You Control You

Why Men Can't Be Honest About Their Feelings

Most people don’t want the truth… they want comfort. That’s what this conversation exposes. This discussion touches on personal development and self improvement, highlighting how many choose comfort over honesty. It's a deep dive into the motivation behind our choices, especially within modern relationships. Ultimately, it’s about facing the truth for genuine growth.Linktree - https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou

From Nothing to Legacy | Gregory Doby Jr.

In this conversation, we explore the journey of self improvement and self development, discussing various success habits that can lead to personal growth. This podcast-style discussion is designed to offer insights and actionable steps for anyone looking to refine their approach to life. Join us as we dive deep into strategies for building a stronger self. https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou

Morgan Freeman vs. Black History Month: The Debate Nobody Wants to Have

In this powerful discussion, we dive into the complexities of Black History Month, questioning its role and impact on American history.We explore whether Black history should stand on its own—or be fully integrated into American history year-round—and how different perspectives, including voices like Morgan Freeman, challenge the way we think about race, identity, and education.This conversation breaks down how history is taught, what may be left out, and why these discussions still matter today.The goal isn’t to divide—it’s to understand the full story.Linktree - https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou

After She Cheats, Most Men Make This Mistake

Infidelity changes everything.In this episode of You Control You, I talk about something most men never say out loud — what it feels like after the woman you love cheats on you.A lot of people assume the answer is simple: just leave. But the truth is more complicated than that. Many men stay. Not because they are weak, but because life, family, children, pride, love, and years of shared history make the decision far more complex.Men are often taught to endure pain quietly. To keep moving forward. To hold everything together for the family. But what happens when betrayal enters the relationship?In this conversation we break down:Why men sometimes stay after infidelityThe emotional pain men rarely talk aboutHow trust can be rebuilt (or why sometimes it can't)The pressure men feel to hold everything togetherThe role of communication and forgiveness in healingThis episode isn't about blaming anyone. It's about understanding the reality of relationships, pain, and growth.Because at the end of the day, healing still comes down to one thing:You control you.Linktree - https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou

Your Ego Is Destroying Your Co-Parenting

In this episode of You Control You, I sit down with two women who have played a major role in my life and in the lives of our children. My daughter’s mother Amber and my ex wife Cherrelle join me for a real conversation about co parenting, family, and learning to put the kids first even when life gets complicated.This is not a perfect story. It is a real one.We talk about the early years when things were difficult, the ego battles that can destroy relationships, and the lessons we learned about communication, respect, and emotional growth. Co parenting is not easy, especially when people are trying to rebuild their lives separately while still raising children together. But over time we learned something powerful. When you remove ego and focus on what truly matters, you can create a healthy environment for the kids.In this episode we discuss• The challenges of blended families• Why communication is everything in co parenting• How ego can destroy relationships between parents• Learning to validate each other’s feelings• Why kids should never carry the weight of adult conflict• The importance of patience, understanding, and growthOur journey was not smooth, but it taught us that family can evolve into something stronger when people choose maturity over pride.If you are navigating co parenting, dealing with blended family dynamics, or trying to create a better environment for your children, this conversation may give you a new perspective.Because at the end of the day, no matter what happens between adults, the kids come first.Subscribe to the channel for more conversations about life, leadership, family, and personal growth.Linktree - https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbkNQcXh1Um93Szd0WDNVLXhmYVZLY3ZyUlpBUXxBQ3Jtc0tuMm0xTUVLTi1HYU02U0RGdTJ5eDBOVF9PMFZXb3o3aUZUbzRzWDNlMUw5VFZzamlyQm5qTTlfdG91cXVoOTNMNmZNbXVjeHd4OEQ4aFRiU3dGRktSOHUzMUR6S29ZMU5Ta2FNQzV2Vk81c0k4WTdUOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Flinktr.ee%2FYouControlYou&v=6iHoCeX0yDk]