitedcity.church/prayer/ [https://unitedcity.church/prayer/] PLAN A VISIT No matter your stage of life, we have a place for you.  We invite you to experience UC with us this Sunday: https://unitedcity.church/about-united-city [https://unitedcity.church/about-united-city/#] With United City Online, you can join us every Sunday live at 9:30a and 11:00a.  Join us at https://unitedcity.online.church/ [https://unitedcity.online.church/] To subscribe to our weekly Digital Guide, text GUIDE to 55498. Subscribe to our channel to see more messages from United City Church: https://www.youtube.com/unitedcitychurch [https://www.youtube.com/unitedcitychurch] To give to and through United City, visit: https://unitedcity.church/give/ [https://unitedcity.church/give/] Follow us: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/untdcitychurch/ [https://www.instagram.com/untdcitychurch/] - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/untdcitychurch/ [https://www.facebook.com/untdcitychurch/] ...

I Do... Now What | Pastor Chris Kouba

What happens after “I do”? In this message, Pastor Chris Kouba walks through *Song of Solomon 3:6–5:1* to show that the wedding isn’t the finish line—it’s the starting block. While culture often treats marriage as a milestone to reach, Scripture reveals it as a covenant to live out. From the wedding procession to the deeper meaning behind vows, this message unpacks what God says marriage is—and what it’s not. n this message, you’ll learn: * Why marriage is more than a contract—it’s a covenant before God * The importance of building a strong support system around your marriage * How the small, intentional details shape a lasting relationship * Why pursuit, protection, and enjoyment don’t stop after the wedding day Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this message will challenge you to rethink how you approach relationships and prepare for (or strengthen) a God-honoring marriage. Key Scripture: Song of Solomon 3:6–5:1 If this message encouraged you, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs it. #Marriage #Relationships #SongOfSolomon #Faith #UnitedCityChurch Thanks for listening! NEXT STEPS Have you made a  decision to follow Jesus?  We'd love to guide you in that next step in your walk with Christ:  https://unitedcity.church/next-steps/ [https://unitedcity.church/next-steps/] NEED PRAYER? Do you need prayer?  We'd love to pray for you and with you: https://unitedcity.church/prayer/ [https://unitedcity.church/prayer/] PLAN A VISIT No matter your stage of life, we have a place for you.  We invite you to experience UC with us this Sunday: https://unitedcity.church/about-united-city [https://unitedcity.church/about-united-city/#] With United City Online, you can join us every Sunday live at 9:30a and 11:00a.  Join us at https://unitedcity.online.church/ [https://unitedcity.online.church/] To subscribe to our weekly Digital Guide, text GUIDE to 55498. Subscribe to our channel to see more messages from United City Church: https://www.youtube.com/unitedcitychurch [https://www.youtube.com/unitedcitychurch] To give to and through United City, visit: https://unitedcity.church/give/ [https://unitedcity.church/give/] Follow us: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/untdcitychurch/ [https://www.instagram.com/untdcitychurch/] - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/untdcitychurch/ [https://www.facebook.com/untdcitychurch/] ...

Stop In The Name of Love | Pastor Josh Thomas

Real relationships don’t grow by accident—they grow with intention. In this message, Pastor Josh Thomas walks through Song of Solomon 2–3 to show us what it actually takes to build something real in a world full of “fake plant” relationships. From the outside, everything can look perfect—but without real care, there’s no life, no depth, and no lasting fruit. Bottom line: What’s real will always yield a return—but it’s going to take real work. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this message will challenge you to stop settling for surface-level connections and start cultivating something that actually grows. Three keys to building a healthy relationship: Pursue with Purpose – Stop drifting and start dating with clarity and intention Find the Foxes – Address the small issues before they become big problems Don’t Rush the Romance – Protect what God is building by honoring His timing We all face the same tension: when something good starts growing, we either rush it or run from it. But God’s design invites us to slow down, stay intentional, and trust the process. This message also speaks directly to: Couples who feel stuck or disconnected Singles navigating dating with anxiety or uncertainty Anyone longing for something deeper, healthier, and real Key takeaway: You don’t just find a great relationship—you build one. And ultimately, every relationship points back to the greatest love story of all—the one where Jesus pursued us, restored us, and made a way for us to experience true, lasting love. 👍 Like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs clarity in their relationships 💬 Comment below: Which step do you need to work on most? #Relationships #Dating #ChristianDating #SongOfSolomon #Love #Faith #Sermon Thanks for listening! NEXT STEPS Have you made a  decision to follow Jesus?  We'd love to guide you in that next step in your walk with Christ:  https://unitedcity.church/next-steps/ [https://unitedcity.church/next-steps/] NEED PRAYER? Do you need prayer?  We'd love to pray for you and with you: https://unitedcity.church/prayer/ [https://unitedcity.church/prayer/] PLAN A VISIT No matter your stage of life, we have a place for you.  We invite you to experience UC with us this Sunday: https://unitedcity.church/about-united-city [https://unitedcity.church/about-united-city/#] With United City Online, you can join us every Sunday live at 9:30a and 11:00a.  Join us at https://unitedcity.online.church/ [https://unitedcity.online.church/] To subscribe to our weekly Digital Guide, text GUIDE to 55498. Subscribe to our channel to see more messages from United City Church: https://www.youtube.com/unitedcitychurch [https://www.youtube.com/unitedcitychurch] To give to and through United City, visit: https://unitedcity.church/give/ [https://unitedcity.church/give/] Follow us: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/untdcitychurch/ [https://www.instagram.com/untdcitychurch/] - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/untdcitychurch/ [https://www.facebook.com/untdcitychurch/] ...