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21. Pastoring Without Your Permission: Rev. Charlotte On Faith In The Deep South

Linds sits down with Reverend Charlotte - a minister, mother, and self-described holy troublemaker - to talk about what it looks like to pastor in hostile territory. From her upbringing in the South to 12-years of ministry in North Georgia, Charlotte unpacks the tension of leading with compassion in a culture that still questions a woman’s right to wear the collar. Together, they explore the real work of faith: showing up for the vulnerable, loving loudly in public, and finding courage when the church - and the South - make it costly. It’s part theology, part therapy, and fully a masterclass in faithful rebellion. Timestamps:  1. Intro 00:00-1:34 2. Shepherding Outside The Lines 1:34-10:58 3. Relationship Status: It’s Complicated 10:58-16:25 4. Holy Women 16:25-24:36 5. Speaking In Love & Power 24:36-32:02 6. From Georgia To Tennessee 32:02-37:33 7. A Forewarning 37:33-40:02 8. Outro 40:02-41:27

20. Who Is Your Neighbor? The Gospel According to Palestine

Two years after the events of October 7, 2023, Linds and D return to ask one of the hardest - and most necessary - questions: Who is your neighbor when the world tells you to look away?  ⚠️ Content Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual violence. Listener discretion is advised. This episode of You Don’t Know takes listeners into a vulnerable reckoning with faith, empire, and the people our theology forgot. Through honest conversation, they unpack how evangelical end-times teachings shaped American apathy toward Gaza and what it really means to love your neighbor when doing so disrupts your comfort, your politics, and maybe even your church. Rooted in empathy and holy curiosity, The Gospel According to Palestine invites you to question inherited narratives, rethink what “faithfulness” looks like, and move from silence to solidarity. Timestamps: I. Intro 00:00-02:11 II. How We Got Here 02:11-15:03 III. Well, The Bible Says... 15:03-25:46 IV. Setting The Stage (A Brief History) 25:46-49:33 V. October 7, 2023 49:33-1:23:22 VI. What Can Little Ol' Me Do? ... Something. 1:23:22-1:57:57 VII. Swim Upstream 1:57:57-2:08:02 VIII. Fare Thee Well 2:08:02-2:09:22

19. Taught Not To See - Invisible Advantages & The Friction You Didn't Feel

Privilege: the word that makes people clench - but we help you to unclench with belly laughs, real talk, and our resident data wizard, Steph. In this cozy throwback couch-chat, Linds and D flex their “empathy muscles,” rethink privilege as the obstacles you didn’t have to face, and kick around practical ways to use what you’ve got to open doors (not guard them). It’s unstructured, a little spicy, delightfully imperfect (yes, there are sirens and mic bumps), and packed with stories, aha’s, and the kind of questions that nudge you from “yikes” to “okay, I *can* do something.” Come curious... leave with kinder lenses and a tiny plan to try this week. Timestamps: I. Hi Again! (00:00-02:54) II. What is Privilege? (2:54-11:30) III. Examples of Privilege & Unconscious Bias (11:31- 23:52) IV. Showing Empathy In Silence & In Language (23:53-35:32) V. The Proof Is In The Proximity (35:33-40:04) VII. Clarity Is Kindness (40:05-50:49) VIII. Big Picture Regroup (50:50-52:29) IX. Y’all Come Back Now, Ya Hear?! (52:30-53:35) Links: You're Wrong About (Podcast) ... "Political Correctness": https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/political-correctness/id1380008439?i=1000517758102 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/political-correctness/id1380008439?i=1000517758102] The Chicks vs. The Iraq War: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-chicks-vs-the-iraq-war/id1380008439?i=1000519840611 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-chicks-vs-the-iraq-war/id1380008439?i=1000519840611] Cancel Culture: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cancel-culture/id1380008439?i=1000524480233 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cancel-culture/id1380008439?i=1000524480233] Searching For God Knows What, Donald Miller https://a.co/d/5v1gTOy [https://a.co/d/5v1gTOy]

18. Just Two Heretics - Deconstructed and Thriving

Lindsey sits down with mentor and friend Angela to explore how faith, identity, and healing evolve through the process of deconstructing from religious systems. I. Intro (00:00-3:28) II. Meet Ang (3:29-9:45) III. Groundings (9:46-1:00:55) 12:20 To what End 13:24 Cosmic & Common Wholeness (Grounding 1) 27:19 Connection Over Division (Grounding 2) 37:31 To Be Known By Love (Grounding 3) 44:50 Jesus’ Standards -or- The Church’s Standards (Grounding 4) 53:25 Faith In Many Ways (Grounding 5) IV. What About Those Struggling? (1:00:56-1:08:52) V. Outro (1:08:53-1:09:39) Visit WayfindCo.com [https://wayfindco.com/] for more info! Show Produced + Edited + Narrated by Deanna West and Lindsey Migliori Graphics by Rebekah Williamson Website Design & Maintenance by Heidi Zimmerman & Rebekah Williamson with Bliss & Tell Creative [https://blissandtellcreative.com/] Mentioned Resources: Her Rites by Christy Bauman - Purchase on Amazon [https://amzn.to/4muM4fn] Everywhere You Look by Tim Soerens - Purchase on Amazon [https://amzn.to/3JxKSth]

17. Just Two Heretics - Red Flags, Red States, And Rethinking It All

Linds chats with Rebekah to discuss her creative outlet (and its public response!) to the 2024 Election results.  I.  Intro (00:00-2:21) II.  Part 1 (2:22-17:54) III.  Music Break (17:55-18:13) IV.  Part 2 (18:14-20:34) V.  Music Break (36:59-37:08) VI. Part 3 (37:09-1:00:44) VII. Outro (1:00:45-1:01:57) Theme Music: “Special (Instrumental)” by Smile High featuring Antwaun Stanley Transitional Music: "Hanging Lanterns" by Kalaido For more information visit WayfindCo.com [https://wayfindco.com/] Show Produced + Edited + Narrated by Deanna West and Lindsey Migliori Show Graphics by Rebekah Williamson Website Design & Maintenance by Heidi Zimmerman & Rebekah Williamson with Bliss & Tell Creative [https://blissandtellcreative.com/]