Mother Dearest Show

I'll Give You Something to Cry About

View Episode 15: I'll Give You Something to Cry About [https://motherdearest.show/15] Jacob gives a bit of update about his Ph.D. and where he is at in the process. They use the OSHO Zen Tarot deck to pull the 4 of Fire, Participation card. They talk about learning to be in the moment, Judy’s sister’s polio and her other sister that died of a brain tumor and the impact of that on their family. TIME STAMPS 00:00 Introduction and Jacob’s Ph.D. dissertation proposal process and progress 07:12 Pulling the 4 of Fire - Participation from the OSHO Zen Tarot 17:26 Some of the challenges and trauma’s faced growing up 37:24 Judy’s realization about wanting to be a social worker LINKS * CIIS Human Research Review Committee [https://register.ciis.edu/ICS/icsfs/HRRC_HANDBOOK_9.1.21.pdf?target=89382b13-c33b-421e-a17c-b55ee236f846] application process * Nurturing Our Humanity: How Domination and Partnership Shape Our Brains, Lives, and Future [https://centerforpartnership.org/nurturing-our-humanity-how-domination-and-partnership-shape-our-brains-lives-and-future/] by Riane Eisler and Douglas P. Fry on Amazon Books [https://www.amazon.com/Nurturing-Our-Humanity-Domination-Partnership/dp/0190935723] * Osho Zen Tarot: The Transcendental Game Of Zen (79-Card Deck and 192-Page Book) [https://www.amazon.com/Osho-Zen-Tarot-Transcendental-192-Page/dp/0312117337/] * How to Love Yourself Cards: A Deck of 64 Affirmations: Hay, Louise: 9781401954444: Amazon.com: Books [https://www.amazon.com/How-Love-Yourself-Cards-Affirmations/dp/1401954448] * An article with a good overview for restorative justice practices in the classroom - Clifford, A. (2013). Teaching restorative practices with classroom circles. 64 pages. http://restorativejustice.org/am-site/media/teaching-restorative-practices-with-classroom-circles.pdf [http://restorativejustice.org/am-site/media/teaching-restorative-practices-with-classroom-circles.pdf] * Polio - Wikipedia [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polio] * Brain tumor - Wikipedia [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brain_tumor] Photo of the OSHO Zen Tarot Card 4 of Fire: Participation. It is sitting in a framed image with the words - Follow Your Heart [/assets/media/2021-12-29-4-fire-participation-osho-zen-IMG_1109.jpeg]The OSHO Zen Tarot Card 4 of Fire: Participation.

The Temperature Bacteria Grows In

View Episode 14: The Temperature Bacteria Grows In [https://motherdearest.show/14] Jacob and Judy use Rider Waite/Pathfinder Tarot Deck to pull the XI Justice and the Kind of Pentacles. They talk about the process of the new moon, and it is a time for planting seeds and thinking, and how Judy is working on slowing down. They speak of ecology and climate change, building relationships, building rapport with kids, and thinking about healthy eating. TIME STAMPS 00:00 Introduction and how long it has been since we last recorded 02:26 New moon tomorrow. slowing self down 07:24 Drawing the XI Justice and the King of Pentacles and ecology 14:28 Some Family Updates 20:44 Judy’s Plan to Connect Individually with Grand Kids 27:46 Healthy eating and foods LINKS * Rider Waite Tarot [https://www.amazon.com/Pocket-Rider-Waite-Arthur-Edward/dp/0880793465/ref=sr_1_13?keywords=Rider-Waite+Tarot&qid=1637971273&sr=8-13] * An example of an article talking about the idea of a New Moon - A time of renewal and planting seeds [https://www.smecrystals.com/post/1029275879015/new-moon-a-time-of-renewal-and-planting] * Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World - Cal Newport [https://www.calnewport.com/books/deep-work/] * List of some of my Academic Essays [https://jacobrcampbell.com/resources/essays/] * Libra (astrology) - Wikipedia [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libra_(astrology)] * Justice (Tarot card) - Wikipedia [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Justice_(Tarot_card)], King of Coins - Wikipedia [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/King_of_Coins] * Story by Anna King through Columbia River Toxic Algae: Experts Say Fix What’s Causing It - Northwest Public Broadcasting [https://www.nwpb.org/2021/09/30/columbia-river-toxic-algae-experts-say-fix-whats-causing-it/] * Climate change and dangerous waters - by Washington State Department of Health - Public Health Connection - Oct, 2021 - Medium [https://medium.com/wadepthealth/climate-change-and-dangerous-waters-9ba68a6d5839] * An article from a month and a half after we record this episode, but it is still going on. Volcanos in Spain: La Palma volcanic eruption is now the longest seen on the island in 375 years - Spain - EL PAÍS English Edition [https://english.elpais.com/spain/2021-11-25/la-palma-volcanic-eruption-is-now-the-longest-seen-on-the-island-in-375-years.html] * Wapato, Washington - Wikipedia [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wapato,_Washington] * My sister-in-law did end up passing away soon after recording this. I ended up creating a video for my family Recuredos en Vida de Patricia del Villar Martinez - YouTube [https://jacobrcampbell.com/blog/2021/10/recuredos-en-vida-de-patricia-del-villar-martinez-youtube/] * Bubble tea - Wikipedia [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bubble_tea], I often take the kids to the TeaHaus - Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/TeaHausco/] * What Is Delicata Squash? [https://www.thespruceeats.com/what-is-delicata-squash-5081666] A photo of Jacob and Judy in Mexico when they went with their family Friend they talk about. [/assets/media/2021-11-26-jacob-judy-mexico-trip-scan0002.jpg]A photo of Jacob and Judy in Mexico when they went with their family Friend they talk about. Jacob doesn’t have any digital versions of photos from that trip other than this one. Photo of the XI Justice and the King of Pentacles cards from the Rider Waite Tarot Deck in the grass [/assets/media/2021-11-26-xi-justice+king-of-pentacles-tarot-card-IMG_0686.jpeg]Photo of the XI Justice and the King of Pentacles cards from the Rider Waite Tarot Deck in the grass

Responsibility and Freedom

View Episode 13: Responsibility and Freedom [https://motherdearest.show/13] Spend some time talking about Jacob’s next steps in working on his Ph.D.. They use OSHO Zen Tarot Deck to pull the Page of Water: Understanding card. They talk about the five gates of grief and Judy’s upcoming retreat she is facilitating. They also talk about the Black Lives Matter movement and a book relating the treatment of Black Americans in the US and various caste systems around the world. TIME STAMPS 00:00 Introduction and Long Service Times 01:56 Jacob’s Dissertation Progress and Seattle Trip 09:16 Pulling the Page of Water card from the OSHO Zen Tarot deck: Understanding 14:28 Judy’s upcoming grief retreat 22:24 The “Caste” System in the US LINKS Sorry some connection / sound problems with this episode. Also, was originally recorded back in August so I’m still a little bit behind in posting these. * Frost Me Sweet [https://www.frostmesweetbakeryandbistro.com/] * Osho Zen Tarot: The Transcendental Game Of Zen (79-Card Deck and 192-Page Book) [https://www.amazon.com/Osho-Zen-Tarot-Transcendental-192-Page/dp/0312117337/] * The Wild Edge of Sorrow: The Sacred Work of Grief [https://www.francisweller.net/the-wild-edge-of-sorrow-the-sacred-work-of-grief.html] by Francis Weller’s Website and via Amazon Books [https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Edge-Sorrow-Rituals-Renewal/dp/1583949763] * Ashley Gregory provides a good Brief Introduction to the Five Gates of Grief — Holistic and Somatic Therapy [https://www.lifebydesigntherapy.com/blog/a-brief-introduction-to-the-five-gates-of-grief/10/2020] * Isabel Wilkerson [https://www.isabelwilkerson.com/] book Amazon.com: Caste (Oprah’s Book Club): The Origins of Our Discontents eBook : Wilkerson, Isabel: Kindle Store [https://www.amazon.com/Caste-Origins-Discontents-Isabel-Wilkerson-ebook/dp/B084FLWDQG/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=Caste%3A+The+Origins+of+Our+Discontents&qid=1636828253&sr=8-2] * You can read an article about it on NPR America’s ‘Caste’ System: Isabel Wilkerson Says It’s More Than Racism [https://www.npr.org/2020/08/04/898574852/its-more-than-racism-isabel-wilkerson-explains-america-s-caste-system] * Climate change: IPCC report is ‘code red for humanity [https://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-58130705] Photo of The Page of Water - Understanding from the OSHO Zen Tarot Deck [/assets/media/2021-11-13-page-water-understanding-osho-zen-tarot-IMG_0607.jpeg]The Page of Water - Understanding from the OSHO Zen Tarot Deck

What Happens When They Drive Your Dream Car Off a Cliff

View Episode 12: What Happens When They Drive Your Dream Car Off a Cliff [https://motherdearest.show/12] Jacob and Judy start off with some conversation about upcoming events and activities. They use the Wisdom of the Oracle Divination Cards to pull the 8: Community (Tribe) Card. They talk all about forgiveness. How do we help clients learn to forgive, how do we forgive ourselves, and helping our kids learn to forgive? TIME STAMPS 00:00 Events and Activities Coming Up 03:26 Pulling the Oracle Divination Cards 8: Community (Tribe) Card 08:06 The Dichotomy of Fear vs Love 12:54 Helping Clients Learn To Forgive 21:54 Accepting Our Own Humanness and Fallibilities 24:00 How Judy Raised Jacob LINKS I’m still going through old episode, this one was from the end of July. * Allied Art Association’s - Art in the Park [https://www.galleryatthepark.org/virtual-program-art-in-the-park-2022] * Pasco, WA (PSC) - Amtrak [https://www.amtrak.com/stations/psc] * McNary National Wildlife Refuge - U.S. Fish and Wildlife Services [https://www.fws.gov/refuge/mcNary/] * Wisdom of the Oracle Divination Cards: Ask and Know by Colette Baron-Reid [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1401946429/] * E-06 - The Right People at the Right Time [https://motherdearest.show/6] We pulled the same card. * Apple Podcasts to Leave us a Rating [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mother-dearest-show/id1555151341] * Marianne Williamson [https://marianne.com/] and her 365 Days of a Course in Miracles [https://marianne.com/365-days-of-a-course-in-miracles/] * An interesting article about Love Vs. Fear: A Scientific Look [https://www.dralexanderloyd.com/blog/love-vs-fear-a-scientific-look] by Dr. Alex. * i couldn’t find a specific article talking about a 15 step method. Psychology Today has an article 9 Steps to Forgiveness [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/heart-and-soul-healing/201301/9-steps-forgiveness] by Michel in 2013. There is a book review/summary by Sutton regarding Enright and Fitzgibbons (2000) book Helping clients forgive: An empirical guide for resolving anger and restoring hope. You can read the summary at The Enright Process Model of Psychological Forgiveness [https://couragerc.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/Enright_Process_Forgiveness_1.pdf] * Object permanence [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Object_permanence] * Cornish, A., & Doucleff, M. (2019, March 4). Storytelling instead of scolding: Inuit say it makes their children more cool-headed. National Public Radio. https://www.npr.org/2019/03/04/689925669/storytelling-instead-of-scolding-inuit-say-it-makes-their-children-more-cool-hea [https://www.npr.org/2019/03/04/689925669/storytelling-instead-of-scolding-inuit-say-it-makes-their-children-more-cool-hea] * Parables of Jesus [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parables_of_Jesus] on Wikipedia * The Tale of Two Wolves - Nanticoke Indian Association [https://www.nanticokeindians.org/page/tale-of-two-wolves] Photo of Wisdom of the Oracle Divination Tarot - 8 Community (Tribe) [/assets/media/2021-11-08-wisdom-of-the-oracle-divination-cards-8-community-IMG_0594.jpeg]Wisdom of the Oracle Divination Tarot - 8 Community (Tribe)

They Were On To Something with that Yoga Thing

View Episode 11: They Were On To Something with that Yoga Thing [https://motherdearest.show/11] Jacob and Judy use the OSHO Zen Tarot Deck to pull the Page of Fire - Playfulness. They talk about the values of playfulness and how hard it is sometimes for adults to have a real spirit of playfulness. They also talk about different seasons they like and having done martial arts in Jacob’s younger years. TIME STAMPS 00:00 Introduction and my mom is worried about how much sun I might get 04:58 Pulling the Page of Fire Card - Playfulness 15:36 What we enjoy about different seasons 21:00 Practicing martial arts LINKS I’m still a bit behind in posting. This one is from mid July. We spent about a month not posting / recording so I only have about three that I haven’t posted yet… * Osho Zen Tarot: The Transcendental Game Of Zen (79-Card Deck and 192-Page Book) [https://www.amazon.com/Osho-Zen-Tarot-Transcendental-192-Page/dp/0312117337/] * In the episode, I say Colin Wood and I meant to say Colin Wilson [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colin_Wilson] * Gary Lachman [https://garylachman.co.uk] was my teacher for The Lost Knowledge of the Imagination that I take at CIIS in the Transformative Studies Department [https://www.ciis.edu/academics/graduate-programs/transformative-studies] * The talk that I discuss is Beyond The Robot: Consciousness And Existentialism With Gary Lachman [https://paricenter.com/product/beyond-the-robot-consciousness-and-existentialism-with-gary-lachman/] * Therapy Solutions [https://therapy-solutions.us] * Tai chi chih [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tai_chi_chih] on Wikipedia * How to Protect Your Body From Injury in your Tai Chi Chih Practice [https://taichichih.org/wp-content/uploads/attachments/ProtectYourBodyFromInjury_2012Conf.pdf] a presentation that Sara posted. * Tri-Cities Martial Arts & Fitness [https://www.tkdtricities.com/] * Kata [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kata] * The style of martial arts we did when I was young was Isshin-ryū [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isshin-ryū] A photo of the OSHO Zen Tarot Deck's Page of Fire Card - Playfulness [/assets/media/2021-10-10-osho-zen-tarot-page-fire-playfulness-IMG_0152.jpeg]A photo of the OSHO Zen Tarot Deck’s Page of Fire Card - Playfulness A photo of Jacob's Dog, Chewie Sitting Lazy on the Couch [/assets/media/2021-10-10-chewie-on-couch-IMG_4880.jpeg]A photo of Jacob’s Dog, Chewie Sitting Lazy on the Couch A photo of Judy in her Karate Gi [/assets/media/2021-10-10-judy-karate-gi.jpg]A photo of Judy in her Karate Gi A photo of Jacob in his Karate Gi [/assets/media/2021-10-10-jacob-karate-gi.jpg]A photo of Jacob in his Karate Gi