Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples

Reclaiming Erotic Confidence: Finding Your Fire Again After 40 🔥

There’s a cultural myth that desire fades with age… but the truth is far more powerful than that. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore what really happens to erotic energy after 40… and why this stage of life can become your most sensual, confident, and pleasure-filled chapter yet. We share vulnerable stories, body-based wisdom, and the exact practices that help women and men release shame, reconnect to their bodies, and rebuild erotic confidence that feels grounded, empowered, and deeply alive. This episode is for anyone who wants their pleasure back… and is ready for a more soulful, embodied sexual connection.   WHAT YOU’LL HEAR IN THIS EPISODE * Why desire doesn’t fade with age… it deepens when shame and conditioning begin to fall away * How early sexual messaging shapes your adult sexual confidence and why reclaiming it requires truth, safety, and nervous system repair * For women: How slowing down, softening, embodiment, and inner permission awaken your erotic fire * For men: How performance pressure, shame, and fear of failure block pleasure… and how presence reconnects them to their masculine erotic energy * Why erotic energy after 40 is more powerful, intuitive, and grounded than anything you experienced in your twenties * How to rebuild erotic confidence inside long-term relationships through truth, touch, safety, and conscious intimacy practices   ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here: 👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats] 💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here  https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call [https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call] 🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra ABOUT US:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.   What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.   They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.     Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin [https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin] Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ [https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/]    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats [https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats] Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com]

Healing Old Hurts: Turning Conflict into Deeper Connection

Every couple argues…, but very few couples know how to turn conflict into closeness. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore why old hurts resurface, why the same arguments repeat, and how conscious repair brings your relationship into deeper emotional and erotic intimacy. They share vulnerable stories, body-based wisdom, and the exact practices that help couples rebuild trust, stay grounded, and reconnect even when the nervous system wants to shut down or push away. This conversation will support anyone ready to stop avoiding conflict and start healing what’s underneath it.   WHAT YOU’LL HEAR IN THIS EPISODE * Why do old hurts linger until they’re witnessed, and why does your body repeat the same patterns in relationships * What actually happens in your nervous system during conflict, and why small triggers create big reactions * How avoidance builds resentment… and why repair, not time, is what truly softens wounds * For women: Why being heard, not fixed, restores safety and opens the body to deeper intimacy * For men: How fear of failure, rejection, and shutdown shapes the way they respond in conflict * How softening, grounding, and truth turn conflict into connection * What are simple, daily practices that help couples repair faster and reconnect more deeply than ever   Conflict isn’t a sign something’s wrong… It’s a sign that something deeper is ready to be healed, witnessed, and transformed into love.   ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here: 👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats] 💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here   https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call [https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call] 🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra   ABOUT US:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.   What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.   They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.     Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin [https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin] Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ [https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/]    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats [https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats] Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com]

Intimacy Beyond the Bedroom: Touch, Talk, and Truth

Most couples think intimacy happens in the bedroom… but the truth is, it starts in the tiny, everyday moments where you show up, soften, and let yourself be seen. In this episode of the Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as: "Get Your Sexy Back for Couples Podcast"), we explore how touch, truth, presence, and nervous-system attunement create the kind of intimacy that makes sex feel deeper, safer, and more satisfying. They share the real stories, patterns, and practices that help couples rebuild closeness even when things feel distant, awkward, or shut down. And how devotion (not performance) is what keeps desire alive.   What You’ll Hear in This Episode: * Why intimacy begins long before sex * How simple acts of presence create more erot!c charge than you think * What is the power of touch as communication, and why can a single hand on the hip shift everything * How to express needs without activating defensiveness (and why invitations work better than criticism) * What happens to men when intimacy fades * Why pleasure evolves with age,  and how deeper intimacy, slowness, and presence unlock more satisfying sex than you ever had in your twenties.   Intimacy isn’t something you “fix” in the bedroom. It’s something you build in every moment you choose truth, touch, presence, and devotion. That’s where erot!c connection comes alive… and where your relationship begins to rise.   Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration. Here’s what you can expect at our retreats: * A safe, intimate container where every couple chooses growth * Practices that help you witness and be witnessed without judgment * Opportunities to see yourself through the lens of others’ experiences * Time to integrate and connect privately with your partner   This kind of reflection is priceless. It’s not about being like anyone else… It’s about finally seeing yourself clearly and choosing the way forward with your partner.   How many times have you pulled away instead of leaning in? How long do you want that pattern to run your relationship?   We’re keeping this retreat small - just 5 couples - so you get the intimacy and support you deserve. Rooms (GeoDomes or cottages) are chosen first-come, first-served.   👉 Say yes to seeing yourself more clearly… reserve your retreat spot here https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats] 👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall?utm_source=chatgpt.com] 👉 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra   ABOUT US:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.   What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.   They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.     Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin [https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin] Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ [https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/]    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats [https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats] Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com]

From Passion to Partnership: Why Long-Term Love Needs Both

Long-term relationships aren’t meant to choose between passion and partnership. They’re meant to hold both.   In this episode of Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore how stability and spark work together to create a relationship that feels safe, alive, playful, and deeply connected. They share personal stories and practical wisdom from their own journey and the couples they support inside Phoenix Rising Retreats.   WHAT YOU’LL HEAR IN THIS EPISODE: * Why long-term love often drifts into “roommate mode” * How stability without passion quietly erodes intimacy * How erotic polarity reignites desire   * Why passion fades (it’s not age or compatibility) and how to rebuild it through play, presence, and nervous-system safety * For women: How pleasure, radiance, and aliveness return when you stop over-functioning and start feeling again * For men: Why presence and not performance is the most powerful sexual energy you can bring to your relationship. * What are the simple, daily practices to restore both passion and partnership even in the busiest seasons of life   Passion doesn’t die with time... it dies when we stop feeding the fire. Partnership doesn’t have to feel boring...it becomes magnetic when both partners choose to stay awake in love.   Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration. Here’s what you can expect at our retreats: * A safe, intimate container where every couple chooses growth * Practices that help you witness and be witnessed without judgment * Opportunities to see yourself through the lens of others’ experiences * Time to integrate and connect privately with your partner   This kind of reflection is priceless. It’s not about being like anyone else… It’s about finally seeing yourself clearly and choosing the way forward with your partner.   How many times have you pulled away instead of leaning in? How long do you want that pattern to run your relationship?   We’re keeping this retreat small - just 5 couples - so you get the intimacy and support you deserve. Rooms (GeoDomes or cottages) are chosen first-come, first-served.   👉 Say yes to seeing yourself more clearly… reserve your retreat spot here https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats] 👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall?utm_source=chatgpt.com] 👉 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra   ABOUT US:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.   What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.   They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.     Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin [https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin] Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ [https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/]    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats [https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats] Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com]

Breaking the Silence - The Conversations You’re Afraid to Have

Silence feels safe… until it starts to disconnect you.   In this episode of the Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formally known as: Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples) , we dive into the truth about the conversations most couples avoid and how those silences slowly create distance, resentment, and disconnection in love, sex, and everyday intimacy.   They share personal stories and practical tools to help you find your voice again  and learn how to bring truth, presence, and safety back into your relationship.   WHAT YOU’LL HEAR IN THIS EPISODE: * Why silence feels safer than truth and how it slowly kills intimacy in long-term relationships * How cultural conditioning teaches us to avoid conflict and why that conditioning keeps us from real connection * What are the three foundations of conscious communication and how to rebuild them together * For women: how reclaiming your voice through body-led truth opens a deeper level of intimacy and desire * For men: why presence and not fixing is the most powerful way to create safety and connection * How to start the hard conversations without blowing things up and how vulnerability becomes the path to reconnection   The truth doesn’t destroy love — it deepens it. When you speak what’s real, connection returns.   Our Group Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration. Here’s what you can expect in our retreats: * A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again * Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion * Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group * Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions * The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it. Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship. Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).   👉 Say YES to more...reserve your retreat spot here https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats] 👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this or a private retreat is the right fit https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall] 👉 Sign - up to our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to infuse Tantra into your Relationship here https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra] ABOUT US:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.   What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.   They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.     Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin [https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin] Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ [https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/]    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats [https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats] Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com [https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com]