Wait, What?! with Carissa & Nicole

Reinvention After 40: Navigating Divorce, Career Change, and Finding Yourself Again

In this episode of 'Wait, What?', we discuss the challenges and triumphs faced by women in their forties or late thirties who are going through divorces or career changes. The conversation covers the impact of staying in unhealthy marriages for the sake of children, the importance of women finding their identity post-divorce, and the trend of women choosing independence over marriage. With personal anecdotes about the joys of creating a personal space, solo travel, and the emotional journey of becoming self-sufficient, this episode offers support and inspiration for women reinventing themselves. Highlights include a discussion on the benefits of being single, the stigma around singlehood, and the emotional resilience built through life changes. Join the hosts as they share stories and insights on finding joy and confidence in life after major transitions. 00:00 Introduction: Reinventing Women in Their 40s 01:04 The Impact of Staying in Unhealthy Marriages 02:47 The Loneliness Epidemic Among Men 03:48 Women Choosing Independence 05:35 Finding Confidence and Independence 06:07 Creating a Personal Space 13:52 Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges 26:22 The Joy of Single Life and Travel 28:48 Reflecting on Life Changes 29:18 Travel and Family Connections 30:10 Dream Destinations and Travel Stories 34:50 Living Alone and Finding Freedom 35:37 Navigating Divorce and Moving Forward 41:41 Supporting Each Other Through Tough Times 45:48 Embracing New Beginnings 51:15 Upcoming Events and Final Thoughts

The Aftermath: Life 10 Years Post Ashley Madison Leak

In this juicy episode of 'Wait. What? Carissa and Nicole share a poignant and informative story about the lasting impacts of the Ashley Madison data leak on a close friend. The narrative uncovers the psychological and emotional struggles faced by victims of infidelity and betrayal, and how these events have reshaped their lives over the past decade. Carissa's friend, who married later in life, faced severe personal and emotional turmoil after discovering her husband's infidelity through the Ashley Madison leak. The episode delves into the complex interplay of trust, narcissism, and the long-term effects of emotional abuse, highlighting how victims cope and attempt to rebuild their lives. Viewers are invited to share their experiences and thoughts, making this episode a call to support and understanding for those affected. 00:00 Introduction and Overview 00:43 The Ashley Madison Scandal 01:43 Personal Impact and Reflections 02:34 A Friend's Story Begins 03:29 Reuniting with the Past 04:41 The Reality of Relationships 07:53 The Perfect Couple? 15:53 The Betrayal Unfolds 18:47 Confrontation and Fallout 29:51 The Unraveling Begins 31:48 The Mystery Email Address 35:34 The Baby's Arrival and False Hope 38:35 The Cycle of Abuse Continues 40:15 Financial Control and Isolation 44:01 The Struggle for Independence 52:09 Seeking Help and Support 57:42 Hope for a New Beginning

North Carolina via California & New Orleans: Exploring our New Normal

In this inaugural podcast episode, Nicole and Issa introduce their exciting new show with a fresh logo and plans to tour nearby towns. The conversation kicks off with Nicole sharing her journey from California to North Carolina, highlighting culture shocks and her experiences as a kindergarten teacher. They delve into personal stories, including Nicole's upbringing in San Francisco, tough divorce, and opening a high-end consignment store, Judo. The friends discuss their unique backgrounds, parenting challenges, and travels, including Nicole's transformative trip to Bali. They also touch on their shared moments and the importance of genuine relationships. Tune in for heartfelt anecdotes and a sneak peek into their vibrant lives. 00:00 Welcome to Our First Podcast! 00:23 Accents and Regional Dialects 02:08 Life in San Francisco vs. New Orleans 03:33 From Teaching to Fashion 05:02 Nicole's High-End Consignment Store 12:32 The Challenges of Dating Tall 16:40 Music Festivals and Personal Stories 19:24 Health Struggles and Resilience 24:17 Family Background and Reflections 25:54 Empty Nesters: Adjusting to Life Without Kids 27:50 Raising Respectful Children 28:40 The Challenges of Single Parenting 32:08 Dating Woes and Funny Stories 34:51 Healing and Self-Discovery in Bali 44:52 Friendship and Support Systems 50:18 Concluding Thoughts and Teasers